2007-01-08 03:06:41 · 13 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is your gift to give, and you don't have to give it to anyone unless you are sure you want to.
If this boy is pressuring you, then he isn't a man yet and only men should have sex. Tell him to chill. If he doesn't chill, then he's not worth your time.
2007-01-08 03:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking strangers on the internet if you're ready to have sex or not yet... Honestly think about this. This isn't something you can just take back. He's 16, and I get a weird vibe already-he's preying on you. Only you know if you're ready-don't let him pressure you into it. Is this a summer fling-someone you'll be over in another month? If he really loves you, he'll stick around and wait until you think you're ready. Otherwise, tell him to **** off.
2016-05-23 10:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to you and your boyfriend things you do in your personal lives are important, the one thing you could try to do is express that you are not ready for that and why. If your boyfriend loves you for you then he will respect your wishes if not then you have a problem and it will be up to you and him to work it out or call it quits. If you are not ready for this kind of thing then your not and he can not make you do anything you don't want to do.
2007-01-08 03:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres other alternatives than just having sex, you know what i mean you can do plently of other things until you feel ready for sex, but if he keeps pushing you into sex then thats probably really the only thing he wants out a relationship, which is nothing more than a booty call
2007-01-08 03:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that he's old enough that his wants shouldn't hurt him. Don't compromise your desires or lack there of. If he loves you, he will wait. Once you have had sex with him, he's going to want it all the time (from my own experience) so let him wait till the time is right for you and by him waiting shows he's really into the love just as much as the sex.
2007-01-08 03:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It's nothing that you are missing out on. alot of things come with having sex. tell him no. if he respects you he will wait until you are ready. if he doesn't take that then tell him BYE BYE!!!
2007-01-08 03:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by PrettyGirl23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready and if he can't accept that, leave him.
2007-01-08 03:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready then don't do it. Simple as that.
2007-01-08 03:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are not ready and if he keeps pushing you split up.
2007-01-08 03:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually you're going to do it, but if you don't feel comfortable now just talk to him and tell him that you will do this but not now,this way he will be patient too.
2007-01-08 03:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋