been seeing her for ten years, we both say we love each other but she will not leave her husband even though he treats her bad. Should I stay or should I go?
2007-01-08 05:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
10 Years =is a long time.
10 Years= does she have a dime?
10 Years= she could be divorced.
10 Years= but not by force.
10 years= you love and wait.
10 years =you pay the cost.
10 Years=before its too late
10 Years= If she dont leave then - shes lost!
She will lose you if she s not careful. If its money- then you pay for the divorce- then if she dont leave- she just wants the best of both worlds. Sometimes - when you have been with somebody 20 years- its really hard to let them go - or for them to let YOU go=if there is kids- etc. especially. I am sure that she loves you as much as you love her- But she also once loved this bad boy husband of hers as well-not much any more - but = He is probably the reason she cant get with you- he will maybe hurt her AND you if she leaves him- then - Heck - Just keep it like it is for now- cause no LOVE (with the exeption of your family or kids) Is worth dying over. Just you go and get you another too- then its fair! loluck
2007-01-08 05:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only hurting yourself for staying in this kind of relationship. Do not stay around, find someone who deserves your unwavering devotion, and can treat YOU right.
Suggest she goes to a counselor for her marriage problems, and walk away! Do not waste any more of your life helping someone else get into more of a problem! Have you thought that maybe you are making her situation easier to bear because you are there for her? If her husband really is treating her bad, you need to walk away so she can actually see clear , and face her problem - without having you there to make things easy.
I know its hard, but if you care , you will leave!
2007-01-08 13:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, because of you she has cheated on her husband and he probably found out and that's why he treats her badly, but she does not leave her because maybe she still loves him in a way and wondered what would it be like if she left him for some other man. Leave that marrige alone!
2007-01-08 13:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Cristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's crazy. but i understand. i have been seeing a woman who is engagen for the last 6 months and finally broke it off with her since she cant decide what she wants. you have had 20 times the amount of experience over me with being with someone who is taken, but the question is, why are we settling for being #2? your in this way deep now, but i think you need to branch out and see other people. now her and i still talk, and its tough not going up and hugging her or kissing her. but there comes a time to where you have to stop what is going on. unless you want the "benefits" that come with the package, if it is really love, and she doesnt want to make a move. well, there is your answer, and the funny thing is, on this website, most of the normal people on here give fantastic adivce. i was a blind as a bat when it came to my situation, and hung on her every word. but when i started standing up for myself, well a big change in me, my level of respect, and others can see that you are taking control of the situation. this married woman is having her cake and eating it too. bottom line, just go, and give someone else what they deserve....women are out there, we just have to find them.
2007-01-08 13:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her.
Put yourself in the situation of her husband then you will decide to leave her.
The worst thing that may happen to a man is finding her wife in love with someone else...
2007-01-08 13:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by jitoon f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Find someone else to fall in love with.
2007-01-08 13:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by CPDawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋