What is an easy way to tell my brother-in-law that his girlfriend is cheating on him? He is 18 and she is 17. I know for a fact that she is cheating on him. I am afraid he will not believe me and if he does believe me I don't think he will care. I think he will look at it like he is getting a free piece of a**. But if she is sleeping with other guys, and I KNOW she has, he could get an STD from her. She is a trouble maker, she keeps getting suspended from school for fighting. Are there any suggestions of how I could get him to loose her as a g/f? I only care about his well-being.
2007-01-08 04:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Loola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She has a myspace page with her and a ton of other guys on it. Should I show it to him?
2007-01-08 05:14:47 · update #1
To live life is to learn, and that's exactly what you have to let him do, you can't change anyone or make anyone break up with their girlfriends no matter who it is & what the situation. Like you said, he probably won't believe you or maybe he may just look at it as a piece of ***. So, let him do that then. Let him realize on his own that he's in a bad situation, maybe he's not as dumb as you think he is, let him learn through this whole experience, because if you don't and your the one trying to fix this problem for him, he will not learn anything from it and he will just get himself into something similar all over again later in the future. Always remember that, TO LIVE IS TO LEARN, that's how you grow up to be strong & mature. It's how you learn to avoid situations, it's by experiencing them & remembering that you don't want to be in trouble like that again.
2007-01-08 05:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husbands ex-spouse does not like your husband's brother's female friend. Now that you are married to the ex-spouse's guy, his brother's female friend maintains to speak with the ex-spouse of the person you are with. WTF change does that make to you? Don't you've ample disorders to manage instead of this - that does not even contain you? She's now not speaking with you or your husband, proper? She's now not coming to household features, proper? My recommendation: Mind your possess trade. *
2016-09-03 18:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it..... If you tell, he will be mad at you and probably not believe you.
If he has the attitude you say he does, don't worry about it.
She will get caught sooner than later, cause there are lots of people especially guys who like to brag about their conquests.
She will probably be dumping him soon anyway if she is finding other guys to sleep with,
She likes variety obviously and people usually end up getting what they deserve.
Sit back and watch, don't participate, it is safer and it is none of your business.
2007-01-08 05:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really nothing you can do if you tell and he don't care then that's his choice lets just hope for everyone involved that he uses protection so that he don't get an STD.
2007-01-08 04:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Hunny Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him for sure brothers in law duty
he will need to check that for him self- as you said she is sleeping with other guys so your brother might be happy to get to sleep with her as a new experience for him he might not care much for the other guys but for sure even if he need to have sex with her he will not be decived - it is his choice but you must worn him
2007-01-08 05:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then just tell, doesn't matter how you do it, its all the same in the end.
2007-01-08 04:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋