How do I ask/know if she is already going out with someone?
2007-01-08 04:50:43 · 30 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her! "so, do you have a boyfriend?"
OR
Just stalk her
One of these options won't make you look like a freak and ruin your chances!
2007-01-08 04:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by kchick8080 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my techniques usually get them to blurt it out somehow..
1- speak to her about one of her guy mates she hangs around with alot.. but say this in a jokey way..
"oh is that your bf haha?" or.. "yea i saw u and ur bf before"
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correct response:: haha hes not my bf just a friend. i dont even have a bf atm.
2- THIS IS USUALLY A DEAD GIVEAWAY..
if she ever says like "oh i hate guys" or "theres lots of idiots around here" or "i hate guys like that" or mentions how her exes treated her badly.. it means she is not being treated good 'at the moment' and is pointing out to you what she doesnt want 'in' a guy which usually means she is looking for a guy who will treat her better than them.
Think.. If she was with someone already she wouldnt be winging about guys being horrible to her.
Bring up a guys/girls convo in general and maybe bring up the exes convo. she may feel comfortable enough to mention enough info to you. However if she doesnt say much dont worry she may just like you and doesnt want you to think she is still attatched to her exes.
3- if she happens to be on her phone all the time and never really spends time with her mates she may already be seeing someone e.g texting her bf.
4- If she denies liking a guy when your there she will definately be single.
Unless she has a bf and likes another guy at the same time.. not the type of girl to go for.
5- you can ask her who she likes at the moment or if she likes anyone at the place/college or w/e you are. If she has a bf she will probably mention it in the convo.
6- or you can ask her straight, do u have a bf? or your friend could ask her the question for you.
just some ideas.. hope it helps.
2007-01-08 05:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by CoolD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omw I know how annoying it is to ask this question! You don't want them to know that you're asking because you're interested but generally the best thing to do is ask calmly during a friendly conversation. When I asked he didn't mind and he didn't suspect a thing. I just waited for amoment when we were laughing about our friends andI asked 'do you have a girlfriend? Cause I haven't a clue!' he told me no and it was great lol. Go for it!
Good luck & God bless x
2007-01-08 05:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by jesusfreakjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I Think you Just go up to her, Unless your Shy which Probably means you Are...So anyways Go up to Her and ask her Out for a Drink or Something And How you know if she's Seeing somebody, She'll blow you off and Say No thanks, Or Better yet Say, Sorry, I Have a boyfriend...And Don't forget to check her Left hand For a Ring...She might be Married!
2007-01-08 04:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by kittysweetie19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to you can be like hey do you think we could go out sometime to see if we can possibly more than friends.
I would think if she was dating someone and y'all talk often she might have mentioned his name if not more than likely she is not dating anyone or she is and looking for a replacement!
But you have to understand you might be in for a let down if she is dating someone.
Good luck and I hope you get what you want!
2007-01-08 04:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by teacuptiff86042002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good ? i must say but let me tell you if you throw her a smile and say hi you will catch her attention you dont wanna be too abvious when it comes to really wanting to get to this girl so make a move... but not on her b/c that could push her away if you slip.... slide in gently bump into her on accident and say im sorry and start a conversation and ask her to go out that weekend to make it up to her and see how things go or just simply do it the boring way and just say hey lets go somewhere one weekend... you play it your way you'll do fine im sure!!!
2007-01-08 05:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER by saying fancy meeting up for a drink with a few mates then say bring ur fella with ya if u like, then she will respond by saying yeah great idea or no i dont have one, if so get in there and good luck
2007-01-08 04:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you simply need to ask her out. If she is dating someone else, she'll probably tell you (unless she wants to play some little games).
Unfortunately, you can never be 100% sure what she's doing, you need to trust her and hope that she'll be honest.
2007-01-08 04:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a hypothetical question about boyfriend/girlfriend.
2007-01-08 04:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Janne -Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if she has a bf. it gives ehr the message that ur into her but doesnt sound like ur trying to get it off or anyhting.
2007-01-08 04:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋