i have 10 month with him and we see each other every day from second month. he says hi's in loe with me and i've said it back but now i'm not so sure, he very overprotective like a parent or something, and his allways geting mad at me for being out with my girlfriend or even out with my brother and sister. we've have many talks about that and but nothing changes.
2007-01-08 04:54:55 · 14 answers · asked by moro_vzla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you are not in love. You have those feelings that a person have when being protected by their parents. Tell him that you need a boyfriend and not a father and when he changes the way that he treats you, then your true feeling will surface. Love it's not!
2007-01-08 04:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like he is very emotionally wounded. Only people who are walking around with deep emotional wounds act this way. You are definitely not in a loving, healthy relationship. I would say that your boyfriend is not in love with you. He wants to control you. These are the warning signs of an abusive relationship, which in most cases turns to physical violence later down the road. I would strongly suggest that you get out of the relationship until he gets some inner healing.
2007-01-08 04:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are having red flags and you have doubts doesn't mean you are NOT in love with him. However, chances are you don't know him well enough to really love him if you are encountering major issues (and these do seem like major issues) for the first time.
2007-01-08 04:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to do that to you! If he still behaves that way, it's best to leave him the next time he starts acting stupid like that. Why waste your time on somebody who just doesn't listen to you and respect your emotions and doesn't try to make your relationship better by trying to change the behavior that is hurting you? You deserve better!
2007-01-08 05:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that relationship right now. someone who tries to control who you see and talk to including your own family is not in love with you. it could get much worse, and i feel you could be in danger.even if he has never laid a hand on you, it doesn't mean he won't. what you have mentioned is only the beginning.
2007-01-08 05:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had to asked yourself dat question. he's jealous is all over the relationships,for me that not a normal relationship, relationship base on trusted each other and love. so u made your own decision is this love or somethin else.
2007-01-08 05:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by danial rulli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are seriously asking this right now then yes u love him, or else u would be mad with him for being so unreasonable wth u and so over protective. :D
2007-01-08 04:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh, i felt da same way for like a month.... just dump him. if youve talked about it hes not worth it.
2007-01-08 05:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chod do love kuch nahi hota hai....
pyar vyar sab dhoka hai,
chut marle ab moka hai,
2007-01-08 05:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl leave well you still can those are big time red flags
2007-01-08 04:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋