i nee to talk to someone?

Question

ok, ill name things

1.My bf keeps on ignoring me and i dont think that he loves me anymore
2.I dont think that anyone likes me
3.I wish that i had someone to talk to
4.i have no one to spend the holidays with
5.I have been depressed for a really long time and i dont even know why,seems like anything i do i cant get over it.

i want to know why im so depressed and sad all the time...this is a serious case because one of you might even here it on the news that a 13yr old girl has just shot herself with a 22'

please dont say that im too young for love because it is really pissing me off....i just want someone to love me too

and no jokes because im not in the mood and it will just make it worse..
thanks...........

Answer 1

Sweetie, you need to love yourself first. You come first before anyone and you need to remember that. Committing suicide is not the way to go. You think that people don't love you, but infact they may love you very much. I feel sad when I see a young person kill themself and I don't even know them. I may not know you, but you would make me sad if you did that.

So you are 13, that is a really tough age and I can remember feeling some of the ways that you have described. I think that 13 is such a tough age be at, but remember that you will get through it if you let yourself.

You say that you don't hane anyone to spend the holidays with. Do you not have any family to spend them with?

Last but not least, If you are seriously having these feelings of suicide, then you should talk to some one about it. I used to talk to the counselor at school. He would make me look at things in a different way and would help me get through my problems. My step-dad was an alcoholic and he used to hit me a lot. My mother really did not do anything about it because he did the same to her. I thought that it was always my fault and that I always did something bad for him to do that to me. I always tried to find a reason why it was ok for him to hit me.....when infact it was wrong. My counselor taught me how to get through my situation and showed me how I was not a bad person and that I did not deserve to be treated that way. I ended up going into the military to get away from him.......But, I also had to love myself first before I was able to get through it.

You may not know me, but if you ever need to chat you can e-mail me. Good luck in your situation and I will keep you in my thoughts!

Answer 2

Loneliness is the worst feeling, I know. But have faith that it will get better, hang on because you don't know what the future has in store for you. But if you are having serious sadness all the time and just dont feel like doing anything, you probably have depression. Its nothing to be embarassed about, it is an actual medical condition, not just you feeling crappy. You should really speak to your doctor, there are medication available that can help. Depression is cause by chemical activity in your brain and is not your fault. Get help really, you will feel better. ANd as far as looking for someone to love you, you are not too young, but you are looking in the wrong places. Corny as it sounds, one day it will make sense, you have to love yourself first before anyone else can love you.And the holidays are the worst, I know that feeling, but they too will pass. Take the first step and talk to your doctor, and talk to someone at school like a counselor, thats what they are there for, you don't have to go through this alone. My heart aches right now for you. GOOD LUCK. And I hope 2007 is a better year for you.

Answer 3

Your not alone. I'm going through it too. And I HATE it. My best friend moved away and now I don't have a "best" friend at my school. I started to join some groups and now I have a good life. Here is some tips I told myself. they worked too.

1. If your bf won't look at you ask him if he still cares. If he is lying you should know.

2.If no one likes you then they would make mean comments about you.

3.Join a group and go out to bowling or a safe place without a bar or near a drug house.

4.Visit your family. Or if they have passed relax at home. Put on some happy music. Watch TV. Decorate. Clean. Find a game that you like and play it. Watch a movie. DO NOT watch any scary things. That will make everything worse.

5.The reason that you are depressed is that you are putting yourself down. Think happy thoughts.

Your welcome.

Answer 4

Honey, what you are experiencing is something that a lot of pre-teens/teens go through. It will pass. You just need to find something that you enjoy and you will meet friends that enjoy the same things. Are there some clubs at school that you might be interested in? You may not find it right away, but you will find it. I was once told by a teacher, and I will never forget it, "that in your lifetime you will have many acquaintances but only one or two TRUE friends." Be patient, you have so much happiness to look forward to. I guarantee that in time you will find exactly what you are looking for.

Answer 5

Honey there is nothing or nobody in this world that is worth not living anymore for. I'm shire you are a beautiful and sweet women, there are lots of people out there that feel the way you do but sooner or later they wake up and realize life is worth living!! Just imagine your family and friends you would hurt in the long run they are the ones that suffer!! Please read over this and think twice about your life you would just throw away. If you would like to chat or send an email to me it's [e-mail] I am a single mother of two children and I'm 33.

Answer 6

Firstly, I am sorry you are having such a crappy time at the moment. This is obviously challenging and you feel as if there is no way out.

You need to remember to love yourself before anyone else can, you need to be kind to yourself, allow yourself to feel and emote and take all of this one day at a time, try to understand the underlying cause(s) of your darkness and sadness. Write down your thoughts and feelings, meditate to quieten your mind, reacquaint yourself with yourself.

I sincerely hope you can find a family member, friend, neighbour, teacher, spiritual adviser or at the very least, a Helpline of some description so you can share what is happening inside.

JUST BE KIND TO YOU, LOVE YOURSELF and may you find some peace from within.

Answer 7

Ok first things first....talk to your boyfriend, tell him how you're feeling....and you do not need a guy to make yourself happy ok? Talk to a friend or someone about how you are feeling....do not keep it bottled up! For now keep yourself busy to keep your mind off of this....get involved....try joining clubs?? Volunteering at the animal shelter?? Getting involved in something you are interested in is good because you'll make friends that are interested in the same things! I'm sorry you are feeling horrible right now, just remember to always love yourself even when it's hard....this hard time will pass you ok? Just stay strong!

Answer 8

First, you need to love yourself.
Second, hurting urself is not an answer what u do affect other people around.
Third, if u really need someone to talk to my AIM IM is bottombubb.
Fourth, ur bf probably does love you, but don't know how to deal w/ you being depress.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

dont think negatively!
you have your family and tell them wats up. i promise you they are goin to help out! i was once like that too but a little time in the family really helps!