Hi everybody, i was dating for 5 month and yestoday he told me that he just wanna be my friend. I really love him, we even renting an apartment together. I didn t sleep at night, im still crying.
2007-01-08 04:57:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry sweetie, it hurts at first, but it will get better......
2007-01-08 04:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by josie775 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Russian Girl,
When you are emotionally attached to someone and they do something that damages or breaks that emotional bond than it is normal to feel a very strong pain. It is normal to react the way you have and it is normal, especially for a female who are generally more open about the way they feel to cry like that over something like a breakup. Being sleepless at night is also normal for anyone under extreme emotional stress but that will pass in time. The best advice I could give you would be to allow yourself time to grieve for broken emotional bond as best as you can since you rented an apartment together and see each other constantly unless you moved out. Just be patient with yourself and allow yourself space and time to heal. I would suggest keeping your distance from your X boyfriend for a while until the really bad pain lessens to something more tolerable. Keep your head up, you'll be fine
2007-01-08 13:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it hurts, but it was only 5 months. You're lucky it wasn't 4 years! Maybe you two just moved way too fast! Get out of the apartment, and find a better guy. You will get over it, but it may take time. Stay busy, and move on. Surround yourself with friends and family...that's what i did, and it really helped! I hope you will be happy again someday soon :)
Smile and laugh, it's the best medicine.
ps. to really move on you have to move on from him, forget about him, and get rid of anything that will remind you of that person. good luck.
2007-01-08 13:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by akerockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the best painkiller, however i would suggest to ignore him for a couple of months see if he comes back to you, but don't let him know that you're in pain or you will never have him back, the only way he might come back to you is that pretend you're fine and you have no pain about him breaking up with you. I hope after a while he starts to call you and ask you out again.
2007-01-08 13:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by TimTim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find another place to stay and try to move on with out him. It wasn't fair to you what he did, but if he just wants to be friends then you need to go with that. If it's a two bedroom apartment then maybe you can still live there, but in the other bedroom and both of you can move on, but remain friends.
2007-01-08 13:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your pain. You have every right to cry. But the tears will stop and the one day the pain will go away and you will live again and meet a guy that is right for you !!
I hope you take my advice from someone who been where you been!
2007-01-08 13:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry that u have to go thru something like this..it hurts like hell..i really hate stuff like this..try talking to him again..see if he wants to give it another shot...if he doesnt then there is nothing that u can really do...but to go thru the pain..men are such jerks..I have yet to break up with my guy..because he is a liar and a cheater..I just dont want to go thru the pain and i know that my heart will hurt to much..I am about to post a message..so see if you can help me
2007-01-08 13:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, and will for some time to come.
I'm still trying to recover from a breakup almost a year ago.
Things get better, but only slowly.
2007-01-08 13:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for drinks with ur gfs, u would need support frm them and some harmless flirting..:D
let time heal and eventually u will get over him.
2007-01-08 13:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth a minute of your time. I would try to forget him as soon as possible. Men are sometimes such ........holes. Get together with friends and with time you will forget him.
2007-01-08 13:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sorry i think what you should do is go find another man just to show out with to show that you can move on and get him jealous so he can see what he missed out on and trust the simple a.s.s man will come back to you...
2007-01-08 13:01:32 · answer #11 · answered by Godson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋