the problem is my best friends wife is making passes at me i believe. She is always hugging on me and inviting me over when my friend is there or not. I told him about it but he just says thats the way she is, she is just a touchy friendly person who looks at his friends being her friends. she has never made any unapporpriate passes at me i suppose, nothing more than hugs but i just feel uncomfortable with her hugging me so much and willing to let me come over when he is not there. She is hot and i dont want to do anything to lead her on. Pleas help!!!!!
2007-01-08 03:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by mr_football2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how this makes you feel. She may just be as your friend has suggested a touchy/feely person. If he is such a great friend then you will not try and act on any advances and just tell her to back off (if she wants to take the relationship farther). But it does sound like she is just trying to be friendly and perhaps your viewing things wrongly.
2007-01-08 03:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must not be much of a problem if you keep going when your friend is not home. Maybe you should call ahead of time and make sure he is there before you leave. You should not be going over another womans house in the first place when her husband/boyfriend is not home. You might be setting yourself up for something and I don't mean a romp in the bed. You should be more careful and don't go over there when your friend is not there. I don't think your lady friend or wife , if you have one, would be happy knowing you let another female touch on you. I think you should set old girl straight!!! She has a man and her man must not be much to let her feel and hug on other men in the first place, friend or no friend. Somethings do have limits. Good luck!!
2007-01-08 16:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by D. D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable you should not place yourself in a situation that may lead to you compromising what you already feel. You should stop her before she begins to hug you and put out your hand instead. You should stop going to her house without your friend being there or bring someone else with you so that the opportunity to do anything more will result in you two leading one another on.
2007-01-08 04:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her and perhaps him that you're not comfortable with her hugging you all of the time. Don't be rude about it though. Just explain that you don't want to cause problems with you and your friend in the end. As far as you going over there when he's not there, just because the offer is put out there doesn't mean you have to take her up on it. She's not forcing you to visit while he's not there so don't go.
2007-01-08 03:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you go over, always make sure your friend is going to be there, outside of not being friends with him, there is nothing you can do about her. The only thing you can do is to either remove yourself from the situation, by always seeing your friend outside of the home, or accepting it and still keeping some distance when you are in their home. Good luck as that is a catch 22 and a sticky situation no matter what you do.
2007-01-08 03:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Elvira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you haven't stopped going over there so it hasn't bothered you that much. You certainly have thought more than once about phucking her brains out. Rather than feel uncomfortable about the hugging, drill her and then you can feel uncomortable about something more worthwhile.
2007-01-08 03:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just like that. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, limit your exposure to her but try not and let this cut into time you spend with him.
2007-01-08 03:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well instead of you always going over there invite your friend over to your house instead of going to his wifes house, or you and your friend could go out and do guy things, but i dont think you should go over to your friends house when he isnt there something about that just doesnt seem right
2007-01-08 03:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So just don't go over when your friend's not there, and don't invite her inside when your friend isn't with her. She'll eventually get the message.
2007-01-08 03:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just limit your visits to when your best friend is there. dont go over there unless he is there.
2007-01-08 03:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by yensenm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋