Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Ok lets say from the start of the relationship you knew that your girlfriend has a sexual arousal disorder(means never gets aroused but interested in sex but don't have any sexual feelings), you fall in love with her and ladeda.

Would you marry her? What would you do if you can't have sex with her but she's willing to be physically intimate?

Would you help her in getting treatment for a healthy sex life or leave her for someone better?

2007-01-05 06:37:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 06:37:02 · 12 answers · asked by lipgloss 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyday my friend tells me of this co worker at her job who is always comes over and talks non stop. She said that this co-workers talking is stopping her from doing work because she doesn't want to be rude and tell him to go back to work so she listens.
she told me that yesterday she avoids him, and now she is rarely seen at her desk for fearing that he might appear. I told her to let him know that chatting can be done at lunchtime. She told me that he won't stop talking. she said one day things were quiet and he came up to her and said "I dont mean to interrupt, I want to talk to somebody" and goes off gabbing. I dont know what to tell her, its irratating her and me cause I can't call her at work cause she stays away from her desk. what to do?

2007-01-05 06:36:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend-well, a HALF-friend, and she always discourages me. She makes ME feel stupid, my BEST FRIEND look stupid, and says I can't do anything right! We both play the violin, and we both write, and she thinks and says that she's better than me! I've been doing both longer, and even though I'm younger, (2 yrs only!) I'm better at both. I know. I've heard her play, and I've seen her writing.
How do I confront her about this?

2007-01-05 06:35:42 · 4 answers · asked by marajadebountyhunter 2 in Friends

can you get re-married to the same person; are there any restrictions

2007-01-05 06:35:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I've heard some guys that have their wife on paxil. They really enjoy it because their wife is never nagging or never angry.

But why do they like it when Paxil decreases your sexual desire??

2007-01-05 06:34:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a real good talker but im having problems thinking of stuff to say to this guy i like any ideas after i say hi

2007-01-05 06:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

still feels sick to think of it yet i find guys atttractive, i even weird myself out.

2007-01-05 06:32:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife are having problems. Basically she is too stupid to understand how great I am. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume/mask and I go around town helping people. I go into stores and start knocking stuff off the shelves, i dance in the middle of the road so traffic builds up. I knock on random doors and when the person answers I scream in their face and throw dirt and leaves into their house. I run up to people walking and scream in their face. I bring joy to the entire town every day. My wife says I'm being stupid and I should get a job. I say she's stupid and she should get two jobs so I can buy more Jar Jar Collectables! Worse, she gets so mad when I suggest we use a Jar Jar costume in our love making. And one time, she was cleaning the kitchen and I walked in with my Jar Jar Costume and opened a bunch of cereal boxes and started dumping them on the floor, and she actually HIT (ASSUALTED) me!!! I mean, this woman is a real piece of work, a lunatic! Should I divorce her?

2007-01-05 06:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Be Intimate with Jar Jar Binks!! 1 in Singles & Dating

If you could have any type of guy, what would he be like?

2007-01-05 06:31:46 · 20 answers · asked by T.M. 2 in Singles & Dating

First off I am a women and it is my husband but its ok i think we have decided to not get a divorce and seperate for a year and see how things go wat happneed is his familys in texas mines in missouri we thought it would work i lived there for 6 months before we got married but after we got married it all went down heal but im coping better today i talked to him last nite and today and maybe it will just be a seperation

2007-01-05 06:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by mommyof3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 06:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by proudvegan12 2 in Singles & Dating

fantasise about threesomes? It's my boyfriends birthday soon and I've decided to surprise him with someone for us to enjoy. Really its for my benefit as I'm getting a little bored with him, but I want to make out i'm doing it for him... Do you think I would get away with it? He's never said anything about it before. Is it too risky to chance it?

2007-01-05 06:29:10 · 35 answers · asked by Jo_Diva 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it worth the effort and energy?Or does it all depend on the individuals?

2007-01-05 06:29:10 · 13 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

So I picked up this chick long time ago. My buddies were at my hotel room so I took her on the beach. She was in such a rush to seal the deal. I told her to hold off until I put protection on. She got pissed and told me that I don't know what she wants! She screamed and left. I know that chicks want to produce babeis with aaibmiester and trap me, but I am not going to fall for that trap.

2007-01-05 06:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who likes me, occasionaly mentiones the offer (which was the offer of going out) and I have kindly let it down but he didnt get it apparently. He keeps occasionaly briniging it up. Not only that but all the "other girls" have said things like "i just dont like you like that" or "oh you will find someone someday you will see"
and i dont want to seem like a jerk.... Also I have this one guy who always bugs me, he is ok part of the time but annoying half the time and he cant understand the plain and easy to see signs he needs to back off. I am not the type to be mean to others so what do I say or do?

2007-01-05 06:28:29 · 11 answers · asked by a_butterfly_sister 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 06:28:18 · 12 answers · asked by smartypants 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 06:28:10 · 8 answers · asked by honey 1 in Singles & Dating

I think about having sex with different women all the time. I have a steady girlfriend and we have frequent sex, but I still have sex with other women. I have very little self control when it comes to trying to be monogamous. Whenever I encounter a woman that I think is attractive, I'll make the moves on her. I travel for work and have been damn lucky with meeting women when I'm out of town. I don't know how to stop. I have protected sex, but am very afraid that I might catch an STD. Yet I can't control my impulses when I'm with a beautiful woman. I tried watching porn to satisfy my urges, but that didn't help because it just wasn't realistic for me.

2007-01-05 06:27:38 · 18 answers · asked by Vehement 2 in Singles & Dating

when she comes home from a visit. The ex wants the new husband out of the picture. The ex has already turned him in to DCFS for abuse (unfounded) and is now telling the 6 year old to call 911 and tell them to come get her because she doesn't want to be there with the new stepdad. What can we do to convince the ex that this is hurting the children? The children and the stepdad get along great. I think this is one of the reasons the ex is pushing so hard to get rid of him. Talking to the ex has done no good. We have also tried talking to his parents to no avail.

2007-01-05 06:27:28 · 12 answers · asked by GPHS 3 in Marriage & Divorce

could it be possible that my boyfriend masterbates while i'm in the shower and he's in the living room waiting for me?

2007-01-05 06:27:18 · 10 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 06:26:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband is always looking in my hand bag and taking thiings. Then he denies it. I get so angry. I've tried talking to him but nothing works, he believes it his right to do so. It is such an invasion.

2007-01-05 06:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by tis.notme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My almost 3 yrs of marriage w/ my 51yr old husband doesnt involve sex bec of his ED, lack of sex drive, and inabilty to arouse me(i'm 35). He had 3 kids w/ the previous marriage and had another live-in partner before we got married. I was sexually active before I got married. The uro & ob didnt find any physical problems but only recommend viagra which we havent tried yet. My husband doesnt seem to care abt our situation but he sure loves me. I'm starting to rebel & get frustarted! pls help!

2007-01-05 06:26:28 · 2 answers · asked by mj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We're unofficially seeing each other.....how can I tell if he still likes me and wants to pursue a proper full-on relationship (he's hinted at having a baby) and also how can I tell if he wants me for just sex?!! If I tell him I miss him, he'll say it back but apart from that we rarely talk about our feelings.
How do I know what he wants without asking him? can I pick up hints? my friends have said he used the baby talk to get in my panties but he knows fine well we'll be having sex when I see him!


the thing is, he'll tell me he misses me only when I say it first, as for the mushy stuff, we've never said stuff like "thinking bout you" to each other!

2007-01-05 06:25:42 · 5 answers · asked by Angelina M 1 in Singles & Dating

Growing up I had a dad. I thought as a kid that a father's love for a daughter was something special, something unique, something that couldn't be compared for much else. My image of my father was shattered at 16 years of age when it came to light that my father was a pedophile -- he had been abusing all of his children in infancy (I have 6 younger siblings). Of course, I don't remember it, but it's severely damaged my idea of a father. I am skeptical of all those "Daddy's Little Girl" songs and what not... I'm not even sure anymore if fathers can really be as loving as I thought they were. This doesn't generally bother me, but I'm wondering if it will affect my family when I have one -- My relationship with my kids, and with my future husband. But anyway, what are your experiences and observations concerning fathers and daughters? Was I just mistaken to think there was a special bond? Was it some sick manifestation of supressed memories of the abuse?

2007-01-05 06:25:31 · 4 answers · asked by Viki 4 in Family

I saw him intimately talking to our house help.
I saw him intimate with one of his assistants.
My mother doesn't believe that he can cheat!

2007-01-05 06:25:07 · 20 answers · asked by babuli 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 06:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by taz 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM WITH A MAN FROM ST.LOUIS AND I AM PREGANT WITH ANTHER GUYS BABY BUT I STILL LOVE MY FIANCEE AND I AM SCARED HE WILL LEAVE ME WHAT CAN I DO PLEASE HELP ME

2007-01-05 06:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by KIMBERLY P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How come just when everything is going perfect, he has to lie, cheat, and betray us? He left me alone and pregnant..He thinks he did nothing wrong!!

2007-01-05 06:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by ZarahzMA 4 in Singles & Dating