I left my boyfriend because he cheated on me. I loved him sooooo much! All i do is think about him though.He calls me all the time cryiin for me back sayin how stupid he was.
sometimes i feel like i should go back other times i dont...what should i do?
2007-01-05 05:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, think about what you love. You love someone who is not honest with you. You love someone who obviously does not love or respect you.
Second of all, think about what one sided love is, infatuation. You are attracted to many of his traits, but true love is about more than traits.
Third of all, remember that cheater will cheat again. Especially if they get away with it the first time. Getting you back means to him that he got away with it.
Lastly, go find someone who will give you a fifty/fifty relationship and let this guy go.
Take this from someone who got hurt by dating women who were users. Someone who saw the woman that would become his wife as not his type. And someone who realized that his type was what was wrong. My wife and I have now been married for four years.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-05 06:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would not take him back. You can find someone out there better than him. If my boyfriend cheated on me I would not take him back and he is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love him with all my heart. If he called me crying all the time wanting me back I would not take him back. He should never cheated in the first place.
2007-01-05 14:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by sweetheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some u time you are thinking with your heart
and not your mind sometimes they say something different
of course he is crying he got caught but he may feel bad
only time will tell for that. go do something special for yourself
go out with a girlfriend and just enjoy to get off your mind
I know it will be hard but once you do you will feel better because
you probably doing alot of crying. i can,t really tell him you should
eave,but your trust is gone and arelationship can,t survive
without it.THINK ABOUT IT. and you have to ask yourself
if you let him come back will sit with you if he do it again
or will you feel like fool? you have to know as woman what
you put with from the beginning then if mess a big as that and
what you will accept and not accept. it all fall on you because
if you go back it,s not gonna be easy and do you want to
put yourself through and can you SURVIVE ON JUS LOVE?
2007-01-05 14:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to that small still voice, You broke up with him for a reason!Move on with your life. Find some one who will treat you right and not cheat on you.
2007-01-05 14:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make a clean break! Dont look back, try to focus on other things in ur life.
2007-01-05 14:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by vicky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its up to you. if you want to give him another chance go right ahead, but dont trust him. let him work your trust in him again. or you can drop him like a stone and find someone who wont cheat on you.
2007-01-05 14:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he' weeping on the phone he wants you back.Did you give him another chance?If not go for it!If he does it again it's the last straw!Then leave him again.If you did give him a chance then don't go for it.He might do it again.But if u still wanna go back
you should.But if he promises you and he doesn't do it again
stay with him.And breaks the promise leave him again.
If he phones you and cries on it..................
it's his problem.But if doesn't you guys should
stay .............
together!!!
2007-01-05 14:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Najia A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a cheater, alwase a cheater. if u go back, he'll think ur soft and he'll do it again. if he really loved u, he would've thought about u before he acted. this is coming from a guy.
2007-01-05 14:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by rice_burner503 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had the same thing happen to me and i gave him another chance and guess what.... he cheated again, its your call. i know that it hurts now but time will heal all pain
2007-01-05 14:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by qtea4real 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"i can have another you in a minute.." he did it once he'll do it again. IF he's not crying with tears in his eyes when he calls, he's quite simply playing you for a fool
2007-01-05 14:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by flawless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋