I met a guy few days before New Year(NY),we spent NY together, well call me a slut, but we had sex, everything was great. Now, a week pases on, we're only talking on the phone with each other, on friday me and my friend decided to go for a dinner, so this guy joind us with his friends, we had wonderfull time all together, then later I stayed over his house. on saturday, my mother made a dinner and I invited him, and two of my other girlfriends, I've known girs for a long time, after dinner we all went out and his friends came with us again. After the club, we all went to my girlfriend's house to continue party, so my "boy-friend" to be didn't pay attention to me, only to my girlfriend flerting with her. I got very jeallous and tald him this, while I was smoking out side he felt asleep. I got even more mad, and tald his friends that he can go f himself and that I don't want to c him again, later anothr friend came over and I was flerting with him, while that one was asleep.
2007-01-08 06:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by bad person 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so should I call him or I shouldn't, but If I'll call him first I'm the one who was wrong, I think he was
2007-01-08 06:13:54 · update #1
No one is right or wrong. You both are just wrong for each other. Move on.
2007-01-08 06:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't sound as tho you and he have had anything more than casual dating but why did you jump into the sex on the first date--Not being rude to you but that tells a man that you are easy--and there is no grounds for respect set here--If you do meet someone you think could be a potently long term thing the last thing you do is go right for the sexual portion of a relationship--The old saying--Why buy the cow when the milk is for free?? It stands up to this sort of situation here--He may think he is nothing more to you than a "Booty Call" and so he is returning that attitude to you--Hope this helps somewhat--the bottom line is this--don't sell yourself out so quickly--if you want a respectful relationship later--and spell check when you write would work too :-) Not ragging but its just too easy to use :[
2007-01-08 14:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop looking at him as a "boyfriend" because he's not trying to be and doesn't want to be in a committed relationship at least not with you. Why should he? You met him and gave him exactly what he wanted. He's probably thinking in his mind how many guys before him did you do this with. Basically he's maybe at best trying to be a casual friend to you. If you press the issue you may not even have that. Move on and not to one of his friends. Best advice anyone can honestly give you is when you meet someone that you like get to know that person first to be sure that he's willing to give you and be what you want him to be. Make him work for what you have to offer as far as an intimate relationship don't offer that up upfront and expect him to call you or respect you in the damn morning. That's common sense, damn use yours.
2007-01-08 14:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like either of you are candidates for sainthood. Apparently he likes you okay, but not THAT much...either have your fun and both of you play/flirt with others too, or just disassociate yourself from him if you can't behave like an adult around him when he's eyeing someone else. There was no committment between the two of you, but granted he should've had more class that to flirt with someone else in your presence w/o at least saying something to you first about his feelings (or lack of) for you.
2007-01-08 14:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No one was wrong.He flirted with another girl & you flirted with another boy. It's all just a big game & you both lost.Game over.Please try again.
2007-01-08 14:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone else. You are definitely wrong for each other. People who like each other don't treat them like that.
2007-01-08 14:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by truckermama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you make the same mistake ,you lose true life too .... looks like there is lots of imaturity here .
2007-01-08 14:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by draagon13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you werent together long enough for it to really matter just move on, before it turns into one of those long drawn out dramatic relationships that your friends are sick of hearing about.
2007-01-08 14:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just with you for sex....LOL
2007-01-08 14:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok, i'll call you a ****. you said it yourself. get real.
2007-01-08 14:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by builderchris 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋