i've been dating my boyfriend 3 yearhs. he went to vegas for christmas with his buddies, and they went to nighclubs there every night. i was there with my family too, and we got a chance to see each other for a few hours. he was all over me and really really sweet while i was with him. but he told me that he almost went with a girl becuase all the half-naked chicks in the clubs and the alcohol made him extremely horny. he said he didn't because he thought of me and he wanted to wait for me. he was really excited to see me. but still, what he said just bothers me so much, so i asked him what the hell was he thinking? i felt betrayed. am I wrong for feeling this way? He said i'm overreacting, and he said that he loves me, and all his friends think that he is gay because he never dirty dance with girls and everything. he said that he doesn't care about all that because he has me and loves me. I competely trusted him for 3 years straight, but after he told me this, i'm having doubts....
2006-12-26 17:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i were you id trust him even more...he told you the truth....yes it hurt you..but he didnt lie and decieve you did he???be thankfull hes honest with you..unlike most of the assholes out ther...who would have gone with a slut and lied about it to there woman....keep hold of your guy...he sound ok
2006-12-26 17:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I recently learned the (hard way that) that I don't have to share everything.. especially If I have nothing to feel guilty about and if my partner would react to it.. In those cases, it's much better to not say anything unless asked, then be honest...
I would say that your bf needs to learn this lesson also..
He has put you in this position and he didn't need to.. I'm sure he just felt that he 'had to' because he cares about you sooooo much and wouldn't want you to hear anything from somewhere else... A good intention, but not necessary...
2006-12-26 17:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just tried to be honest, therefore, you should be lucky for having him as your boyfriend. You should trust him. He is not messing around. He loves you.
2006-12-26 17:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by dragon_2877 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves you he told u the truth forget the gay stuff he is into u be grateful he is honest what more do u want
2006-12-26 17:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by marion r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a guys way of saying he would give up anything for you.....He isnt cheating . He is just a stupid guy
2006-12-26 17:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HAS NOT GIVING YOU A REASON NOT TO TRUST HIM
IN THE THREE YEARS THAT YOU BEEN TOGETHER, THEN
DONT MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF NOTHING. THE FACT
THAT HE TOLD YOU SAID SOMETHING..
2006-12-26 17:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well any man who could honestly tell me that i would feel like i could trust him...dont worry about it...
2006-12-26 17:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-26 17:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋