the love of my life and my story, where do i stand...?

Question

I fell in love with her, i made her laugh, we did everything together for 2 years... Then she went to college... we had some arguements about pictures we went on a break...From there it was all up and down... On and OFF


her first reason for justification was " i dnt wnna compromise my career" her second was "i dnt wnna be in a relationship"


she even told me i could hook up with other girls (does this mean shes guilty of something?)


despite the fact that when i caught her in a lie she asked me if there was still a chance of US,

despite the fact that we still kissed through out this whole period,

despite the fact that she kept saying i love you (i stoped recently)
(i told her to do the same too cuz it doesnt mean anything)



Ahh... I never met i girl i could be my self around and now i dont even know where i stand... what the hell... saying I love you but then lieing to me about hanging out with another guy when shes back in town... sayingu love me but not wnting to go out

i couldnt keep my cool though... I found my self crying infront of her damn near 5 times... She wuld hang out with me during the day and go out during the night a few times....


eventually after the up and down stuff I told her i cant do this.... i lov eher to muchl....

didnt respond to her merry xmas message,

i confirmed her facebook status update that we dont talk anymore,

and she made a chat with fake sn's and i vented my anger and sed i hated ppl who hurt me by lieing ignoring forgetting about me, etc...



however.... i love her much and i wnt her back ..

DO I MAKE AN ATTEMPT TO CONTACT HER, WHT DO I SAY, HOW DO I DO IT.

Answer 1

It sounds to me as if you are suffering through the uncertainties of a first love. As painful as this is, believe me that you will love again and you will learn valuable lessons from each relationship that you go through. It sounds as if your partner is confused and not certain of wanting to make a committment. Give the relationship some space. Either it will become the great love of your life or it will dissolve and you will go on to better things. Good luck.

Answer 2

Sounds complicated. And matters of the heart are never easy. But when in love, you cant have a relationship without trust and honesty. Otherwise you will always be paranoid about what shes up to, or question what else shes lied about. It will lead to a rocky relationship. I know you must care alot about her.. but are you guys still truly happy. or are u just holding on to memories of what you used to be?
Just saying i love you doesnt mean much, you have to prove it. Its more than just words.
I think you guys need to really talk and decide where this is going, and if your intentions or feelings have changed.
Good luck!

Answer 3

This can go on for years. Cut to the chase and find somebody you can have an honest relationship with.

Answer 4

yaar ladki vadki ke bare mein zaaayda mat sooch ye aati zati rahti hai enjoy life and search another babes