When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk? HELP!
2007-01-08 04:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is never on her own, always with her friend, and I get shy easy!
2007-01-08 04:36:51 · update #1
What made me change my mind was at first I though she was rude and saying I was shy, would make fun off me, but now I see she is not like that!
2007-01-08 04:38:16 · update #2
hang on, i'm confused - do you mean you now have a crush on the girl you originally didn't like? or that you have a crush on someone else and you want the girl who likes you to show an interest to make you look popular or something?
oh well, i'm feeling generous so i'll give you an answer for both options...
if it's option a - she obviously backed off because you didn't seem to like her. she might have had a crush on you or maybe she was just being friendly - depends on her personality and how she is with other guys. if you've now decided you like her, you need to make the first move. just start smiling and saying hi, chat about the first thing that comes into your head, school, music, tv, the weather, anything! you just need to build up a bit of a rapport with her. if you both like each other it should be OK and easy to move from friends to "oh, we should totally go and see that movie" etc etc. one little p.s. - why didn't you like her to begin with? what's changed?
if it's option b - bad tactic! no one wants to be used to make someone else jealous so leave the first girl out of it, you meanie.
2007-01-08 04:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by amazingtessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly for most guys girls like it when you are open and honest. This girl put herself out there for you and tried to make you like her. By turning her down you will have damaged her self confidence and created some negetive feelings towards you.
To regain her interest you need to get back on even ground, build up a small friendship by talking to her, ask her opinion on things and make her feel good around you.
When you feel like she has forgiven you and is now friends with you, you can make a start on attracting her as a girlfriend.
The fact that she has already shown an interest in you should give you confidence. Start to give her small compliments, go out of your way to spend time with her and take an interest in her hobbies and interests. Remember to watch out for signs of her liking you back. Look out for how often she txts you, how often she smiles at you, tlks to you etc.
Most girls will expect you to make the first move so at some point you will have to ask her out or talk about how you feel. Ask her when you feel comfortable and if she says no at least you'll have made a friend.
Good Luck & God Bless x
2007-01-08 04:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by jesusfreakjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am like you,if you could just read this for a sec
well the girl who i have a crush on knows right now and is actually " trying to make me jeasulous"and playing hard to get,if you do want to tell go to her and talk about some random subject ( i have not done that yet) or if you are the shyer type like me talk to her in private(i have not done that).
The best thing is to become her best friend then later tell her okay
2007-01-08 04:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sammyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and ask if you can talk to her alone.Then tell her that you're sorry for what you said and tell her that you really think she is a lovely person(if you do).Tell her what you said here-that you are shy and thought she would make fun of you. She will understand. If you take her some flowers at the same time it will reinforce your words that you are serious about her. Then if she accepts your apology you can ask her out. Girls love flowers.
2007-01-08 04:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah come on be a man and go over to her and talk to her whats the worst that can happen
2007-01-08 04:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by flojo06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and chat to her first, I would imagine she liked you and then got upset at your attitude. You need to do some groveling and it will be fine... What made you change your mind?
2007-01-08 04:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over and talk to her when she is on her own.
2007-01-08 04:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have hot sex
2007-01-08 04:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by # 1 edge head (Mr DEDEDE) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋