ok here goes the story my boyfriend and me have been together for a year and going on three months. now his momma and me dosen't really get a lone because she always tries to disrespect me because she is my co-pastor so she thinks she could say whateva. i try to let it go and keep on going with my life now yesterday she told my boyfriend daddy that i get around now keep in mind i'm a virgin. then she tells other stuff and barely knows what she is talking about. now i'm fed up with her and all this drama and i just want it all to end but i love him with all my heart and would do anything for him. but i don;t want to deal with this for the rest of my life. what should i do?
2007-01-08 05:04:16 · 17 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and your boyfriend need to talk to her together. You need to tell her you heard she was saying things about you that aren't true. This will give you the opportunity to find out where she got untrue information and to put her straight. She may never like you but at least it won't be for untrue reasons. She needs to respect his decision to be with you, whether she likes it or not.
2007-01-08 05:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to grow up. I think some mothers get like that because they idolize their men a little bit more. And they are like "The helper of the bunch".... she must either be divorced or he must be the only child lol. But like I mean she will learn to deal with it. Why dont you just try to laugh it off! Whenever she makes a smart comment. Just laugh it off and she will be speechles. The more you show you are bothered by it the more she will provoke you. She will get the idea and itll progress cuz shell realize it, shes just trying to drive you away. But she has to realize her son is grown and its time to start thinking about adult life which means a gf! duuh. She is jealous apparently cuz its her son.
2007-01-08 13:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definetly need to talk to your boyfriend. It sounds as if momma is jealous of her son's relationship. Have a talk with him and see how he thinks this situation should be handled, because he knows his mom better than anyone. If things don't change after that, then I would have a little talk with the momma, and let her know how you feel about this. Good luck.
2007-01-08 13:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit with your BF and his parents and have a heart to heart without disrespect. Then let them know how you feel. You also need to give each of them a chance to talk and give what they feel. And be ready to accept what is said. WITH OUT getting upset. Take critism. don;t let it take you. Remember that is his mother and she deserves respect as do you. So point that out and start over. Good luck
2007-01-08 13:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that they are a package deal...there are not many guys that you can separate from their family...even if the woman is a liar and a pest.
If you can't deal with her, you need to back away from him as well.
2007-01-08 13:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the decision to learn english. You grammar is atrocious. Do you plan on separating the green glasss from the clear glass at the recycling center? With grammar skills like yours you can look forward to it.
2007-01-08 13:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is a question you should pose to your pastor. Your pastor should be able to facilitate a meeting and potential resolution.
2007-01-08 13:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by dagoodest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You marry him, you marry his mama. Sounds like she is a drama queen and just likes the attention, or she just doesn't like you. Either way, this one is doomed to fail.
2007-01-08 13:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
man if i were u i should slap the B I T C H to let her Know who is who but that just a good opinion
2007-01-08 13:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will not deal with it for the rest of your life, don't worry.
2007-01-08 13:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋