I AM WITH A MAN FROM ST.LOUIS AND I AM PREGANT WITH ANTHER GUYS BABY BUT I STILL LOVE MY FIANCEE AND I AM SCARED HE WILL LEAVE ME WHAT CAN I DO PLEASE HELP ME
2007-01-05 06:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by KIMBERLY P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, i was in that say situation but it wasnt my fault. my boyfriend made another baby on me. I broke up with him. After a couple well 4 months now, im still kinda hurt but i chose to forgive him. Everyone isnt as forgiving as i am. But i can tell you for sure that trust is going to broken and his heart.
2007-01-05 06:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by qtea4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If you got pregnant with your ex's baby AFTER you broke up and started dating your new boyfriend, I hate to say it but your pretty much SOL unless he is very understanding. If it was before, he may understand. I'm sorry I'm not much of a help but if a girl were to come to me and tell me that she was pregnant with her ex's baby, I couldn't stay with her for two reasons. One, because I am not in a position (mentally or financially) to take care of a child and two, I would always see the child as the product of an affair (IF that is the case) and wouldn't want to inflict that upon the child.
2007-01-05 14:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything anyone can say to fix your situation. I think you really just need to be honest with everyone including yourself. There is now a child involved and you need to make the right decisions and not feel stress or pressure for the babies sake.
Good Luck!
2007-01-05 14:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you seriously expect? If you cheated then I hope he leaves you because you cheated. Would you be with him if you weren't pregnant and his ex was, I don't think so. You already know the answer, do the right thing.
2007-01-05 14:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. He will leave you. He'd probably leave you for cheating on him, but he'll more than likely leave you because you're pregnant with another mans baby. What did you expect?
2007-01-05 14:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. You owe it to him to tell him the truth. He will have to be pretty understanding to stay with you. Everyone makes mistakes but this one would be pretty hard to forgive. If you really love him, try to express it to him as best you can and hope for the best.
2007-01-05 14:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Crackoa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know before you met him? Did you become pregnant after you started dating him?
If you can answer yes to either of these questions, you, my dear, and a bi*ch
2007-01-05 14:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no control over how he will react. However you had better tell him. A marriage founded on a lie will not succeed.
FP
2007-01-05 14:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight out that you are pregnant with your ex's kid and that your sorry you didn't tell him in the first place, that you just didn't know how to tell him and see what happens from there.
2007-01-05 14:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by acutting99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SCREWED UP! SAY GOODBYE TO WHAT EVER TRUST THERE WAS. DON'T RUIN THIS MANS LIFE BY STAYING WITH HIM. GO BACK TO YOUR EX, YOU STILL SEEM TO HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM.
2007-01-05 14:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by mr_moffit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋