Alright.. I know this may sound stupid and i will appriciate it if there were no rude immature comments.. But here it goes.. My girlfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks.. Every day with her is a laugh and a half.. Saturday night was a dance and everything went perfect but the thing is i miss her so much and i always think about her and i worry about her which makes me panic. My friend says I have a big heart because im always worrying about someone else.. People just tell me i need a vacation from all this crap.. Which hopefully im gunna do this weekend.. Takeing a car trip to my friends town and gunna be with them for a while.. Well typeing it out actually makes me feel a little better.. This Yahoo Answers thing is a great idea.. Helped me threw alot of *&%$.. But i guess the question is: How do i truly clear my mind and get my mind off all the stupid crap which i shouldnt be worrying about. Girls etc etc.. Dont say just change my mind.. I have ADD its kinda hard.. haha
2007-01-08 03:19:01 · 9 answers · asked by eighty dee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is great that you love this girl and you worry about her that is what you are supposed to do, but don't take to the extreme of having a body guard for her. If you want to clear you head the idea of taking a trip is certainly a good idea and you and your friends can plan to do something, whatever it is, but you don't have to not call every now and again to see how she is doing and let her know that you took a trip and let her know when you will be back so she does not start worrying about you. I am sure everything will work out just fine, it does not hurt to clear our heads every now and again, that way we think about what we want to say and why we think this way. Just remember to be true to yourself and other people will be true to you.
2007-01-08 03:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems a little 'intense' after only 3 weeks! Sometimes people obssess and focus on only one aspect of their life (romance/relationships) to avoid having to think about other areas or issues. Whilst on the surface it seems quite generous to think of others and worry about them, it can be an effective distraction technique. I'm glad you enjoy your girlfriends company but maybe you could relax a little more. You need to look to your own psyche to understand why you think about her so much, miss her when you're apart, then panic. What is it you're afraid of? Try talking to your friends or maybe a Counsellor.
2007-01-08 03:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is you should get yourself busy with several girls. try not to stay with one girl yet, you need to experience more about girls. if you have 5 or 6 girlfriend at the same time you never worry about any of them, and don't let them feel special so they are always there for you, although you might not like them all but this the what you need to do, several girlfirend at the same time for a while so you'll never have that panic again.
2007-01-08 03:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by TimTim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda good to worry about someone else but don't stress yourself over it. just go out have fun, relax to get your mind off it.
2007-01-08 03:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyGirl23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the most honest answer I can think of .... "Why worry about somebody or something if you have no control over it?"
2007-01-08 03:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by draygonfli_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing! Go and clear your head and relax!
2007-01-08 03:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep yourself busy. If your worring about girls, then you have to much time on your hands.
2007-01-08 03:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink a lot of beer!!!
2007-01-08 03:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE ANOTHER PUFF DUDE
2007-01-08 03:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋