Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I was elated when my boyfriend asked me to move-in with him. However, it has recently be announced that his little brother will not be moving out. His little brother is 23 and is a free-loader who has no plan or drive or realization that he is taking advantage of my boyfriend's condo. I will be expected to help pay the mortgage when I move-in... Also: My boyfriend travels for work every Mon-Fri. Therefore, I will be spending all of my time with the little brother; whom is a slob! I am very particular with keeping things neat and tidy - which my boyfriend appreciates! I think it is a hard enough adjustment to move-in with a significant other and I am afraid this added wrench to the situation (his little bro) is going to break-up my boyfriend and I! I want to live life and share life with my boyfriend... not entirely with his brother! Any advice with how to cope or how to convince my boyfriend that this is not a good idea?

2007-01-08 04:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by chocmartinigrl 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know so please let me know

2007-01-08 04:00:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why don't people take the time to get to know someone properly before they judge someone

have they never heard of the saying don't judge a book by its cover

theirs more to people than how they look or what they can do. dose no one care how they make others feel

2007-01-08 03:59:31 · 13 answers · asked by nat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I actually find it hard to bring up the topic on the first date, but sometimes thats all we talk about on the first date, you feel me?How long did you wait,or how long is it required to wait?

2007-01-08 03:59:14 · 7 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends ex-girlfriend still likes him and is trying to break us up. His family hates her and thinks she is a physco. She tells everyone she is over him, but when he's around she acts like she still does. She even wrote a poem on him for our English class and handed it in. She has a boyfriend now, but is basicall like if I can't have him, nobody can. She's a b**** and when they were going out they did stuff(not sex) but everything else. She was 16 and he was 18 at the time its now two years later. Whenever she's mad she treatens to report him for statuatory rape. But they didn't have sex and everything they did she agreed to do, so she wasn't forced. I hate her and want to confront her and so does he. He's afraid though she'll report him. I'm not though, actually I'm going to talk to her about it today. But it's annoying and I try not to let it bother me or show that it does bother me. Help?!?

2007-01-08 03:58:48 · 14 answers · asked by REA 1 in Singles & Dating

he dosent wanna go to school how can i make him and he just wont go to school and the school said if he dosent go to school in an hour that they wll be informing the cops of his actions and would be thrown in jail how can i make him go nothing will get him to go

2007-01-08 03:58:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To sexy to be using Yahoo, they should make a Sexy Yahoo for only sexy people like yourself and I, you know it

2007-01-08 03:58:03 · 22 answers · asked by STILL2FAR 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel really bad. can someone give me some good advice. i dont know what her reaction will be. i feel really down.

2007-01-08 03:55:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are madly in love and have been for three years, however i'm 21 ans he 22.
During a chat the other day he said he does want children "one day" about ten years from now but I can wait that long i want to start settling down within 4 years!!
I dont want to force him into anything in which he is not ready for nor does he want to hold me back from the family I've wanted for a while now!
I want to wait about 4 years as I want to have a house in myown name before bringing a child into the world!i want he or she to have a stable envirnment both for a home and emotionally in every way possible!

Does anybody have and serious advice guys and girls please help me!!
We dont wanna give up what we have but both want the other person to be happy.

2007-01-08 03:55:23 · 18 answers · asked by rosa_govan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before my husband and I got married he had a roommate who is also his cousin. When we got married we also bought a house. The roommate couldn't find someplace else to live with such short notice (we were engaged for 1 1/2 years). So we decided to let him live here while he continued to look for a place to live. It's been 8 months and he's still 'looking' (he does actually go to see places) he annoys the heck outta me, since he's constantly around, doesn't clean up after himself and often decideds to follow my husband and I on our dates...(we let him know we're going out to a movie that night, he decided to go too...in his own vehicle, then needs to see the same movie when we get there). Before we were married my hubby lived with this guy for 4 years....and doesn't really see the problem because he is often away because of work. I'm sick of this guy, I married my husband, not this other guy. I shouldn't have to clean up after his filthy lifestyle, he's not my husband or my child

2007-01-08 03:55:12 · 8 answers · asked by bluearia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it some sort of mothering instinct???

They should date/marry/whatever a man for the way he is, not for what they can change!!!

AND then to add insult to injury, they complain - "You're not the man I first met!!!" Of course not, you NEEDED to mess... Then they find someone else and do the same all over again!!!

2007-01-08 03:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

But the relationship is not going so well!!!!

2007-01-08 03:54:41 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A sunset at the beach with your man with a romantic evening to come,

or

A sunrise after spending the evening with your man?

2007-01-08 03:53:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a woman about 3 weeks ago online, I don't like to, but it sort of just happened. Anyway, I spoke with her online for about a week, got her number, and have spoke with her off and on for about a week and a half. She says that she is comfortable talking to me and that I make her feel comfortable, and our personalities get along really well. I am at the point to where I would like to ask her out on a date and meet her, but last night when I spoke with her, I felt like that paticular moment wasn't the right one. My question is, what is your take on this? Is it too early to ask her out?

2007-01-08 03:52:39 · 14 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:52:27 · 19 answers · asked by grace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a good longtime friend that I like her a whole lot and that I thought she was flirting with me. She said that she was not intending to flirt and I had misinterpreted her actions, but later during the same AIM conversation, she asked me what I thought about starting to share our deepest thoughts with each other. We could encourage each other she said. Why does she want us to share our deepest thoughts?

2007-01-08 03:52:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for awhile, until I went away. I came back and fell back in love with her, and then we decided it wouldn't work because we both had different ideas and views on the world. She is religious and I am not. That's the big debate. So my new years resolution was to forget about ever being more than friends with her again. Any suggestions as to how I do that?

2007-01-08 03:51:55 · 8 answers · asked by living_life_large 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 03:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In your own past experience what have you gone for, looks or personality?
Also explain different cases (serius relationship, one night stand, a fling, friends with benefits, etc...)
(Be honest please)

2007-01-08 03:51:17 · 30 answers · asked by Diego Rivera 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy who used to be soo cool last lear, really into music and he was alot of fun to talk with, then this girl came into my life and changed him, new clothes, new hair, new shoes...new person. I really miss talking to him, he ignores me now as if i never existed. She tells him what to do all the time when to shave, shower and what to wear, im sickened. I guess he doesnt mind it though cause theyre still together but do you think theyll stay together?

2007-01-08 03:51:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:51:04 · 12 answers · asked by Dan Iskha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had this best friend for a while now and lately shes been blanking me out and she seems more best friends with this other girl. She even told someone behind my back that she was best friends with the other girl. I wouldn't mind if she doesn't want to be BEST friends anymore and maybe just friends but she hasn't even told me and I feel quite sad. Oh and a different girl wants to be my best friend. What should I do??

2007-01-08 03:49:27 · 16 answers · asked by Babe, pig in the city ;) 3 in Friends

my babay daddy and i have beebn seeing each other for 6 years on and off, and this time i think he was cheating on me with some girls from forest b/c he never wanted to spend time with me and the baby. He was staying in forest alot, hanging with his boys, and everything else.

2007-01-08 03:49:14 · 17 answers · asked by nesha l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 03:48:53 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was visiting from Australia, and we met at the beach over the summer. We spent a woderful summer together playing in the surf and sitting on the rocks watching the waves. At the end of the summer, I was sad because I had to go back to Australia, even though he told me it wasn't the end, it was only the beginning. But plans changed and I stayed here in America. When I suprised him at the first pep rally of the school year, he acted excited for a moment, but then played it really cool in front of his friends and blew me off. I was so mad, I threw down my pom-poms and stromed off, crying.

He's the one that I want. What should I do?

2007-01-08 03:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by britanica1982 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep myself in good shape for her. I go to the gym 3 times a week and walk every night. The walking is in large part for my own health but the gym is mainly for her. We both agreed that the others physical appearance was very important to us at the beginning of our marriage 11 years ago. Now she has three kids and while I do not expect her body should look like a 21 year olds (she is 32) but I do want her to get her breast fixed. She breast feed our kids and now that all that is over and we are not going to have any more children I want her to have the boob job. She is not so sure she wants to. Before children she was a 36b cup and perfect in my eyes. Now I have no idea what cup size but they do not resemble the pre-kids boobs I loved. Am I asking too much?

2007-01-08 03:47:56 · 20 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the biggest turn-off than a guy can pull on you,that will make you not too comfortable? lol

2007-01-08 03:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Nando 3 in Singles & Dating

I have written here a while ago. About my ex-boyfriend who is turkish and the problems we've had. Eventually he broke up and now (AGAIN!!) he wants to get back with me. This must have been the 5th time he broke up with me and came back. I don't know if he's serious or just fooling around with me. Last time i saw him he even started crying about how much he loves me. I really dont know what to do. We've been together for 2 years and a half and broke up at the end of november. Its a long time. I don'tknow if i love him anymore or i am just hanging on to the past. I could really use some realistic opinion. is he crazy or just cannot make his goddamn mind?

2007-01-08 03:47:01 · 4 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Singles & Dating

i need to no how to make a free fake marrieage caertificate

2007-01-08 03:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by justin_singleton_2010@verizon.ne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 03:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by Carioca 1 in Marriage & Divorce