Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Is there any couple out there still toghether that bicckered like hell over nothing for the first few years of there marriage, and if so how is it going now and how did you make it better any suggetions.

2007-01-05 05:58:52 · 21 answers · asked by mustang64093gt 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 05:58:49 · 3 answers · asked by Badger 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean head over heals can't eat cant sleep can't breathe when he walks into the room. and you can't flirt with him cause you're at the bottom of the food chain,and you can't tell anyone cause this person is so important they might laugh at you? but you know he comes around just to take a peak at you ,smile and walk on. P.S he's single so am I.

2007-01-05 05:58:16 · 11 answers · asked by Dr leouie maclona 1 in Singles & Dating

I left my boyfriend because he cheated on me. I loved him sooooo much! All i do is think about him though.He calls me all the time cryiin for me back sayin how stupid he was.

sometimes i feel like i should go back other times i dont...what should i do?

2007-01-05 05:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your favoirte theme and activities for an 18+ party of about 100+ (men and women)?

2007-01-05 05:56:28 · 6 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

what should I do if my girlfriend of 2 years wants an engagement ring of 3 carats or more and I can't afford more than a 1-1.5 carat ring shes very materialistic but I love her I've tried talking her into a smaller ring but she wants it big she knows its not in my price range but because all her friends got 2-5 carat rings from their boyfriends she wants one too

2007-01-05 05:56:17 · 12 answers · asked by topgunpilot22 4 in Weddings

I'm seeing someone, and he called, but I was busy so I couldn't answer, bout 40mins later I texted him saying "Call me" he didn't call me back that day, the next day I called, he didn't answer!! typical, then he called me back couple of hours later. I asked him why he didn't call me back when I texted him, he said cuz I didn't answer my phone?!!! he's very stubborn, I can't help but think he is a little immature. Although I think he's great in every other way, how can I deal with him in these kind of situations?!!

2007-01-05 05:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been having some issues lately. he has been a little disrespectful and selfish lately. I have tried to talk to him about it but he is saying that he soesn't think that he is and that I am just blowing things out of porportion. So I sort of piped down to let things blow over. Then within the last couple of days 2 of his good friends have told me that they don't understand why I am puttig up with his sh-t. They each talked to me seperately and told me things like how he does this to every girl he has dated once he starts to get close. The one told me that he thinks that I could change him, but I need to know what kind of challenge I am going to have. Pretty much they both were conserned. Neither of them were hitting on me or anything.
So my question is.....
should I tell my boyfriend that even his friends see how bad he treats me?
OR
Should I keep my mouth shut about his friends, otherwise I will be opening a whole new door of problems?

2007-01-05 05:56:08 · 5 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

spcifically, I have been told that one will scratch easily and one will not

2007-01-05 05:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by gridleygene 1 in Weddings

is it fair time to tie the knott (get married)?
What do you think and why?

2007-01-05 05:55:20 · 18 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

He told me out of all the time that I can remember 3 times that he love me. But lately we don't see each other that much, I don't know if it because I never gave him a response. But I told him I care about him.

2007-01-05 05:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you feel about meeting a 9 or 10 looking guy, and then you find out he's a virgin.

furthermore do you feel its not a good idea for a guy to tell a girl he's a virgin, whats the feelings on this?

2007-01-05 05:53:54 · 23 answers · asked by flawless 1 in Singles & Dating

He told me out of all the time that I can remember 3 times that he love me. But lately we don't see each other that much, I don't know if it because I never gave him a response. But I told him I care about him.

2007-01-05 05:53:39 · 4 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Singles & Dating

My heart tells me that my husband is not a cheater - and never has been. I know he loves me and our family with all his heart. But, I can't shake these thoughts that I should be cautious.
He recently started working in a new department, and he said there are a couple of men that he works with that cheat on their wives, one of them he works very closely with. He works nights and is on call, so his schedule changes drastically from week to week. A couple of times here lately he has done things that made me wonder where he was or what he was doing. I didn't think he was with someone, I was more just concerned. As soon as I ask him, he seems to get defensive and will say "what, do you think I was cheating?" or "I don't want you to think I was with someone else. I would never do that to you." I think to myself - of course you wouldn't want me to think that, especially if you were cheating!
He just keeps bringing it up. Should I be worried? Am I just paranoid?

2007-01-05 05:53:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

her name is haley she is a sophmoreand real pretty but some say she is a slut i'm real shy and quiet how do i get her to notice me and my cousin just moved down here and she thinks he is fine i want her to like me not him!!

2007-01-05 05:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by Jay-C 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm kind of seeing a guy, I know he likes me but he likes to tell me about his exs, not one particular one, and that he used to be a player, saying he'd once slept with 4 women in one day?!!!! Why do you think he's telling me this?!! Is he trying to be open and honest with me? or to make me jealous or what?!

2007-01-05 05:52:28 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who's fault is it? My sister already knows that Im not good with directions and then on top of that she gave me wrong ones. The only reason shes mad is cuz Im driving her car. She keeps sayin that I should've got off the exit that looked familiar instead of following the directions SHE gave me. She wont admit the fact that her directions were wrong.

2007-01-05 05:52:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My last boyfriend was for almost three years and every sencie him I didn't date for a while but now I'm starting to get alonely and wanting someone but nothing seems to work out. Is It me? Am I doing something wrong?

2007-01-05 05:52:10 · 14 answers · asked by Katrina A 1 in Singles & Dating

In fact I `m Argentinian and I love hugs, if you don`t like them I understand you, but could you tell me why? please
if there`s someone who likes hugs, I would love to hug you!!!
I love England! I think you are nice people...
Best wishes
Guada

2007-01-05 05:52:08 · 22 answers · asked by GUada motion 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when my bf asks me what is my figure
he hads already seen me 3-4 times
what does it mean
when i asked him what do u mean he said 24 or 36 n then when i said i dont get u he said forget it

2007-01-05 05:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by lily 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 4 beautiful step children. My husband and I have had custody of them for 4 years now. This past summer their mom moved to Kentucky to live with her mom to "get well." She is an acoholic who suffers from severe depression. This Christmas she saw the kids over break and the kids were delighted to see her but at the same time angry that she isn't moving back and can't "not drink" unless she's in Kentucky. How do I help my babies through this confusing time and make sure they know its not their fault their mom drinks and/or its not their responsibilty to take care of her. They are 7, 8 and 9 for gosh sakes! They shouldn't have to be burdened with something like this... Help, please.

2007-01-05 05:51:47 · 10 answers · asked by Euphoria 2 in Family

My husband keeps on degrading my daughter, putting her morally down, this happens every day. He's a perfectionist that goes a bit over extreme as everyone knows what its like having teenagers. The other day he started becoming abusive towards me he didnt get to hit me, thank God but my youngest son found himself inbetween us having to protect me from him. This is unfair to him. The degrading has gone on for over 5 years now the abuse started a day after christmas. Is this reason to tell your kids I have no option but to move or do you continue loving your partner. My choice has been made ages ago, but I am interested in finding out what others would have done or would do?

2007-01-05 05:51:04 · 21 answers · asked by Alida A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am an almost 34 yr old woman who has a son who is almost 9 years old.For most of my life i have been career oriented as my main priority especially after my divorce after only two years.I have dated around and would probably be described as a maneater because i was in never into emotions.Recently being the last three years i begun to become attracted to a fellow co-worker and friend.I have known him since college when i was just starting and he was going for his masters.We spend a lot of time together even do traveling for work together.He has started to flirt with me and even get touchie feelie in some cases.I think we are developing a strong attraction for each other.He is even opening up to me about his feelings since his wife is depressed and moody all the time because she cant seem to get pregnant after 15 yrs of marriage.Am i misreading signals?

2007-01-05 05:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been married for 2 years and my 9 year old son from my previous marriage loves him more than his own disfunctional father, sometimes I think my son is well adjusted, and sometimes he acts as if he's just not happy, he wanted my husband to adopt him, and my husband is so happy, we are now in the process, of adoption, but my son is a constant worrier about things, I have OCD and I had him tested and they said that he didnt have it, that maybe he just has alot on his mind. On the other hand, for 7 years. it was just me and my son, and of course, I spoiled him, and my husband believes in discipline, which my son is not really used to because me and him never had any issues, but as he gets older, more "boy" things are going on, (doing things he knows better than to do, smart remarks etc. ) and yes every now and then he needs to be grounded, how do I handle this head to head between them, and keep my sanity too???

2007-01-05 05:50:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I was wondering how long should you be dating to get your first kiss?

2007-01-05 05:49:54 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 in Singles & Dating

My son filed for divorce two years ago from his wife who is a Turkish citizen. She has been in hiding and has not been found for papers to be served. Can this divorce be granted in absentia? They have not seen each other in over 2 years.

2007-01-05 05:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by Gemlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

........but she has the most annoying, piece of sh*it, poor excuse for a kid, that I have ever met. What should I do? Obviously, if I don't want to offend her, the answer isn't to tell her how I feel about her kid. But then again, isn't honesty important in a relationship? (and I mean, I really dislike that little basta*d!)

2007-01-05 05:49:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do girls complicate things? they hard to understand sometimes. there's this girl who a month ago i got to know better in sociology class. she started talking to me a lot and she used to be in some of my class projects. one day after school she asked me if i could give her a ride home cause she lives in the same town as me. she is a junior in high school and im a senior. she defintiely liked me. she would say hi to me in the hallways during the day and try to start a conversation somehow. one day i didnt bring ma car and she was like" you better bring it tommorow!! and smiled at me. then the day before christmas break i got her a small gift, it was a sephora gift card25 bucks and she liked it and i kissed her on the cheek and then i didnt see her during christmas break and when i got back to school after break she doesn't talk to me at all. she ignores me unlike b4. i sure i didnt mean to shock her, i like her and thats why i gave her the gift. why do you think shes acting like this

2007-01-05 05:48:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 05:48:57 · 5 answers · asked by Sydney M 1 in Singles & Dating

She needs to go back to May 1997?How can she get there??

2007-01-05 05:48:15 · 5 answers · asked by toyleta babe 1 in Friends