what do u think of a girl who wants to remain a virgin until marriage?

Answer 1

Biatch!

Answer 2

That is an excellent question, however, in my opinion it's more what you think, than what others think. Once you lose your virginity and cross that boundary, you can never go back. This question is asked more often than what people think, we've all asked ourselves that question at least once, but what's more is that those of us who are no longer virgin have asked ourselves, did we lose our virginity to the right person. That is what is key here, you need to keep a firm grasp of the ethics and morals your parents raised you with and hold you bearing. Simply put, don't have sex with someone just because you feel obligated, everyone else is doing it, or because some guy keeps asking you (in one way or another). You and only you will know when its time, don't let someone else make up your mind for you.

Answer 3

I used to say that I would never continue to date a girl that insisted upon that.

Then my best friend from college met a girl that insisted on it.

They've been married for 6 years and have a beautiful new baby.

So....I wouldn't hold it against a girl. Although, it would be disappointing and annoying in the beginning.

I know I would be much more critical of the person and looking for faults or why the relationship wouldn't work long term. So it might be a risky thing for some couples, but do what you believe in.

Answer 4

based on my life experiences I can tell you that there is no advantage to 'keeping it' until marriage. Your body is there to enjoy and explore in all possible ways.

Besides that there is the concept of sexual compatibility and the only way to know if two people are compatible is to test it out. So many divorces happen due to incompatibility, but you won't hear about this strange taboo. No, people say they drift apart, no communication, the love is gone etc etc. But the cold hard facts is that not every couple 'work' together in bed and if you can't create intimacy in bed then what chances does a lifelong commitment have?

think about it

Answer 5

i think that that's cool because i don't know any girl at my school that's a virgin i know i'm a virgin so i really think that a girl who wants to remain a virgin until marriage is very cool.

Answer 6

I think that girl should be congratulated. It's pretty rare these days, and since joining this site I have started to read some things that make me sick.

Young girls/boys are too engrossed in sex. Personally wait as long as you can. After marriage might be an unrealistic goal, but the closer to it the better I say.

Answer 7

It is entirely up to the individual
There is nothing wrong with wanting your first time to be with the person you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with - alternatively - the try before you buy theory can also work well for some people.

It should be a personal choice and nobody else's business

Answer 8

I think that girl is VERY VERY smart and should not, under any circumstances, change her mind. Such a girl has good values and respects her own body, and deserves a medal unlike so many other poor souls who have ruined their lives by becoming pregnant before marriage.

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with that, it's not just morality it has a very obvious function that it will disintrest those that will say anything to jump a girl and will just move on when they get bored, especially those that just desire doing a virgin for kicks and bragging about it. The one who is serious in desiring you for the rest of his days can wait.

Answer 10

I am 21 yrs. old and I want to save myself until marriage. I am very grateful that there are people who respects this idea. Especially guys. I want to wait for the right person, and you have to be very strong and determined for not getting the pressure from society. People look up to you and respect you. I have high and morals and standards, and I would like to be with someone who is going to wait for me and is going to respect me. My hopes are fading b/c it's a bit difficult to find a guy who is going to respect and wait for my decision. I'll be patient :)

Answer 11

I would think very highly of her. I did not wiat for marriage, but my ex girlfriend did, and she was an incredibly wonderful girl. My wife did as well. If this is you, keep it up! It might cost you a guy or two, but those are not the guys you really wanted anyway!