My husband is always looking in my hand bag and taking thiings. Then he denies it. I get so angry. I've tried talking to him but nothing works, he believes it his right to do so. It is such an invasion.
2007-01-05 06:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by tis.notme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DOES HE HAVE A REASON TO DO THIS ? IF YOU'RE NOT HIDING ANYTHING WHY SHOULD IT BOTHER YOU ? PUT A MOUSE TRAP IN YOUR BAG.
2007-01-05 06:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by strike_eagle29 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in fact lucky I should say, these days no one has time for another. What is wrong with him looking into your handbag? I would try and be naughty with him and leave a fake note in it pretending it is from my boyfriend and when he is all worked up, irritate him even further saying "oh my Gosh! how on earth did you find it"
I think you should chill out and just enjoy life... I feel that it is not an invasion....it is a part and parcel of marriage.
If you want to take a revenge, go and check all the numbers on his cell phone and his e-mails. Those two areas are very sensitive for men haha
2007-01-05 06:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by SP 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow.... it sounds pretty childish that he denies it, then claims it is his right. What kinds of things is he taking?
Since you've already talked to him and explained that it bothers you, I don't know what the best advice would be. Maybe let him catch you going through his wallet... Taking all the stuff out and put it in a different place.... then say, "wasn't me!" haha
Seriously... I think I would just keep talking to him, explaining how you have nothing to hide, but that every person is entitled to their privacy and saying "I do" does not negate that right. If nothing works, then get used to it. Once you have kids they are dumping all the stuff from your purse onto the floor anyway (c:
Good luck
2007-01-05 06:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try not keeping any thing in your hand bag. Also dont tell him too much about anything. I used to tell lots of things to my hubby but when he threw back the same things i told him before as a bad example of my behaviour i took a clue and now dont tell him much.we need our own space being with anybody husband /sister/brother.
2007-01-05 06:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by di 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, lord one of them kind of , let me check it out.kind. Your purse is your private possesion and he should be hands off. Do you think he doesn't trust you and just wants to see if he an find something. My ex's Mother would go through anything she could purse or anything , I foxed her I started locking my purse and private thing's in the trunk of my car, when she was around or visiting for a month. When you get out of car locked that purse up in your trunk and don't give him a trunk key.
2007-01-05 06:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is an invasion of your privacy and I know that if my husband did that I would be upset as well . I know that my husband trusts me and would never do something like that . Have you ever given him reason not to trust you? if so then maybe that is why he does that if not then I cant answer why he does it . if it keeps up start going through his personal stuff like his email ,cell phone and wallet and see what he does . i guarantee you he will not like it and it may make him stop looking through your stuff. good luck .
2007-01-05 07:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy a second handbag. Hide your handbag under the bed or in a locked drawer. He probably won't even notice. You could also write a note like 'Stay out of my purse" and keep it in your handbag.
2007-01-05 06:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a purse that has a lock on it! Man, that would drive me nuts too!!! You have the right to your privacy and your things, even if you're married.
Here's a site for a zippered purse lock. Good luck dealing with him!
2007-01-05 06:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He would have a right to if you look through his wallet? Do you? Show him the majority of the answers, I'm sure they all will say the same. STAY OUT!
2007-01-05 06:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by kim_n_orlando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, if you are faithful, have confessed of your undying love and committment, offer him sex and ask for sex the way you want it, and you see know reason why he should doubt you, than move out.
No one should go through anyones belongings because they think they have a right to. Thats rediculous. That is totally a caveman attitude. And I'm a man.
If he can't trust you and you happen to be one of those rare trusting loving faithful woman that can never see yourself hurting another in that most painful way.............call me. You are hard to find, or I am just not looking hard enough. Other than that, be proud of yourself.
2007-01-05 06:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When it comes to marrige...you either trust your parter...or you do not...there is no middle ground...it sounds like he does not trust you...and things will only grow worse from there...all I can think of is that you need to have a talk about trust with your husband...is this the only thing he does that indicates that perhaps he does not trust you? probably not
2007-01-05 06:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by creston_182 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋