Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

I really like this guy that I gave been daing for about two monts. We came so close to kissing, but I resisted which was a mistake becuase I really wanted to kiss him. Now he is comming back from Europe and I need some tips on how to make him kiss me. He was already sending me the right signals, but I didn't realize this until it was too late. Help?

2006-12-26 16:48:47 · 11 answers · asked by Coolfunnygal 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 16:48:22 · 2 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I miss him terribly and want to tell him to come home, but don't want him to resent me in the future.

2006-12-26 16:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by Kritikopoula 1 in Friends

hey

im not mad just wondering.........................

~how come u leave like 20 minutes after u tell me u have to go ?

~how come u sometimes leave and dont say goodbye ? it honestly hurts, evan if we dont talk for 1/2 an hour, i would still appreciate a goodbye :)

~how come when you're online u never WANT to talk to me, its always me starting the conversations ?






should i email that or not ?
its completely true
not sure whether or not to email it though, should i ?

2006-12-26 16:46:45 · 1 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I am very hurt by the way my in-laws treat me, and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. They have never liked me, but this Christmas Eve was the worst. My mother-in-law screamed at me, saying before I came along her family was wonderful, my husband was a good son until he married me (four years ago), and he's supposed to be taking care of her, not me. She further went on to scream that I am not a Christian person, I am unforgiving, and I don't live like God wants me to.

My husband told her, for the gazillionth time, that things were never going to be her way. My husband and I have agreed that from now he will visit his family alone.

I have been so hurt about this. I want to have a good relationship with my in-laws, but there is no hope left now. Can you offer me any encouragement at all? I could use it. Thanks.

2006-12-26 16:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by No Shortage 7 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have this friend wich is a boy i went with hom on a date twice and he leaned over and toung kissed me but i was tring to tell him i did't like him how do i tell him i don tlike him i only went on the first date to see what he was like i did like him at first but after hoe he makes all thouse jokes and sex jokes i realise i dont like him how do i tell him

2006-12-26 16:44:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 16:43:59 · 9 answers · asked by syrag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

at lunch time a took his portable dvd player and x-rated movies know why would he take something like that with him if he's suppose to be at work? can you answer that

2006-12-26 16:42:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and a guy i've liked for a really long time asked me to be his gf and i said yes. is it alright for me to keep going out with him or should i wait even though we're already bf/gf?

2006-12-26 16:42:46 · 28 answers · asked by naughtycupcake101 2 in Singles & Dating

kk well i'm 13,
i REALLY REALLY like my best guy friend..but i don't know if he likes me back.

we talk EVERY day,
we talk about almost everything!
we're the perfect couple,been told my many people,
but we're not a couple..

he just turned 16...in may 2006.

is there a problem with age difference?
how do i get him to notice that i see him as my boyfriend?
please help!?

2006-12-26 16:40:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She thinks we will be friends forever but thats it..just friends...
what do u think of her saying this? we have dated for almost 2 years and are 20 yrs old.

2006-12-26 16:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2 in Singles & Dating

a few posted answers to the last question thank you, but i left out 1 important detail. i am not dating either one

2006-12-26 16:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

does care = love? when you love someone, i would assume you care about them. but if you care about someone, do you love them to a certain extent? not be in love with them, but perhaps still love them in some way? what's the difference between care and love?

2006-12-26 16:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Singles & Dating

Well this guy I'm dating says he wants to keep it "friends with benefits," but when we do sleep together it's much more intimate than "wham bam thank you ma'am." Like he kisses me for a long, he cuddles after, he spends the night, and he even sticks around for a long time to cuddle and stuff in the morning, and we also do other stuff together besides have sex, and we communicate a lot when we're apart, and he says he likes hanging out with me and stuff. So doesn't this sound like more than FWB? With FWB I think of it as just a booty call with no cuddling or sleeping over and stuff like that. So what's going on? Thanks!!

2006-12-26 16:37:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has a sister name mary ,helen a brother name frank that i can remember his my grandma was helen steele until she married a seconfd time and then was helen lewis

2006-12-26 16:37:46 · 2 answers · asked by sherryone42 1 in Family

This guy is in the same community as I am. One time, we there was this social event for the members of our community. Since we consider each other friends, we were told by the host of the party to apologize and thank those people we feel we owe it to. So we ended up hugging each other and all that.

Then this guy who I like (and he knows I like him) hugged a lot of his female friends. Then when I called his attention many times for him to hug him, he ignored me many times too. Then when I had my chance I tried to hug him and he pushed me away AND THE WAY HE ACTED AND HIS FACE REACTED, HE LOOKED AS IF HE FEELS I WAS SEXUALLY HARASSING HIM.

Now this is surprising to me coz some time when he sees me, he presses his cheek against mine as a sign of greeting (this is the like the standard sign of greeting in our community. Also, I have talked and been with this guy in a lot of events so it's not like we don't have a foundation of friendship or anything like that.

2006-12-26 16:37:31 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

A example: I've got a affair with a girl seven year older than me. Someone like me had a affair with a girl with same kind of age difference.

2006-12-26 16:36:48 · 2 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there is this guy, and we've been talking, and talking for a few months now....at the beginning i knew that i liked him...so we are "friends"....but now i care about him aaaallloooottt...and i want to make it an official relationship....how do i tell him this....we do things that boyfriend and girlfriend do....talk to each otha, we see each other almost everyday...and he gives me hugs... and he looks into my eyes and it makes me drool!!so do you think there is a chance he might be up for it????? and reallly....what do i say to him to let him know how i feel without scaring him away??? ok, i know we started out as "friends" but he acts more like my boyfriend and doesnt treat me like a friend...he even went with me to a party, and wanted to dance....and i'm not sure(i've never been in this sort of relationship before) but i dont think that is a normal "friend" sort of behavior. Am i wrong?

2006-12-26 16:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by badgirl2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 16:35:35 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 16:35:03 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 6'1" tall and my first boyfriend (which lasted about 2 months) just broke up with me and started seeing a much smaller girl.I am concerned that me being so tall, like, intimidates guys?

I just wanted to know if it's really that big of a deal. I mean, I am 6'1", play basketball and volleyball (so I am pretty fit), and not like I'm gross or anything. Just any info would be a help. =)

2006-12-26 16:33:41 · 16 answers · asked by Volleyball_Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, ill name things

1.My bf keeps on ignoring me and i dont think that he loves me anymore
2.I dont think that anyone likes me
3.I wish that i had someone to talk to
4.i have no one to spend the holidays with
5.I have been depressed for a really long time and i dont even know why,seems like anything i do i cant get over it.

i want to know why im so depressed and sad all the time...this is a serious case because one of you might even here it on the news that a 13yr old girl has just shot herself with a 22'

please dont say that im too young for love because it is really pissing me off....i just want someone to love me too

and no jokes because im not in the mood and it will just make it worse..
thanks...........

2006-12-26 16:33:19 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married 2 years to a wonderful guy, I know its not right - but it happened.
Once a year, I go with my boss to a client sight.
This year - it was in Denver. Dec.19th was the meeting, we were supposed to fly back the 20th.
All flights home cancelled the 20th and 21st....
I have never been attracted to my boss, he is married, black, in his late 40s, he is a bit heavy....but we were literally stuck in a hotel for 3 days.
The first night - after many drinks - we started to fool around. That led to incedible sex. Then for the next 3 days - thats all we did. I have never felt that good EVER in bed with a guy. Yes - his size was amazing - but - I had felt things over and over I have never felt before.
We had sex 11 times in 3 days. He was purely amazing.
My husband and i had our "holiday" sex on Christmas. Yes I felt guilty - but - I could not stop "comparing".
My husband is just boring now compared to Denver...
I love my husband...but lust for my boss.
What to do?

2006-12-26 16:33:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 16:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you like a guy but your dating his best friend????????? I like em both but cant choose. Plus i would feel like **** if i dumped one guy for his best bud! they both dig me, and i cant choose. who should i go with guy1(boyfriend now-hottie and tall) or guy2(best friend-sexy and sk8ter dude)? both football playerz please help me choose- boykrazie

2006-12-26 16:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by JonJon's Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

what kind of hair, body size, clothes, and whatever you can think of?

2006-12-26 16:32:35 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for over 3 years and I still love her but am not in love with her anymore. I just want to be back on the dating scene. How do I tell her this? She is headoverheals in love with me and I hate to do that to her. Please help me.

2006-12-26 16:31:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad and my brother use to beat me. Men have tried to rape me. Every guy I've ever dated cheated on me or made me the "girl on the side" or second to first girlfriend. I've tried to date a wide range of guys with different personalities and professions, but they all treat me like sh*t in the end.
Today, I had to call the police to get a restraining order on a guy I barely even knew who has been stalking and sexually harrassing me for months.
I don't think I've deserved any of this, because I've done nothing wrong. I've come to the point where I can barely even look at a guy or even start any sort of relatioinship with. What do I do? I don't want to end up alone.

2006-12-26 16:30:53 · 14 answers · asked by Tulip 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Because things don't usually happen the way you wanted to be.And sometimes you feel desperate in some situations that you didn't though of.

2006-12-26 16:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by djoune 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am Alpha conserv. (?rigid) male. Oldest son - ditto so little time w/ 2 presch. 2nd son Alpha lib. w/ earlier vs. on sexuality Daughter adores uncle, ignores me (no tatoos?), youngest son in culture so foreign can only e=mail. Suggestions for improving relationships?

2006-12-26 16:29:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships