well, heres the case. my dad has a friend who lives in houston and we have become real close to his family. this man has a son who is 25 yrs old. i am 17. not too long ago, he kissed me. i was shocked and i ran away. now, i get scared whnever i se him because he always tries tio kiss me. i was watching a movie with him and my brother and when my brother wasn't looking, he grabbed my butt! i've tried to tell him not to kiss me anymore, but he is bigger and taller and i'm scared of him. should i tell someone before he tells them? i think he's obsessed with me...
is it my fault?
2007-01-08 04:40:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This isn't your fault that he's doing that. It's his own. You didn't tell him to grab your butt or kiss you.
You should definitely tell somebody before things get worse. That guy needs to get some self control and back off. Since you're not 18, you are not an adult yet. Therefore, he can get in big trouble if he doesn't change his ways soon.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 04:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no chick it's not your fault. This guy is doing a really terrible thing to you and knows it, you said no, that should be the end of it. Don't be scared to tell your dad, he can sort it all out for you. Good luck
Rosie
2007-01-08 06:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is not your fault. And yes, tell your dad. You should not have to fear being in your own home when he is there visiting. He should not be allowed to visit your home if he cannot respect it. Big brothers are usually protectors of their sisters. Have you talked to your brother about his friend? Since he has the "balls" to touch you without your consent, "touch not so gently" where it hurts the most for him.
2007-01-08 05:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by desstan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop visiting these people, you are old enough that you don't have to tag along on every visit. Explain to your mom what the problem is. It sounds like this man is a little on the sick side and you look like easy pickings. Or next time grab the jewels and twist, he will most likely fall like a tree so move out of the way.
2007-01-08 04:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL YOUR DAD RIGHT NOW!
This is not your fault. If this guy is making unwanted advances toward you, he has an issue that he needs to work on. Just tell your dad and get some help.
2007-01-08 04:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never your fault when someone acts like a jerk. Tell your dad, tell your brother and if that doesn't get any attention tell the police.
2007-01-08 04:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hun, it ain't your fault. Guys do that all the time and they will come back for more. You should tell someone because its sacatory rape because ur 17 and he's 25
2007-01-08 04:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and you should have informed your dad imediatly
How can you imiagne it might be your fault?
and why didn't your brother know you were in trouble?
2007-01-08 04:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just wrong. You should tell your family bout dats.because he shoud take his lesson for the sexual harassment. You cant deal wit it alone ,you need a man stands beside you to face this pervert.Face to face
2007-01-08 04:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by danial rulli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely tell your dad.
you should never be around anyone who makes you feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable.
and dont think its your fault. hes an adult whos in control of his own actions and hes being a prick.
2007-01-08 05:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by cryingtree1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋