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i love my girlfriend,honestly, but we've only been together for a month. i would do anything for her though but she jus keeps making me question her commitment. she says that she loves me and for a while i believed her but one day she went out and gave a boy her number WHILE SHE WAS ON THE PHONE WITH ME. this was crazy and she always talks to other boys, but she swears up and down that they're just friends. she promised me she wouldn't lie to me and i've caught her in lies before. she always puts me on hold for like 3-5 mins. and 96% of the time it's a boy. one time i was on hold like 6mins. and i hung up and she never called back and i called her like 30mins. later and she said she was talking to a grown up(were teens)and then she said it was her friend(a boy) and i asked why and she said she didn't know but she does it all the time. recently i was going to see her and we had everything set and she promised we'd meet(she plays games)when i called she was at her friends house.WUT TO DO

2007-01-08 05:01:24 · 22 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

Dude, she is playing games or shes not that into you either way why waste your time. Listen, dont act on emotion ok. Use your head I promise it wont lead you wrong. People go through unnecessary pains like this and for what. I dont want to sound harsh but dont be immature. Show her you are not going to take that and ignore her, she will come around.

2007-01-08 05:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by visitor42353 2 · 0 0

Well...I think that you need to talk to her. Tell her that you love her and that you really want to be with her, but that you just feel like she is not being as commited to the relationship as you are. Tell her that there should only be one guy in her life and that should be you. And you should come before EVERY other " guy friend" so if she isnt gonna put you before other guyz then you shouldnt be with her. Tell her you love her though. Good luck!!!

2007-01-08 13:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by [[baby girl]] 2 · 0 0

Your girl is an idiot if i had a boy like you i would be the happier person in the world. There is always the chance that she wants to make you jealous.You can do these things
1) do the same thing with other girls
2) break-up(you deserve sth better)

2007-01-08 13:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0 0

Tell her what you've just written in here if she doesn't stop leave her, just make sure you tell her it all first so she understands and say you need to feel more important than all the other guys she calls!!!

I'd be gone already if I'd been treated this way but she deserves a chance to know how you feel!

2007-01-08 13:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

YES, you should break up with her because you deserve to be treated much better than that. You have great value and a girl who is dating you or claims to love you should not be flirting with other boys or telling you lies. She does not love you. Furthermore, I am not sure that she really likes herself very much. Try and go out and meet other nice girls out there. There are lots of them - keep your eyes open. Remember that Love does not hurt, it is not selfish but kind and considerate.

2007-01-08 13:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1 0

You get out of that relationship now. She is just playing games with you. She wants all the attention she can get from men. Besides you said that yall were teens, it's normal at that age. You need to find someone who isn't in to getting every man's attention. You are just going to end up with your heart broke.

2007-01-08 13:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1 0

First of all to JULIA (the first poster), that porn site you keep spamming the board with is being flagged EVERYTIME. I hope you are all your user profiles are deleted.

Anyway, to the person who asked the question. This seems like a lot of drama for only ONE month of dating.
I'd move on to find someone else who is more mature. She sounds childish.

2007-01-08 13:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0 0

Man, why are you still with her? dump her and get a girl that respects you.

Dont create a drama like: you dont respect me, we are done. Just stop calling her and get you own life.Go out with your friends n stuff. If she doesnt call you back, well, its done. if she calls you, and asks something like: Why havent you called me..? you say, well ive been kinda busy. The main idea is stop chasing her. If she chases you, maybe you can correspond her, but if she dissapears, just forget her.

Theres plenty of girls out there.

2007-01-08 13:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0 0

It's obvious you don't trust her and wiv good reason. To be honest if she's lied before u shud leave her because by the sound of it she's not goin 2 change. Your goin 2 get hurt if u don't either talk her or leave her

2007-01-08 13:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Obviously she likes the attention of more than one boy...It sounds like you're too young to get serious..Don't drop her yet,but play the same game by talking or seeing other girls..If she gets jealous, she will start to take you more seriously.

2007-01-08 13:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by oohJOHNNY 2 · 0 0

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