Is it worth the effort and energy?Or does it all depend on the individuals?
2007-01-05 06:29:10 · 13 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think they can work.
These days, long distance relationships are becoming more and more popular and people are gunna have to accept that more people are choosing to find their partner through this extraordinary way.
It all depends on how determined you are with the reltionship. And it's also important a lot of trust is included. With long distance relationships, you have to be constructive with ideas and ways of keeping contact to enable to keep the relationship going.
I know and heard of plenty of people who have succeeded in finding their true love through the internet or phone. But then i've heard the same amount of people who's relationship was total disaster, its totally 50/50.
It all depends how you want to look at it. If you want it to work then it can, but if you be pessemistic about it, negativity will fall and will be totally ripped to shreds.
2007-01-05 06:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a long distance relationship myself at the moment, and it is certainly extremely hard. I want to be with my boyfriend but at the moment it's just not possible.
We were supposed to meet up for a romantic break this weekend, but right at the last minute he rang to say he couldn't make it (i was already on the train). Now i'm thinking it's just not worth it at all. He's apologised repeatedly, but i'm now having doubts. Ultimately my advice is that your relationship will be worth the time and energy as long as you BOTH put in the same amount of time and energy and effort into the relationship. Believe me, there's nothing worse than feeling like your the only one who cares. So sit down and have a chat with your partner and discuss whether this is what you really want and whether you are both willing to maintain your level of committment to one another.
2007-01-08 01:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by cognito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends. I am in one now and really it is sooo hard to keep up with. It's almost more time and effort then someone who lives near you. I realized over New Years that it isn't worth the trouble. But I think it totally depends on your situation. I also have a bit of a wandering eye so it is extra hard for me.
Good Luck!
2007-01-05 06:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the individuals involved in the Relationship. I personally think it is very hard but I have two women I work with one is married and her husband is out of the country. The other is her boyfriend and he is in a different state. It is hard for both of them but they love their partners very much that it is worth being away for now. I think if you and your partner truly care about each other it will work out. But if you have any feelings that you don't want to put that much into it don't start it at all. I think yall should discuss what it will be like being apart and if it is worth continuing the relationship.
2007-01-05 06:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very difficult. Is it worth it? Depends on the individual and how long distance. If it´s to the point that you will never even get a hug from the person or more, wink wink. Why bother? I don't want to snuggle with my computer. Eventually to get it to work someone is going to have to move. Meaning that either of you is going to have to give up the life that they´ve established. You tell me. Is that worth it?
2007-01-05 06:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individuals. Unfortunately I think it is not a good idea because it maximises problems. For example, if you 2 argue about something, you will be angry at each other each time you talk, until the problem is solved. I makes it look like the whole relationship is about the argument. However, when you are close, you can focus on other things that make the argument of less importance.
2007-01-05 06:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by komguepcr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases it is not worth it but in some it does, I would say it depends on the individuals that are in the situation if it works then go for it if it doesn't then well that is the way it is.
2007-01-05 06:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont imagine each person needs to have a lengthy distance relationship. existence takes position and receives contained in the way, you actually ought to artwork round it. If someone should be with their lengthy distance BF or GF sufficient/or they love them sufficient, they are going to bypass to the position the different human being is and prevent the lengthy distance component. those those who've relationships over the internet or out of state "merely because" are in all likelihood dropping their time. lengthy distance relationships wont very last if there isnt dedication.
2016-12-01 21:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be worth all the effort and energy if it's the right person and both parties are committed to it.
2007-01-05 06:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person themselves.....They can work out but it takes a lot of patience, and trust issues. You have to really be sincere about it because local temptation is a beosh!!!
2007-01-05 06:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋