me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months, we have an 11 month old daughter together. i have had a recent boyfriend name justin and told my ex 'mike that justin was a better dad than him just to piss him off, he acted different than i thought he left me voice mails on my cell sayin that he was going to kill us.but i know he will never do that.
i got a restraining order on him and now that he cant see his daughter his family is telling me that he has been depressed and cryin because of it. i took her over to see him and me and him clicked- kissing and like we was before....what should i do i love him so much and it is tearing my heart apart- i dont want my heart broken again...but i want to be with him, should i drop the charges and be with him...or be with him and keep the charges, should i even be with him?
i love him so much and he has changed so much...what should i do?
2007-01-08 04:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok you need to be care full that he isn't just playing on your emotions to get you to take away the restraining order, I'm not saying he is, but just bare that in mind. Second, dump this Justin, there's no need to tag him along any longer. Third, I would drop the charges, what you said really hurt him and he was just lashing out by the sounds, the fact that you had the order will stay in the records so that if he does say or do anything like it again you can have it dealt with straight away. And finally, if you are both genuine then try seeing what'll happen if you get back together, maybe it won't work but you owe it to yourselves and daughter to find out, but be care full never to use your little girl as a go between the two of you, don't ever take her away from him an don't use her to hurt him, she's a person not a pet. All the best
Rosie
2007-01-08 05:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 08:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get a restraining order because you were mad at him for breaking up with you? Why would you get back together with someone you have a restraining order against then? Seems that you need to make up your mind about him for if you have already gotten back together with him, seems you still had feelings for him and should not have moved on and put charges against him and tried to make him jealous. If he is truly a threat, then why are you with him again?
2007-01-08 04:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmpphhhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! You would consider being with someone that threatened to kill you both/all? Hello? What would he have to do before you were concerned about his behaviour? His depression is not your responsibility, if he is going to make threats a consequence should be that he doesn't get to see you/his daughter.
If you are so stupid as to take him back I just hope he doesn't harm you or the baby. SHEESH! Some women.
2007-01-08 04:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest...someone who is willing to say hed kill you, including his own child, should not be anywhere near you or your family. If that is him as a 'changed man' I would hate to see what he was before. I get that you love him, but people are too easy to forgive unforgivable things because of love. Think of your daughter, she deserves better than that and so do you.
2007-01-08 04:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tricnic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shound incredibly confused..
i dont get why you would be so insentive to tell a guy your new bf is a better dad..
and then go off and kiss him?? thats messed up.. and almost insane
or sending him mixed signals he's probably even more confused then you..
figure out what it is you want.. and tell inform him our decisons..
2007-01-08 04:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl let me tell you that is a front....he actin like that just to get you back in the position that he wants you..so therefore you should make him miss you a little and continue to play your hard role bacause he stupid.BYE girl
2007-01-08 05:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by BLACK BARBIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, crazy.
well i guess go
with what you think
is best for not only you
but your daughter.
and if you truely believe
he has changed for the better,
then i'd say go for it.
but if you're just going back for him
because you feel bad for him, then
that's probably not the best thing.
but if not, then dooo it : )
good luck
2007-01-08 04:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by cool_flattop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go, if it is an unhealthy situation. Life is to short
2007-01-08 04:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is why guys call girls pyhsco
2007-01-08 04:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by dogma06281 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋