how do you feel about meeting a 9 or 10 looking guy, and then you find out he's a virgin.
furthermore do you feel its not a good idea for a guy to tell a girl he's a virgin, whats the feelings on this?
2007-01-05 05:53:54 · 23 answers · asked by flawless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy like that would be a diamond in the ruff. He's gain about 100 extra brownie points and much more respect from me.
As far as telling a girl....only if it comes up in the conversation naturally. Don't just burst out and say it. Then it wouldn't be believable. But otherwise, that'll be great!
2007-01-05 06:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel great about meeting a 9 or 10 who is a virgin. I want to know how old he is though. I think if the girl asks he should be honest about it but most women assume grown men are not virgins.
2007-01-05 05:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by puppetmastersp99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great, now he's an 11 in my book. He's sure enough of himself to wait for the right time. A guy will have to tell the girl eventually. Not "Hi I'm Joe and I'm a virgin" but before things start to get too intimate I think she should know.
2007-01-05 06:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely wait and tell her once you know that your relationship with her is going somewhere. Don't lie to her about it, but it is personal, so it shouldn't be like front page of the local newspaper or anything. Sex can be a beautiful thing if you let it. Don't throw it away and don't let anyone make you feel bad about being a virgin. I think that there's a right time for everything.. :) I wouldn't change my mind about you, or whomever this person is.
2007-01-05 05:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have a problem with it and I think a guy is best to be honest and just say so if he is going out with someone who might be a future relationship. No need to put it in the newspaper. Nothing wrong with being a virgin either.
2007-01-05 05:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by antiekmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding today's views upon sexuality it should be comforting to every woman or man who has met someone that has not experienced sex. BUT, this is seldom the case. We don't want to wait and experience sexual satisfaction with our spouse. We shun delayed sexual gratification, and shamely, we ridicule those who do have the nerve, and will power to swim against the current of premarital sex. STD's are widespread, and everyone seems to push aside the reality of their harmful existence. My true opinion is even though everyone knows that having premarital is wrong and dangerous--the current response sadly is, "you're kidding. you've never had sex!" Ignore the naysayers for your own health's sake. Tell the young lady up front, and if she has a problem with it--move on quickly.
2007-01-05 06:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to meet a guy who is virgin and isn't so crazy about sex. Don't flat out say "I'm a virgin" that would kinda weird. But if it comes up don't lie.
2007-01-05 05:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by confussed... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be glad to be his first, because he'll remember me:)
There is nothing wrong with telling the girl that you're a virgin, just don't do it on the first date, because it will sound weird... tell her when/if she asks or right before you have sex with her for a very first time. Good luck:)
2007-01-05 05:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to tell a girl this information until it becomes apparent that sex is imminent. Or don't tell her at all. I knew my ex was a virgin the first time we had sex, and i never really gave him a chance to show he could be better.
2007-01-05 05:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care. Honesty is always the best answer. If a girl doesn't like you because you're a virgin, then she's not the right one for you anyway.
2007-01-05 05:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by qtea4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋