i was in a one year and six month relationship... im afraid he is goin to try to come bck... its been 7months we have been apart but he called me like a few days ago...
telling me that he wanted to see me what wld i do if he showed up... that he was hundred percent sure i wld kiss him bck if he did ... ect
i tld him he better not dare to try to interfere into my life that i was happy and because the fct he was so jealous maid a great impact in my life ect... that now i can't be serious and that i don't care much about ppl or wut i do n e more...
he said " not even your boody call" i said "no are you stupid i am scared of you and i don't want to end up hurt" he said, "i though u didn't care... why should it bothr u" & said, " i knw if i go over there & kiss u, you will kiss me bck i know it..." i don't knw what to do and think give me advice.. i truely think 1 of this days his goin2 try2 *** bck N show up. i don't knw if i should trust him.. when above everythin he never trust me
2007-01-08 03:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't talk to this person ever again. He is playing with you. Maybe he is lonely or bored right now. But for sure he does not have good intentions.
2007-01-08 03:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 learn to type and use the check spelling, it took me a while to desiffer this question of yours.
If you feel you don't trust him then don't. You can do better and the part of if he kissed you, you'd kiss him back...Well duah! That's a natural human responce especially for those who have had a relationship before.
Don't let him back into your life, he sounds like a player and he knows how to use people very well.
2007-01-08 04:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust him and don't kiss him back. Seven months apart is a long time and you are on the right track. Tell him you don't want him to come around. If someone told me to stay away, I would.
You could tell him your seeing someone else, this may help him get the picture.
2007-01-08 03:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and telling him your afraid of him is what he wants and that is going to be his way of controling you if so act a right cow n stick your nose up at him to show him whose in control where as if you would want him back then openly discuss your feeling n emotions with him n c if you both can settle an agreement , but from my point of view stick to not wanting him its very likely that hes been dumped or something happened to conntact you out of the blue , end of the day all he really wants to do is to do his buisness with you leave n come back whenever he likes 'not even a booty call ' ,
x good luck lv me x
2007-01-08 03:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by xoxfrozenkissesxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your heart desires him and you want to come back between his arms my advice to you is to change your way with him 180degrees you should know why he left you and why he wants you back what did he do in the time he was away from you and you should make him trust you its an obligation otherwise you don't come back to him the relationship isn't about sex only it has to involve respect and mutual trust if he can't give them to you then he doesn't worth it you have to put him through tests and don't show him that you missed him play with his emotions to have a revealing over his inner feelings all my good wishes to you in a happy life
2007-01-08 03:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as long as you have told him to stay away he can't do anything. If he does you can go to the police station and put a restraining order on him. Remember you know he is violent. so by not doing so. you could be doing real harm to someone else that could be his next victim. Do your good dead as a citizen
2007-01-08 03:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking his calls and don't answer the door if he shows up! If he scares you that bad it wouldn't be a bad idea to get a restraining order...that would be the extreme though!! Good luck
2007-01-08 03:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by draygonfli_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT TRUST HIM!
you wouldn't believe it but guys are more effed up in the head then girls are when they are in love. ignore his phone calls, text messeges and him all together I had the same problem, do not let this guy back in your life he will just bring you down with him and you are better then that.
2007-01-08 03:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by *Fool in the Rain* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Controling head games sweetheart. It's your choicr if you want to play the game but if not hang up when he calls and call the cops if he shows up.
2007-01-08 03:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on..he is clearly playing with your feelings..why does he wants to come back anyways make it clear that u are happy...if u are truly happy dont let him interfere with your life
2007-01-08 03:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋