........but she has the most annoying, piece of sh*it, poor excuse for a kid, that I have ever met. What should I do? Obviously, if I don't want to offend her, the answer isn't to tell her how I feel about her kid. But then again, isn't honesty important in a relationship? (and I mean, I really dislike that little basta*d!)
2007-01-05 05:49:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put the kid in a burlap sack and drop him over the closest bridge. When the girl asks where her kid is, tell her that the child is at a babysitter. Then again, maybe you need to find a girl who doesn't have a kid, might be easier. I dated a girl for a while who had two kids, even though they were spoiled rotten little twirps, I did grow to like the little tykes. Maybe the same will happen to you.
2007-01-05 05:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by lavos1412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are only attracted to this girl for physical reasons? Otherwise if you hate her child... then where is the emotional acceptance of loving her for who she is or what she has? An annoying little bastard kid?
Well, get on with it. Decide what is best for you. If you can't live with the kid and she doesn't like what you say then be prepared for the consequences. Or some goodbyes but if it turns out good and she wants to find a way to work it out with you then she's willing to consider another alternative.
Sometimes we should start hating less... and loving more.
2007-01-05 05:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she´s gonna choose her kid over you. As any parent would. If you don´t like the kid then you should probalby give up. And it´s not fair if you try to force her to give her kid up. That would make you a huge basta*d
2007-01-05 05:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run don't walk to the nearest exit you will get NO where with her if you have such distaste for her offspring and an apple doesn't fall to far from the tree if you get my drift and try some new adjectives when describing a child makes me wonder what kind of kid you were?.
2007-01-05 05:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by serenitykay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the kid isn't gonna go anywhere, so you're going to have to learn to work around him if you want to be with her. You can try by subtly giving her suggestions or tips to improve his behaviour, and in time you can probably become a father figure in his life, if you're thinking that seriously, and teach him some things on your own. Usually obnoxious kids just need some loving attention to see a difference in their behaviour.
Otherwise, good luck. haha.
2007-01-05 05:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by The Only 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the girl and want to be with her then you would put up with her kid. I mean does it really matter if you tell her you hate her kid. It is not like she can get rid of him for good. So I guess it is just something you might have to deal with and try to get along with her kid. "The key to a woman's heart is through her child".
2007-01-05 05:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by msdhoward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are attracted to a person doesn't mean that that person is meant for you. If you have a problem with her child then perhaps you should get over that attraction. 9 times out of 10, if a guy doesn't like a womans' child, she isn't going to date him. Well i wouldn't cause you never know if that person is gonna mistreat your child while your not looking.
2007-01-05 05:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by qtea4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a long term relationship with her then getting away with it without having her kid around you doesn't seem to be practical. If you're just fooling around with her try to arrange you time together away from the annoying kid...she'll get it eventually and act according to her own priorities.
2007-01-05 05:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Slay Specialist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may take offense if you confront her about her child, as she may think you implying she's a poor parent. Obviously, she has the kid and he's not going anywhere, so I would search for a new girlfriend.
2007-01-05 05:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her child is a brat. I know I am a parent, and sometimes it is hard for myself to look at my kids in that way. SO being honest with her will really help her more than ya know in the long run.
2007-01-05 05:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by kerbear7703 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋