Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

i dont get it. wat do guys really appreciate for a holiday like christmas or b/day. i dunno wut to give them. but if i dont, they'll giet mad.. grr. i want it to be really thoughtful, but im just not a guy.
i hope u can help me...and i hate it when other ppo say oooh.. u soo like him.. but i DONT hes just my friend!! omg.. frustrated, confussed and so ttly stress'd. i just want to me remember'd, but not in that weird way.

2006-12-26 17:25:02 · 3 answers · asked by missannazhoo 2 in Friends

i've been dating my boyfriend 3 yearhs. he went to vegas for christmas with his buddies, and they went to nighclubs there every night. i was there with my family too, and we got a chance to see each other for a few hours. he was all over me and really really sweet while i was with him. but he told me that he almost went with a girl becuase all the half-naked chicks in the clubs and the alcohol made him extremely horny. he said he didn't because he thought of me and he wanted to wait for me. he was really excited to see me. but still, what he said just bothers me so much, so i asked him what the hell was he thinking? i felt betrayed. am I wrong for feeling this way? He said i'm overreacting, and he said that he loves me, and all his friends think that he is gay because he never dirty dance with girls and everything. he said that he doesn't care about all that because he has me and loves me. I competely trusted him for 3 years straight, but after he told me this, i'm having doubts....

2006-12-26 17:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend, pretty much asked me today, if I would marry her?!? We've been seeing each other for about 3 months now, nothing serious either. She wants to join the navy, wich I don't have a problem with. But she wants to get married because she says we wouldn't be able to see each other for long peroids of time. I'm still in college. She asked today, wich put me in a panic. what should I do?????

2006-12-26 17:24:14 · 20 answers · asked by hard shell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 17:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by rajeshwari r 1 in Friends

my boyfriend and i are falling apart but then when i go to do something about it, he sorta does something that makes me remember why i loved him in the first place. somehow we just keep coming back to each other.Does this mean something? What do i do?

2006-12-26 17:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by LR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy broke my heart. We go back like 6 years, we hung out a lot back then and even fooled around a couple times, and I had a crush on him, then we lost contact. We got back into contact a couple months ago and started sleeping together right away. I just automatically thought we would become bf/gf when we started sleeping together. I guess because in the past all my r/ships started that way. So we are sleeping together, and I tried to bring our r/ship to the next level, but he keeps saying he just wants to keep it casual. It's breaking my heart, but I love him and I can't stay away!!! I keep getting mad at him, but then I apologize, and then I sleep with him again, and we're back where we started. I just can't stay away from him. He has some sort of hold on me. But every time he says he doesn't want a serious r/ship it seriously breaks my heart. I don't know what to do. I don't have the strength to stay away.

2006-12-26 17:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in another city nearby and asked for money for gas to get them there promised to pay you back would you give them the money even tho they were strangers or what?? oh yea the daughter was in a car accident suddenly thats why the hospital

2006-12-26 17:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by marion r 3 in Singles & Dating

ok your at the beach at the end of the pier thing to get from hotel to beach...anyway your about 15 and this girl prolly 17/18 walks up the pier from the beach and you say..whatsup just like sayin hey i guess and she smiles sorta and keeps on her way to hotel...well she comes back down a little bit later on the phone and you say whatsup and she smiles and laugs a little and stops at the end of the pier......does she want you to go talk to her or is she jsut talkin on the phone??

2006-12-26 17:22:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and we are some how always in fight she dont give that attention i want...

2006-12-26 17:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by comluvmummuch c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:19:29 · 5 answers · asked by SECK'S 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to ask them to repay you constantly especially if they are your older sister?

2006-12-26 17:19:23 · 18 answers · asked by AWorldThatNeedsToCalmDown 1 in Family

She told me one day that she liked him, but so have I almost for 6 months! I don't want to lose her friendship over a guy, but I also really like him! What should I do???

2006-12-26 17:18:51 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Friends

My ex husband is married and his new wife is pregnant. He was mentally abusive, so I left him and took my two small kids with me. Although I know he's not good for me, I still am jealous of his new relationship. What if he treats her better? what if she makes him happy? I still have not moved on. I am working full time and going to school to secure a future for my kids. However, I feel cheated out of love and happiness. Is this normal? what to do?

2006-12-26 17:18:15 · 23 answers · asked by rememberns 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He says it's wrong. I'm a PROUD singlemom of three WONDERFUL boys. I've been doing this for years? I just make sure the doors are closed and all ya know. Should I dump this turd?

2006-12-26 17:17:56 · 30 answers · asked by proudsinglemom3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she was very controlling, yelled at me, said i wasnt a good friend anymore bc i was hanging out with my new bf more than her, she wasnt happy for me bc a guy was interested in me for once, even tho she has had many bfs.

her bf ended up yelling at me saying what a horrible friend i was to her and so i ended the relationship. i have given her 3 or so chances to redeem herself and be a better friend, but it failed.

i havent talked to her in like a year, and i miss her but i know i shouldnt start the relationship over again bc it will be a mess again.

have any of u ever gone thru something like this?

2006-12-26 17:17:37 · 7 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2 in Friends

i mean he is the sweetest.He takes care of my kids when i need the help,since im a single parent.And he is there for me when i need him.But i always seem to push him away.Why?maybe fear mmm.I feel that there is no way that this guy can involve himself with someone that has kids already.For what.! he is so young he deserves so much more but i do like him alot though im so confused .

2006-12-26 17:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by marty 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by orkmage 1 in Singles & Dating

They are not humorous. It seems they do not know how to laugh at jokes. They never smile, in fact, come to think of it, I have never seen them give a genuine smile.

I also found out most can be mean when you get to know them.

2006-12-26 17:15:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that I needed a I'm sorry at the least for closure this all became because he was ranting and raving how he was going to kill his wifes brother for doing the same to her I called him out and told him that we need not get together anymore if he is going to continue to be a hipocrit. He swears up and down he did not do it when I remember plain as day it happening. I told him that if he can not be man enough to at least be remorseful then I want nothing to do with him. He said it was not him and he wasnt appologizing for something he did not do and was going to take a lie detector test. He did do it!!!! Am I wrong to cut all ties and tell him to screw off?

2006-12-26 17:13:22 · 18 answers · asked by crazy_sunshine2 2 in Family

You see, most women don't like to admit this, thinking that someone will accuse them of being shallow.

2006-12-26 17:12:33 · 23 answers · asked by riptor1987 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. He was picking me up from work, a coworker was talking to me and he got jelous Is there something wrong with that?

2006-12-26 17:12:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:10:38 · 42 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2 in Singles & Dating

Being at home with my family makes me seriously depressed. My dad hates my boyfriend, and does everything to me to practically ruin my life. I hate being at home.

Me and my boyfriend have been talking about moving in together, or even me moving into his house. His parents love me. How young is too young to live together? I love him very much.

2006-12-26 17:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2 in Singles & Dating

I have dated this guy for 3 yrs. & he has cheated on me 3 times(just kissing them) & he has been very controlling to me. I have always been faithful to him & I never broke up with him when he was bad to me. Just recently I met this guy and we have become extremely good friends! Just hanging out with each other and he really understands me and does so much for me! He has shown me in 3 days what I haven't had in 3 years. But I don't want to fall for him because we are best friends and I really do love this guy, but Im just really confused on what to do. Because now my boyfriend is starting to say I love you so much and I want you to do the things you love doing! Because he use to tell me that I can not go to the golf course when he was there or I couldn't go deer hunting...he was very jealous of everything too....Im just sooo confused and I do not know what to do...should I stick with my boyfriend or maybe try something new!?

2006-12-26 17:08:37 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me get in touch with my Fience' Joti Rogas, she lives in : Zone 1, Ayala, Zamboanga 7000...she was in a cras a week ago & have not heard from her ! If someone knows this address & can go there & tell Joti or her Momma ( Rosita ) to call me COLLECT at : 281 855 9465 ! I PROMISE TO PAY $50.00 U.S. to te person that gets this message to them & they contact me ! PLEAZZZZ, help me ? PROMISE I WILL SEND THE MONEY via WESTERN UNION as soon asthey contact me ! The only way that I have contact with Joti is therough the internet, but I believe she is in Hospital & has no way to contact me ! I can be reached at either the # above or 832 492 2395 or at : alfrmny@yahoo.com ! SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME ?????? Thank you ! GOD BLESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-26 17:08:10 · 1 answers · asked by alfrmny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 17:07:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my cousin and his wife are always asking my daughter to keep her youngest girl for long weekends and never invite of ask for the oldest girl. They are 3 and 6 yrs. I am concerned over the impact this is having on the girls, and my daughter becomes defensive whenever I try to talk to her about it. I have spoken to them all about this situation and they all try to make me feel like I am wrong about how I think on it. They all say that favoritism is acceptable and everyone does it. I am very upset and annoyed about how selfish and cruel they all are and I don't know what else to say or do (if anything) I wish I could get custody of my grandgirls and put a stop to this. What impact do you think this will have on them?

2006-12-26 17:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by sissytwo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my very close friend got married last year now she has a kid but her husband treets her like a slave,in her home she is only ment for work and hardly she gets time to be with her kid her trouble some story takes my breath and touches my heart i dont know how do i help her should i contact police or TV9 but i fear if every thing happens well good but if any thing goes wrong its a big trouble adding to her life which i dont want to do ...what do i do is there any way in which i could help her to make her life happy with her family ???? wil she be happy with her family again ???? will her husband change in the way she wants him??? an example to his cruelty is he adds perfume in her food so that she does not eat much....

2006-12-26 17:07:12 · 16 answers · asked by shiva k 2 in Family

Im 26 he's 27. Weve been married for a year and some change. We had little squabbles here and there like normal couples, but for the past month hes been acting strange. When I try to talk to him I get dismissed or a terse response. Whenever he wants sex (a lot) I feel like I have to say yes. And sex isnt even fun anymore b/c hes so aggressive it verges on sadism. On Christmas day in a friends house I kinda embarrassed him (long story) but I made a semi public apology. When we got home he kept rehashing what happened. He pinned me against the wall and yelled at me like a child. I was so pissed, I made him sleep in the living room and gave him the silent treatment. Hes been trying to apologize but Im not having it. Anyway if things continue like this i know were headed for divorce. Ive tried talking to him but like I said he is so unresponsive. What should I do?

2006-12-26 17:07:01 · 8 answers · asked by lombardi_love 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy I like takes days to respond to my online messages.

Well, first of all let me say that I emailed him first, and he did respond the very next day, but I was out of town and did not get his response until 2 weeks later. Ever since then he takes several days to reply back to me.
We are very flirty in the emails to one another.
The last message I sent him was before the holidays two weeks ago and I still have not heard from him.
Is this a sign he is not interested, or am I reading too much into it?

2006-12-26 17:06:11 · 14 answers · asked by Taffina_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating