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my girlfriend she as a dauther from other man and we have a child together.
the girl she is not aloud on msn,but she had home work to do from school.we aloud her to go and have her home work done,but i catch her on msn ,but now she saing she wasn't and swear the babys life to her mum ,and her mum belive her .
now im scared ,maybe some day she will tell her mum that her try to rape her or anything else .
how i can prove she was on msn? please help me

2007-01-08 05:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by tonixricco 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

14 answers

Ask your gf why she thinks you would lie & tell her that if a child gets away with this sort of lie, they will try to do so again.

Good luck, this is a tricky problem.

2007-01-08 05:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0 0

You should not try to prove anything. If you were telling the truth then that is all that matters. Personally, I am not sure if your relationship is healthy - If your partner would believe her daughter over you. This shows that you are not a united front when it comes to raising this young child. And yes, there is a possibility that this child can do some serious harm to your relationship if such a small lie will be bought by her mother when you were telling the truth. This shows that your partner does not really trust you.
The other thing you can do is have all three of you in the same room and sit down and try to get to the bottom of it all. Especially, to find out why would the child tell such a blatant lie.

2007-01-08 05:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1 0

First of all if she doesn't trust you then there is a serious issue with your relationship right from the start. Second of all, there is a history buttong on the computer that shows what someone was doing. If you don't want the child to do something they are not suppose to then there are ways to block certain programs from being opened on a computer. There are also programs that can be installed to tell you exactly what is being done right down to passcodes and websites being used. Don't back down with being right about it, children are sneaking and will do a lot when there is a "step" parent situation in the house. Stick your grounds and look into the programs I mentioned, go to Best Buy or any computer place and tell them what you need.

2007-01-08 05:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

MSN has histories or last messages with time stamp on them.
go on there and show her the time stamp.
As for her accuseing you of rape that is a BIG HUGE leap from saying she wasnt on msn when she was on chating with friends when she was suppose to be doing her homework.

2007-01-08 05:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0 0

if you are a good man, and you know if you are or not, then you have nothing to be afraid of. its important that your wife knows what type of person you are and she should believe you. However, the younger generation these days can easily do things without feeling guilty.if you think that she will lie about you to your wife then you must prepare yourself so that you can defend yourself and proof your inocence. if i was you, i would get a small recorder and record conversations you have with her.but at the same time you must becareful bcos one mistake can ruin everyones life forever.

2007-01-10 10:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by soft 1 · 0 0

Well, to prove that she was on MSN, you have to check out if you have enabled history viewing. If you have histoy enabled, then you can prove your girlfriend that you weren't lying. Even if she accuses you that you tried to rape her, you can go to the police and have the check for your DNA on her, that way you'll be free.

2007-01-08 05:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by So_Seductive 1 · 0 0

Internet browsing history is the best way. You should be able to look it up by the day and the order visited that day. However, if she deleted browser history, you won't be able to get to it.

Also, do spell check before you post questions.

2007-01-08 05:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by dagoodest 2 · 0 0

Forget it and suggest she try Yahoo! Have you spoke with George Bush concerning your Homeland Security lately??

2007-01-08 05:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Brian H 4 · 0 0

Why would you have to convience her of anything?Trust is the key to a relationship anyways.If you or her have lost that then your relationship is a lie..ANWYAYS

2007-01-08 05:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0 0

check sites last visited and date might help.

also will say who she talked to if messenger chat

good luck

2007-01-08 05:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 0 0

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