I'm kind of seeing a guy, I know he likes me but he likes to tell me about his exs, not one particular one, and that he used to be a player, saying he'd once slept with 4 women in one day?!!!! Why do you think he's telling me this?!! Is he trying to be open and honest with me? or to make me jealous or what?!
2007-01-05 05:52:28 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe that is just his way of telling you how he is up front.
2007-01-05 05:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by msdhoward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in this same situation. I think he is insecure and is trying to impress you. He doesn't want you to think he is a desperate loser but that he is a cool guy who gets lots of chicks. A true player would NOT do this. A true player plays a game and that means tricking the girl he is with into thinking she is special when in reality she is just another conquest to him. So yeah, he is probably also seeing how you react, like if you get jealous, to see how much you care about him. It bothers you so just tell him like "I know you're a sex God and all, or else I wouldn't be with you, but I don't need to hear about other girls you have been with." Cut him some slack, he is probably just insecure and has self-esteem issues. Good luck.
2007-01-05 06:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by bellyyo62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a bit insecure (the "player" / 4 women part). He also might still be carrying a bit of a torch for a past acquaintance (he's thinking about his exes). He is not trying to make you jealous, and he is not being open and honest with you. If he were, you might be surprised what's really going on in his head. He appears trainable, so train him to suit your purposes. Good luck.
2007-01-05 05:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats consistently been a strange one , I mean what share friends did your ex have? So in concept anybody he ever became friends with is off limits? i'm hoping you do not stay in a small city.As alongside as an appropriate time has exceeded its ok. it incredibly is. and that is going the two approaches too.
2016-10-30 02:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is trying to make you jealous or he wants you be like that. maybe he hasn't gotten over being a player yet and still wants the feeling of sleeping with many women at once. if i were you, i'd just dump him. a guy who sleeps with multiple women doesn't sound like he would be a good lover for just one.
2007-01-05 05:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tai Mai Shu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Right!! had a great answer...
*hes not over them
*he wants you to know what he wants from someone
* and the rare odd occasion is that he wants you to accept him for who he is and hes just wanting to see how long you will last with his ex story... but why bother if you might soon be a story to tell? or best of all just ASK him.... We hate it when you beat around the bush and we supposedly are bad at reading signals or dont read them at all...
2007-01-05 06:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't respect you or care about how you feel. Have you thought about it, that you may be another one of the 4 women he is sleeping with. He is probably playing you too . I honestly do not think he likes you,though i think he is using you. He may also be telling you about his Exs because he wants to get Reid of you but does not have the balls to tell you.
People will only treat you the way you allow them too.you have allowed him to disrespect you, so maybe you deserve a foolish man.
2007-01-05 06:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by good_but_naughty_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to answer this question because each man is different from the other just like women when i talk about my ex its because I'm not over them or I'm bringing the good and bad qualities to your attention so you can learn what and what not to do without learning from experience when talking about him being a player and the women he slept with he is trying to impress you
2007-01-05 05:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he is trying to get you to be jealous, but a lot of men tells women that they are about the women whom they had in the past, I dont know why they do it but there are lots and lots of them who done that, so dont take it for any thing strange. just laugh and if you want to ask questions at anything funny do that.
2007-01-05 05:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by maria fkun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't realise that talking about ex's is a taboo subject, either that or hes trying to prove to you that he can make the grade in bed, or hes just bragging like he would do to a male friend
2007-01-05 05:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by laughinggiraffe2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to let you know what to expect in your relationship. It's kinda cool to think about him having sex with 4 women in the same day. Did he shower in between??? Wouldn't that be like having sex with a man and a woman at the same time??
2007-01-05 05:56:57 · answer #11 · answered by dr_mark_a_horn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋