I want to tell her that she should leave him alone because he is no good but i am scared that she is going to think i don't know what i am talking about. What should i do should i leave it alone or say something.
2007-01-08 04:38:55 · 15 answers · asked by ihaveadaughter16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Say something. I never care if anyone gets mad at me for what I say. Of course, I consider their feelings, but if after that consideratin I'm sure that I've come up with the right answer, I let it out. You'll feel really bad if you don't say anything then she gets hurt by this idiot, right? Say whatever you have to say---just don't use the term "idiot" She may not like that.
2007-01-08 04:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always say what you think to your sister! Especially if you might be saving her from a disaster. However, watch how you approach it. Don't just call him an idiot! Tell her you've made some observations and you want to share them with her. Be honest, but accept that she might not take your advice. Get over it if she doesn't, in the end it's her call.
2007-01-08 04:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person's idiot in another person's genius! Why do you think you know what you are talking about? Just because he seems like that to you does not mean that your sister sees him in the same light.
Talk to her and see what it is all about before you get any more involved!
2007-01-08 04:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, let go of the situation. It is not for you to be concerned about, let her find out for herself.
2007-01-08 04:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister dated an asshole for three years. None of us liked him, but he treated her well so we felt like we couldn't say anything to her. She's with a great guy now, but we wish we had said something to her about the *** she went out with... she said she would have listened to us. If you do say something to your sister, be careful in how you word it. Good luck!
2007-01-08 04:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by jaichan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody YOU have dated have NOT been winners. DON'T tell her to leave him. just be there for her when she's hurt...just dont kick her while she's down. right now...she thinks he's tolerable. her tolerance level WILL lower. dont worry. she has to date a few idiots here and there so that when THE ONE comes along, she will be able to recognize him better and apreciate him more.
2007-01-08 04:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by misslilbit86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your her sister. That gives you the right to tell her she's dating an idiot. In fact, it's your job!
2007-01-08 04:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an ugly but normal situation. the only thing you can do is tell her that you don't care for the guy, but you support her decisions. It gives her the respect she needs and builds trust for future events. If you say nothing at all.... it will seem that you KNEW nothing at all. But remember, BE SUPPORTIVE.
2007-01-08 04:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone, she will figure it out, the same way you did. Just support her when it happens.
2007-01-08 04:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for Gods sake say what you want to her and be honest with everyting you feel. Even if she blows you off what you said will be in the back of her mind when she is with him.
2007-01-08 04:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋