Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. He was picking me up from work, a coworker was talking to me and he got jelous Is there something wrong with that?
2006-12-26 17:12:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend seems a little psycho.
2006-12-26 17:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with being jelous but some people do intend to carry the jelousy bit a little bit to far if you know what i mean,you know its like this if this if your boy friend really loved you and trusted you he would not have to worry about being jelous unless you have done something to make him fill that way which i dont know if you have or not but anyway if you havnt he needs to grow up and quit being jelous before its to late ,yes we all like for that one speacial person in our life to show us they love us and care about us but sometimes they can also push us away by doing stupid childish stuff like that so if this guy really loves you he will quitt before he loses you,and i can tell you really love him or you wouldnt be asking this question well anyway good luck and i hope everything works out ok for you
2006-12-26 17:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people are freakin jealous to see there wife/husband bf or gf talking to there opposite sex because they think they may be in an affair just tell ur bf to try and cool it and say that u r not cheating on him try doing something really romantic after u say that maybe that will work....or not but thats just my only smart guess try it it might work
2006-12-26 17:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good sign--You need to ask him why he feels so threatened by your conversing with someone form the opposite sex--The thing that will happen is that he will continue with this behavior to the point that you will not be in love with him any more--I know because my ex husband did this to me for years to the point that I just couldn't take the accusations any longer and asked for a divorce--Oh by the way sometimes when people accuse you of something its because they are guilty of it themselves--Why do I say that?? Me ex had stepped out on me twice--I never did the whole marriage
2006-12-26 17:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an instinctive reaction in all of us. Some of us can control and others can't. It doesn't mean that your bf doesn't trust you. After two years he should be pretty secure in the relationship.
I think you should talk to him and ask him what about the situation made him jealous.
2006-12-26 17:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he expects you to never talk with another man, yes there is something wrong. To be a little jealous is natural, but if there is no trust then all you have is a relationship based on physical and emotional needs, not "love", because you can't have love without "faith".
2006-12-26 17:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an ugly monster in which most of us have a problem with..Maybe there is something in his past that haunts him in situations like that..Next time what I would do is introduce your boyfriend, as your boyfriend, to this friend..Show the world who your man is and help him feel secure in this relationship..Im use to hearing of women being jealous but rarely a man..Talk to him and show him how much you really love him..Let him pour out his heart of why he fears this..Sometimes we are jealous of our mates(bf/gf/husbands or wives) becuz we dont see ourselves as good enough for them..So talk to him and introduce him more that will help alot..God bless you
2006-12-26 17:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend have anything to worry about? Does he get jealous a lot? Most men will get jealous when there woman is speaking to another man but usually will not make a big deal about it. Ask him why he got upset.
2006-12-26 17:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is perfectly normal and healthy. Is there a reason he should be. You need to reassure him that it isn't anything and if he is really bothered by it, find out why he is having trust issues. Good Luck!
2006-12-26 17:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his eyes he felt invisable to you. Next time have him join in the conversation.....or tell the guy. I will talk to you tomorrow.
Imagine if you went to pick him up and he is engaged in a conversation with a lovely lady.......it might not bother you at first, but eventually it will.
2006-12-26 17:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what...he's the jealous type...it's okay to have a little jealousy from him when BUT if it gets too far like trying to keep you in the house, calling way too much, etc. That's when it can be a problem...As far as this incident, i wouldn't worry about it
2006-12-26 17:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by classy_uic_chic11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋