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She is pregnant for another woman's husband.(not a surrogate mother).She is having a sexual realtionship with a married man and she is supposed to be a christian

2007-01-08 04:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships Family

She says she is very happy.He has promised he will support and be there for her because he wants a divorce.

2007-01-08 05:04:11 · update #1

26 answers

Her world will come to a crashing end when that man decides to stay married when he figures out it is cheaper to keep her. He will be paying alimony child support and whatever else there could be. She is delusional and stupid for getting int hat mess and think her life is gonna be happily ever after. God don't like ugly and that what she's doing.

2007-01-08 05:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0 1

No, i would'nt be happy for her at all. I know she's my sister or friend, but i could never condone her sleeping with a married man. She must be very gullible if she believes this guy will leave his wife for her, if he was going to leave his wife, he would've done by now. This guy wants his cake & eat it & i feel sorry for the baby. I don't understand people bringing children into the world when they're in very unstable relationships. It's so cruel on the child. Anyway, what makes this sister or friend think that he won't cheat on her (if they get together)? cos once a cheat always a cheat in my book & what goe's around comes around, she will get her cummupence one day, But if that 'one day' did come, i will be there for her, cos after all she is a sister or friend.

2007-01-08 14:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by CHELSEAGIRL 2 · 0 0

No i wont be pleased with her actions, neither should she have slept with a married man. But at the end of the day, no one is perfect + the guy wants to be there for the kid and he is getting a divorce.
If god can forgive us for our sins why cant humans look past our mistakes in life? Tell her not to worry about what people think, cause people will always judge you no matter what she does. Just ask god to forgive her for the mistake she made; sleeping with the married man.
I wish her well with her baby.
take care

2007-01-08 15:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0 0

unfortunately she put the cart before the horse... She will find great disappointment very soon and the child will suffer.
Most married men who cheat do not leave thier spouses.
If they cheat on one, they will cheat on the next.
She will learn a hard lesson in life here.
If she is smart she will give the baby up for adoption.
being a single parent with empty promised from the other parent is no fun.
whether she is a christian or not has nothing to do with it.
Some people just make bad decisions in life and look for love with the wrong people.
He will forgive her as He does all sinners.

2007-01-08 13:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0 0

well, I take it you find it difficult to be happy for her don't you.
yeah, I would too; I would think that she's an idiot and that she is letting the guy take advantage of her.
But then, I would realize that it's her life and well, it does take two to tango.
Obviously it's not the best of situations, and possibly she will break a family.
But, what's done is done and I've now learnt not to be too judgemental, because I've learnt that things are never black and white.
So, it's her choice, I suppose, once you've let steam off, you should make peace with her.
It's her life, not yours;
And this baby has done nothing wrong, and you cannot reject it because of its parents' behaviour.
So; Let her be. x

2007-01-08 14:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0 0

then she should know better, surely? ofcourse a baby is a wonderful thing, but sounds like the wrong circumstances to be having a child in really. especially if she wishes to raise the baby christian xxx

2007-01-08 12:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by hana woo 4 · 1 0

i would not be happy with the sister or the friend but there is nothing you can do if she is happy then let her get on with it just give her support when and if she needs it

2007-01-08 14:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Nicola S 1 · 0 0

wow!!!that's deep. if she is happy and realistic about the situation that has been created, then yes...i would be happy. but if she has that dumb idea that he's gonna leave his wife and be dedicated to her and this child then i would slap her senseless, check her into a nut house and raise the child as my own!

2007-01-08 12:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by misslilbit86 1 · 0 0

omg! what a mess! She is living in a dream land and like others have said on here she is going to left on her own with a child in toe ....what was she thinking??

2007-01-08 15:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jp 3 · 0 0

i wouldn't say i will be happy, but i would be there for her and give her support. You know she's doing the wrogn thing, but you're her friend. You need to be there for her!


good luck!

2007-01-08 13:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by billy 1 · 1 0

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