Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I just read in the magazine that girls 8-25+ are taking virginity pledges at special balls with their dad. Do you feel this is right or wrong?

My personal thought is if a girl wants to remain a virgin, she can just declare it to herself without telling the world about it.

2007-01-08 04:52:45 · 17 answers · asked by * 1 in Weddings

no sex, just kissing with tongue???

2007-01-08 04:51:30 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do I ask/know if she is already going out with someone?

2007-01-08 04:50:43 · 30 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

B4 u assume that I'm some 13 year old, i'm actually 20 and this would be my second date with a girl ever (same as first date). I was thinking of taking her out for dessert on thursday night. It wouldn't be a long thing, (830 to 9 or 930). We can't go out on the weekind because she works friday night and i work saturday night. She also has a baby that her mom can watch for her, but i realise that the kid has to come first for her.

2007-01-08 04:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

my friends all like the same guy and they are so obessed. I liked it when it wasn't all BOYS BOYS BOYS. I'm so sick of it. Should i tell them the truth or just play along.

2007-01-08 04:50:19 · 15 answers · asked by Pandax 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean he is really cute and can be sweet @ times....but omg...ewwwy! right??

its only are second date and hes talkin about the mechanincs and details of pesonal bowel problems and the medical fight against them through dietary means and organic means... wtf???

this took up half the night...

2007-01-08 04:49:21 · 4 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced male who can get a little fed up with my own company at times. How can I talk to people on computer.
Any one else like me?

2007-01-08 04:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I fancy this girl, she has a bebo/myspace. I think she USED to fancy me, but I am shy! If I post a message on her bebo saying "Hey, want to go out somtime", then maybe 5minutes later post one saying "Hey sorry my friend was up and posted this why I was getting a drink LOL", will I be able to judge by her reaction if she likes me. EG. If she says Ohh, ok, nvm : she isent interested?

2007-01-08 04:48:11 · 39 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:48:03 · 2 answers · asked by gazooks 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:47:53 · 12 answers · asked by ol' mack 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my bf were having a long distance relationship for the past year and a half. It was getting difficult because we really missed being around eachother so he moved to my state and we got our own apartment.This is a first for both of us. We are both 22 and its our first time away from home. Weve always had to go to hotels and pay crazy amounts of money just to be alone and make love. We moved in on the 29th of december and i swear we've only had sex about 4 times.Trust me thats a very low number for us. Thing is its not me its him. He doesnt really seem interested in sex to much. He goes straight to sleep at night. Its starting to piss me off. I feel that maybe the fact that he knows he has full access to me now is making him not really interested. Maybe before when it was harder to get to me it was more exciting and more of a turn on? What could it be? Yester day i asked him if he wasnt attracted to me anymore..but i asked in a joking way. He got mad that i asked that. What now?

2007-01-08 04:47:43 · 12 answers · asked by yesindeed 2 in Singles & Dating

how does this work and also bath jets?

2007-01-08 04:46:31 · 17 answers · asked by australiaxxxiluvu 1 in Singles & Dating

Our mother used loss of pocket money, spanking and sending to the bedroom for minor things.

Her leather belt was used for more serious incidents on two occasions.

2007-01-08 04:46:27 · 12 answers · asked by showersofapril 1 in Family

2007-01-08 04:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by princessnic93 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend, and soon to be fiance is the love of my life. I couldnt have found somebody that fits better than me and him do. He is my best friend, and i feel so blessed each day. But heres the catch. He USED TO smoke. He smoked pot, cigars, cigs. And i have spent my life as being somebody who is completely against all of those activities. He never let it get the best of him though, he thought as long as he keeps up his grades it was ok to do it. And even his family knew but didnt make one effort to stop him. And that to me is just a bunch of lame excuses. Even though hes stopped for me and for good, it still bothers me that when it comes to that topic we dont see eye to eye, since its always been such a big deal to me. And i hate that he still doesnt regret it. How can i get it to stop bothering me..Every time i think about it i get so grossed out..

2007-01-08 04:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is pregnant for another woman's husband.(not a surrogate mother).She is having a sexual realtionship with a married man and she is supposed to be a christian

2007-01-08 04:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family

like if we think we're ugly we will see ourselves as that

2007-01-08 04:46:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi my name is lizz and i dont kno what to do but this is the hardest thing i ever had to do was i broke up with my best friend my lover for almost two years because i found him cheating on me it hurts bad all i did was love him and give him what he needed and now look were iam at single lonly and i miss him but i dont want to take him back for what he did!!! and i sucks because everytime iam with a friend iam fine but asone as i step on foot in the door i start crying and going in sain what the hell can i do!!! could you give me some tips on what to do!!! thanx for the help!!!!

2007-01-08 04:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Singles & Dating

basically i saw this guy in a wedding yesterday,

hes from the us,

hes staying in a house near me,

2day i went to the house and asked 4 him, but he wasnt there :(

i onlii have 3 more days...and after that i'll never see him again..

do u think i should go 2 the house + ask 4 him again??

I really wanna see him again..he might have been at a different house, but i cant go again cos all the people recognise me..they know my mum well, so should i go with a friend??

please help..i cant stop thinkin bout it..:(

(it was like love at first sight :P)

2007-01-08 04:46:02 · 2 answers · asked by bad to the bone 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by Youa H 1 in Weddings

funny - i own a house with my soon to be ex boyfriend.....he's taking me to court, trying to say we are common law married since we own the house - and now i find out - his ex wife bought a house - in her name - and i'm sure that he is living there.....but, after several years of dating this guy - how can he do this?

2007-01-08 04:45:17 · 12 answers · asked by regis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so me and my friends went to a nice strip club by our college like we do every xmas break. I was sitting there and a beautiful dance came up to mea nd we talked for like an hour or so and of course my friends were mad because they say i take all the girls everywhere i go but i just tell them that they come to be which is true. So anyway she gives me her number after a lap dance and wants me to call... i call her and me and my friends went and partied with her and her friends all night and i eneded up hooking up with her that night. She is like starting to like me now that we talk a little. What do I do cause that night was like something you only see in hollywood but it happened to me and iam confused.

2007-01-08 04:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by aaylan58 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by tina f 1 in Family

do you think i should get checked? we did it in all the positions. but i never used a condom.... i was a bit drunk at the time. but boy you cant beat sex without a condom. its heaven!!

2007-01-08 04:44:21 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with her, i made her laugh, we did everything together for 2 years... Then she went to college... we had some arguements about pictures we went on a break...From there it was all up and down... On and OFF


her first reason for justification was " i dnt wnna compromise my career" her second was "i dnt wnna be in a relationship"


she even told me i could hook up with other girls (does this mean shes guilty of something?)


despite the fact that when i caught her in a lie she asked me if there was still a chance of US,

despite the fact that we still kissed through out this whole period,

despite the fact that she kept saying i love you (i stoped recently)
(i told her to do the same too cuz it doesnt mean anything)



Ahh... I never met i girl i could be my self around and now i dont even know where i stand... what the hell... saying I love you but then lieing to me about hanging out with another guy when shes back in town... sayingu love me but not wnting to go out

2007-01-08 04:43:46 · 4 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Singles & Dating

she's doing one of these type of things:

Ribbon
Elephant
Dead dog

(yes, that one sucks
but you get the point)

2007-01-08 04:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by cool_flattop 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:41:40 · 25 answers · asked by Nikki B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been chatting with this guy on and off for about 5 years he seems perfect. We get along great talk on the phone for hours. Is it safe to fall in love over the internet? Has anyone ever met some one online and had it worked out?

2007-01-08 04:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by Licha 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 43 & she's 39.
Basically we broke up because her dream is to be an at-home-mom and we determined we could not do it without our 2 salaries (we need $78K annually). We'd be married with kids if we had the ability ($). Any ideas?

2007-01-08 04:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by Dazedandconfused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If yes, does it cause any trouble?

2007-01-08 04:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by I'm Still Here 5 in Marriage & Divorce