we were really addicted to each other and i got jealous of her and she made a fuss over the trust issue several times,but,i kept finding her adds in various places,i confronted her and she would either change the wording,remove her partial nude pic or make it private so that i could not even see any longer at all,there is a 20 year difference in our ages,but,i am very athletic for my age,seems to me that her cell phone and various hidden logons are like a harem to her and i don't know which rung on her step ladder i actually am,i already asks tom leykus and he said forget about her forever
2007-01-08 05:40:43 · 4 answers · asked by dans92647atyawhoim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It seem she's not quite the addict you are. You're 20 years older than her. I don't care how athletic you are. Women can just as easily see the difference between a 20 and 40 year old as men can. What rung??? She's placing with partial nude pics!!! What do you think she's doing that for? Self-esteem promotion? She's 20 years younger than you, and she's doing it to get laid! You think she going to tell some 20 year old, blond, six-pack having, tanned, surfer boy no?!?!? "No. I won't have sex with you because I have an old man who wants to keep me as his discreet girlfriend." Hello. Is anyone in there?
You're the perfect example of the saying, there's no fool like an old fool.
2007-01-08 05:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by QTPYE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...you two want different things and she's not ready to commit to someone old enough to be her dad (sorry)...she's got oats to sow and she needs to be able to do that...
Stick with women who are more mature and on (or near) the same page in life that you are...the younguns might be pretty and ego boosters, but they don't make good partners (typically) for the middle aged and up...
2007-01-08 13:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as I tend to disagree with Tom.....this time he is right. She is trying to "hide" from you. She is as you put it your "discreet" g/f. She is probably tired of having that title and is looking for someone else. Are you married or in a committed relationship? If so...SHAME ON YOU AND HER in the first place!
2007-01-08 13:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her. she is acting like most young guys, and is playing the field. you should have contacted her advert and asked her for sex, if she said yes to a stranger, time to move on.
you are only sex on the side dude. that is all you are to her. enjoy the sex, or move on, there will be no more than that.
2007-01-08 13:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋