First off I am a women and it is my husband but its ok i think we have decided to not get a divorce and seperate for a year and see how things go wat happneed is his familys in texas mines in missouri we thought it would work i lived there for 6 months before we got married but after we got married it all went down heal but im coping better today i talked to him last nite and today and maybe it will just be a seperation
2007-01-05 06:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by mommyof3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is a great idea but have you made it clear if you can see other people? if not i highly suggest that be the #1 topic of you next conversation and be very very clear about it!
where you havent been married for long and if you both agree that this marriage is not what you want. you may be able to have it annuled.
i wish you the very best in your decision:)
2007-01-05 06:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-05 14:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-05 14:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and hubby haven't discussed all the issues yet. Next step is to talk to a lawyer. In some states, a judge won't grand a divorce after such a short marriage. He most likely would tell both of you to go to marriage counseling first and wait for about a year. This is what most lawyers would tell you to do also.
2007-01-05 14:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pancake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 and 1/2
2007-01-05 14:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, get Family counciling to bring out those little things that we forget when we are separated that bubble to the surface after we get back together. History has a way of repeating itself, ya know. Think about the things that caused the separation. You don't have those things in a separation. People have short memories.
2007-01-05 14:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by pro1fit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you are not sure you want to get a divorce then you and your husband are doing the right thing.Maybe ya'll just need to date like you are boyfriend and girlfriend.I am sorry if I sound silly.
2007-01-05 14:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by armywife327 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 months doesn't even cover the breaking in period. It takes time to adjust to each other. DON'T BE A QUITTER!!!!
2007-01-05 14:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
& you're a new mom too.. that's gonna be rough on your kid, don't you think you guys are being a bit selfish?
2007-01-05 14:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will get better. most of all hang in there. good luck.
2007-01-05 14:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋