okay i have a boyfriend who i've been with since may of last year and i still like him, but there's this other boy who i really like and me and him hooked up..i was gonna break up with my other boyfriend but i've been told to wait (for what i don;t know) but i've thought about it and i don't wanna break up with either one of them. so what i'm really asking is should i keep both or just one?
2007-01-08 04:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by drena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU'S A HO!!!! NO SERIOUSLY YOU'S A CHEAT!!!! NO SERIOUSLY JUST TELL THEM THE DEAL I DONT KNOW WHY YOU WOMEN GET INVOLVED WITH THESE GUYS TO END UP HURTING THEM........ AND THEN YOU WONDER WHY THERE ARE HARDLY ANY GOOD MEN LEFT IN THIS WORLD....... AND THEN YOU WONDER WHY THE MEN CHEAT ON YALL!!!!!!! YOU NEED TO BREAK UP WITH THE TWO OF THEM BECAUSE YOU DONT DESERVE NEITHER OF THEM !!!!!! CHEATER!!!!!
2007-01-08 05:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I must say that you are not an honest person at heart.
What you should do is tell the person you are dating that you cheated on him. If you truely care for him then why cause him more harm. He will find out sooner or later and when he does you will be playing with fire.
Be a real women and do what is right. Obviously there was a reason you did what you did. If you keep this a secret you are not being a very honest person to yourself especially.
You sound young and there is plenty of people out there so why tie yourself down if you are going to be like that. You are jkust going to cause problems for yourself in the long run.
2007-01-08 04:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Eric Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you're not really looking for the right answer... but a mere justification to your desire to keep both. It seems to me like you've already made up your mind to keep both, but internally you have moral issues with the idea and are looking for someone to help you justify it. My advice... keep one guy at a time. You'll have less headache trying to remeber who gave you what, who took you where, when you're suppose to go out with which one, etc. Best of luck.
2007-01-08 04:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Qcaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with both your only asking for trouble, obviousely one aalready knows about the other, and he is always gonna have trust issuses with you. The May guy sounds like he has no clue about what was going on. How would it feel if it was YOU getting walked all over.
2007-01-08 04:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on how old you are and what your doing at this point in your life.
For ex: If you young or just in that i don't want to be with just one person stage-
Then girl PARTY! Keep both guys , use them and abuse them or at least get what you can while you can.
* note that this will come with risk- you risk loosking both, hurning both and possibly yourself, and more*
But if your looking to be serious and settle down-
Decide which guy is better to and for you and use your bet judgment and stick with it!
2007-01-08 04:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kee-Kee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't ever keep both. Pick one. i think that you should stay with your old boyfriend. If he wants you to wait then just wait it maybe for the best.
2007-01-08 04:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a playa, be honest cuz in the end your the one thats gonna be left with out anyone.
2007-01-08 04:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by gamy2121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Light the candle at both ends and you will be the one who most certainly gets burned!
2007-01-08 04:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Brian H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell both you're not ready for a comitment yet and you want to date around, to make sure they are the right one. And date them both.
2007-01-08 04:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both accept your situation, go ahead and enjoy. Time will say
2007-01-08 04:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by robertonereo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋