How come just when everything is going perfect, he has to lie, cheat, and betray us? He left me alone and pregnant..He thinks he did nothing wrong!!
2007-01-05 06:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by ZarahzMA 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It only happens when we allow it, we give so much power to them it makes me sometimes angry, but to solve all of that is just go and deal with it and move on with our lives, and not give them the satisfaction of knowing that they have hurt us so badly because they don't care if they hurt us they move on and do there own thing....So why shouldn't you!
2007-01-05 06:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war. The breaking of hearts is a reciprocal act dear one. Men break our hearts and we break theirs. Perhaps you saw the flags; at first yellow, then orange, then red. You must have ignored them even when your subconscious begged you to take a closer look at this man. We are never decieved by the individual instead, we are deceived by our own selfish desires. Pick yourself up, stop crying and pondering over his decision to leave. Instead, ponder over where you made the wrong decision to continue in the relationship even when you sensed that everything was not perfect although you said they were. You will soon be a new mother, and your child needs your strength, your smile, your touch, your contagious laughter, and all of your energy. You and I and the rest of America realize that his actions were indeed wrong however, until he chooses to admit that he did something wrong it will not change your circumstances. I am a believer of the old cliche that "what does not kill you---will make you stronger." Be at peace with yourself and your child's father. And if you can stretch it---also forgive him. congratulations on being a new mom.
2007-01-05 06:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you women don't know how to really find the kind of guy you are truly looking for (in your hearts, not between your legs or through your eyes).
I have never in my life caused a gf pain and my gf gets roses each and every month on our anniversary date. I've been this way all my life for any of my past gfs as well.
2007-01-05 06:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women go for crude, shallow, insensitive guys.(jerks) These are the only types of guys women find appealing while they say they are looking for a nice, sensitive guy. As a side note, the nice guy is the one you girls usually keep in the "friend" zone.
2007-01-05 06:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Maleficus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not men in general. Its your man. You have to remember that, so you can move on to someone worth your time. Life is too short to waste your heart and time.
2007-01-05 06:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive neva cheated on a girl an neva will, so stop assuming all us guys are to blame its just the pr*cks that cnt stay in a relationship
2007-01-05 06:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by agy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some unknown reason mens brains never do mature ,they're like public school kids playing head games.they think with there you know what instead of their brain.
2007-01-05 06:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason girls do it to guys. You go for the bad ones.
2007-01-05 06:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long did you know him, GOTTA be not blind when dealing with our hearts, men give clues. sometimes we just don't open our eyes and check it out. sometimes we want them more then they wants us
2007-01-05 06:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by abhammonds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are not wanted by girls, that's why guys have to be jack-*** and then all girls are attracted by them.
2007-01-05 06:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by hunga bunga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋