Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

When i found out my ex finally had sex with someone els after our break up i will never get back with him. How do you do it?

2007-01-08 04:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well, heres the case. my dad has a friend who lives in houston and we have become real close to his family. this man has a son who is 25 yrs old. i am 17. not too long ago, he kissed me. i was shocked and i ran away. now, i get scared whnever i se him because he always tries tio kiss me. i was watching a movie with him and my brother and when my brother wasn't looking, he grabbed my butt! i've tried to tell him not to kiss me anymore, but he is bigger and taller and i'm scared of him. should i tell someone before he tells them? i think he's obsessed with me...
is it my fault?

2007-01-08 04:40:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

...what would it be and why?

I'd change my breasts. one is much smaller than the other and I would even them out :)

2007-01-08 04:39:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to tell her that she should leave him alone because he is no good but i am scared that she is going to think i don't know what i am talking about. What should i do should i leave it alone or say something.

2007-01-08 04:38:55 · 15 answers · asked by ihaveadaughter16 1 in Family

my husband like takin me by my back & hurts no matter wot he does to make it slip easily it still hurts lot
he has a huge dick
i don't know how to tell him to stop takin me by the back
can someone advice?

2007-01-08 04:38:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married to my wife very quickly without either of us getting to fully know the other. We have been living together for 3 months now and we love and care for each other a lot. However, our personalities are quite different, and we have day-to-day problems relating to each other and enjoying each other's company, although we do not argue. We could stay together because of the love although we may be wasting our lives if there is often little enjoyment when we are together. What do you think we should do? Should we give ourselves a few more months to see if we can enjoy each other's company more, finish the marriage now, or resolve to stay together regardless?

2007-01-08 04:38:42 · 27 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he doesnt care where, he just want to spend some time with me..im so excited that he really likes me..all the romantic places to go when its summer time..where should we go when its cold like it is and still have a great time...we live in So.Cali.

2007-01-08 04:38:37 · 6 answers · asked by myjamai05 1 in Friends

We are paying for our wedding ouselves and live in S.F CA so it is very pricey. His whole family expects to come which will push our guest list to aprox. 150 + people. They expect a nice reception with alcohol etc but we can't afford this. They all are expecting to be invited and will be very disappointed if we elope. He is Irish Catholic so the traditional wedding thing is very important.All his friends brothers abd sisters have had very large affairs. What should we do ? I want to elope but I don't want to hurt my family especially my mom since I am her only daughter.

2007-01-08 04:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is it okay to like a guys who is no longer single?

2007-01-08 04:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by girly2012 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy told me he loved me but then goes 2 his ex (my best freand) and she gives him a ******** in the middle of mc donalds

2007-01-08 04:38:13 · 31 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you be in love with two different people at the same time.. Is this ever possible ?

2007-01-08 04:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by MIA 3 in Singles & Dating

our relationship was fine until the day I found out that I was pregnant and we decided to get married. Since then things getting rougher esp. after my kid was born. Had a talk with him and he told me after 4 years married he realise that he's not happy with being married. I love my husband very much and I dont want him to leave. This is not the first time that he told me that he's unhappy. He's willing to give it a try but he said that it doesn't work. He still feels unhappy with being married.

My heart is breaking into pieces.. What should I do? I want him to be happy, but I can't see my self facing the world alone with my toddler. Please help me.. I'm scared...

2007-01-08 04:37:56 · 16 answers · asked by minime_risk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 04:37:04 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is so annoying, everytime i go anywhere she has to come with me. Shes not very bright ( not to be mean) but everytime i try to help her at school, she starts callin me names. Ive tried asking her to stop being so annoying but she just goes 'yes MUM' and acts like i dont mean it. Shes the sort of girl that bullies always pick on and she hasnt really got any other friends so i cant just tell her to get lost!
What can i do????

2007-01-08 04:36:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay i have a boyfriend who i've been with since may of last year and i still like him, but there's this other boy who i really like and me and him hooked up..i was gonna break up with my other boyfriend but i've been told to wait (for what i don;t know) but i've thought about it and i don't wanna break up with either one of them. so what i'm really asking is should i keep both or just one?

2007-01-08 04:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by drena 1 in Singles & Dating

Trying to keep this PG....when you are alone...and do something by yourself...some type of pleasure...what do you think of?

2007-01-08 04:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by *~loveyouall~* 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been dating this guy for a while , the thing is that he has a daughter... i really really like him.... but when he told me about his daughter i was shocked, i mean dont get me wrong theres nothing bad with having a baby i really like him and everything ... but the fact of me meeting his daughter just frightens me .. what should i do ..??

2007-01-08 04:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by chulimami18 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she buys household products, cleaning ,laundry,yard,all shampoos soaps ,etc. she pays water/garbage &pg&e
he pays rent & cable
does he have the right to kick her out

2007-01-08 04:35:02 · 18 answers · asked by norcalygaly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 04:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Friends

i like this girl we went out a couple of times like friends shes very shy ! I told her the other day that i liked her and she has a thing for me two so we wanted to go out again, now what do i do coz that was the first time i told her i like her she thought i just wanted friendship but she was doubting her self so do i kiss her take her out somewhere she wont forget it ? what do i doo?do we just talk about things? Please what would you do in this situation ?

2007-01-08 04:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by LeonZe 2 in Singles & Dating

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk? HELP!

2007-01-08 04:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that most of us women grew up watching the story of Cinderella & wishing for that same fairytale ending where our Prince sweeps us off our feet & carries us to the castle where we marry & live happily ever after. However, when reality sets in, even as a single woman I realize that that is where the story really just begins. What happened after the wedding?

As a single woman I would really like to know first hand from married people how your own personal Cinderella story played out or IS playing out. Ladies....did you find your Prince Charming? Men....did you find your Cinderella? Is there really such as thing as happily ever after?

I don't want to waste my time & keep looking if this is just a fairytale. I don't want to just settle but I also don't want to live alone for the rest of my life.

Cinderella's & Prince Charming's out there, please respond.

2007-01-08 04:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Tiny Dancer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a 7 yr old busmate at school and for the first couple of months she was bullied by my other busmates. it was not really my concern and i didnt cared at all. but since i was the eldest and the only senior in the bus, our operator asked me a favor to protect the kid. sure thing i did till we became really really close. as in like I treated her like my real sister. i always treat her to her favorite food and stuff and i gave her really cool gifts last xmas. Coincedentally, ive been jogging(since last 2 yrs) in a certain route that passess by her house. i know her mom and maids see me, but i dont really care since i am just jogging. then one day going home, i decided to stop and sit across a bench to their house, i was really tired and need to rest. i think i sat there for about 40 mins. then got home. The next monday, her mother confronted me telling me to go away from her daughter. i asked what did i do to offend anybody and said i was stalking her. im really confused. HELP!

2007-01-08 04:32:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are all fifteen-year-olds always in a funk?

He is always in a strange mood. He's never really happy nor is he ever really sad. He fusses at his little sister. His step-dad (my husband) gets on his nervers. He rarely vists with his dad. He dislikes his step-mom. We used to be close (the ex-husband, new wife and my husband and me) so I have difficulty understanding this feeling toward her.

He doesn't like to be seen with any of us, but won't drive himself anywhere (in SC can drive at 15 1/2).

I thought he was doing drugs--had him drug tested. The test was negative.

I've taken him to a therapist, a psychologist and a psychiatrist to find out what his mood swings are all about. He likes talking to the Dr's, but he's never said anything to help them understand what is going on.

I have given up on the professional help and am going it alone. I'm beginning to think that he's fifteen and simply in a 15-year-old funk. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Help?

2007-01-08 04:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by CyndiDrum 4 in Family

me and my ex got back together after a 9mth or so split. previous to that we had a 8 year relationship. after me being there for her when i could and us not having sex or any sexual contact for 9 mth we somehow out of the blue got back toether i was not expecting it. it was amazing she was coming to my place which she said she never would i slept at hers we were going out everything for 3 weeks. it was amazing, then a few cracks came back from the past and i asked her about it (him) and she went cold on me, i gave hertime and just simply asked (what you doing tonight) every night for 2 weeks it was (nothing but staying in by myself and with our daughter) so eventually i couldnt take anymore of it she wouldnt talk to me about anything, and i said fine lets just forget it then. which i didnt mean. now she just wont talk to me at all apart from a small civil conversation when i pick my daughter up. now 3 weeks later i have gave up trying to talk as she has been very rude to me ---

2007-01-08 04:31:19 · 9 answers · asked by unknownladdh3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 04:31:18 · 13 answers · asked by sunseedgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by tac9274 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And if so, why did you regret it?

2007-01-08 04:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 04:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Once and again. Matters of the heart, this
situation seems to be beyond the mind. Eye
contact is a powerful form of communication.
Agreed. I just had this mind game classic, with
a woman, in a book store. Not that one. But
the queen of all of them. A brazen blonde.
A voluptuos woman, with an attitude. She likes
to wear these black casual pants, sometimes
with pockets. They fit her to a T. Anyway,
she has this issue with me. After watching me
get dates, and deep conversations with a few
women, in the store. She doesn't seem to like
that very much. A wee bit jealous are we ?
Facial expressions say a lot. Hard cold stares,
are a thing of the past. Now when I am alone
just to myself, she smiles, faintly. And yesterday,
she gave me that, after she passed by the first
time. Second time, a hard cold passionate,
stare. Then she was gone. This woman is talking loudly with her eyes. Single or not. What
is she saying to me ? Best answer wins.

2007-01-08 04:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships