ok i was with my ex for a while until a friend or ex friend of mine starting trouble between us and made us get into a big fight and i still really like him maybe even love him and we are beginning to talk again and flirt and today he kissed me and if he asks me out again should i take him back
2007-01-08 04:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That woudl depend on what was the fight about. Are you still talking with your ex-friend who statrted the feud between you two? If so, then I would quit talking to that person. Try to be friends with your ex first to see if any sparks come back between you two...also try to talk about what happened so you two can eventually let it all go.
2007-01-08 05:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not? All you did was have a little fight. Most couples do fight. It is a healthy part of being in a relationship. However, if he was verbally abusive or violent to you in any way - or cheated on you - then that is cause not to get back into a relationship.
If that is not the case, I say, forgive him and try to make things work out. If he is worth is that is.
2007-01-08 05:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to first ensure that you're able to withstand the forces of foes and figure out what went wrong the first time around. Open & honest discussions should be held prior to jumping in w/both feet. It sounds like you like him and there must be reasons why you feel that way. So....talk to the guy and get the old issues settled before starting again. Good Luck
2007-01-08 05:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. If you let a friend influence your relationship so much to the point you broke up with someone you really liked just because of what a friend said then I don't think you are mature enough for a relationship.
2007-01-08 04:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, was the trouble your friend or ex-friend caused something like him cheating? If so then don't take him back as he may cheat on you again with someone else. If it was just that she always bad talking them, or spreading lies, then I would take him back. Why punish someone else for someone elses bad behavior?
2007-01-08 05:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take him back, If you like him and he likes you then go for it. Especially if the only reason you guys broke up was because of some one else.
2007-01-08 04:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know for a fact that he h asn't done anything wrong that yes take him back and ignore you're friend. if people are going to stir trouble you and your boyfriend need to beable to trust and be 100% honest with each other.
2007-01-08 05:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by aimz w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you still have feelings for him and you think it could work and he didn't sleep with your ex friend then go for it
2007-01-08 05:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the fight was about. If it didn't devastate you to the bone, then take him back.
2007-01-08 04:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to you but will there be more drama? why would you two even fight over what someone else started, grow up
2007-01-08 04:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋