I'm in love with someone that only cares for me as a friend. We have been going out as friends for a month and I truly fell in love with him but he seems to still miss his last girlfirend. On the other hand I've also have a friend that has fallen in love with me. I don't know what to do.
2007-01-08 03:34:51 · 10 answers · asked by bachlorette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tricky one.
Whats the point in being with someone when you know they dont feel as strongly about you as you do with them.
If it was the choice between the two, i would go for the person that loves me (as long as i have an attraction and rappor with him).
If youre not happy either way...keep them both as friends and find someone else.
Good Luck.
2007-01-08 03:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Flower Power 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no pressure for you to do anything, why not just see what happens?
If you need to tell this friend you have fallen in love with him, take your time and be honest but also be careful! Love sometimes hurts!
This other friend will understand if he loves you, just tell him that you like someone else whats the problem as long as you're tactful I don't see a problem!
2007-01-08 11:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the friend who misses the ex. See what happens when/if he ever gets over her. Don't wait around necessarily. You dont love the other guy, so why try to force something that's not there? You dont want to be hurt, so dont hurt your friend either- KARMA!
2007-01-08 11:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Heather Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the person who loves you if you like him
2007-01-08 11:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by sara69251 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait and stick with the one you love who ALSO loves you back. You can't be happy otherwise! Good luck.
2007-01-08 11:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by sprggb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like the other guy that lovz u then just be friends with the guy that is still in love with tha past.
2007-01-08 11:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by taylor f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you. I think it is pointless for you to choos the guy who will probably never fall for you. I would go witih the one who loves you, b ut that is just me.
2007-01-08 11:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the one you're with!
2007-01-08 11:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tricky, i mean its always good for someone to love you, but if you dont love this person then your not gonna be happy, so idk what you should do try dating this guy that LOVES you and see if u have feelings for him
2007-01-08 11:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..seems like someone is in your shoes...(you like someone who likes someone else, and someone likes you ....who likes someone else)...boy that is rare. Go for the one that likes you.
2007-01-08 11:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by chillie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋