Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

My ex boyfriend called me to go do something this weekend but he always tells me he dont want to date anyone. But before we seperated he kissed me and yes i felt something but i just wondering why hes taking me out and still kissing me if he dont want to be with anyone and were not together?

2006-12-26 18:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by cocie1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 18:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by Virus 1 in Singles & Dating

For example if you are classy you'll attract classy men?

2006-12-26 18:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Singles & Dating

I think my boyfriend is acting fishy, but my instinct tells me that it is not another woman. He disappeared for awhile and then popped back up on Christmas Eve. He said he still loved me and that nothing has changed, and has yet declined to tell me why he disappeared.

In the last convo we had before his disappearance, it was great and he said that he was lucky to have me and wanted to love me for a long time (English isn't his first language, so sometimes things come out sounding funny).

I definitely know that him being with another person is a possibility...I'm not stupid...but my heart tells me this isn't the case. what other reasons would make a person act strange all of a sudden?

2006-12-26 17:59:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after having a fight, a friend decided that we couldn't be friends anymore about a month ago. we haven't spoken since, other than an email she sent me saying happy b-day a week ago. i replied a day later.

i got the feeling that she wanted to make-up but she hasn't replied back after a week (but i didn't ask her any questions in my reply, i just said have a good time overseas and merry xmas and happy new year) but i'm more worried that i was too enthusiastic in my reply as well, with smilies and exclamation marks and also an email signature about friends...(i didn't mean it for her, it's just sumthing in general, but she's nvr seen it) she might freak out again =/

i dunno... i guess i'm just over reacting... i was just so glad that she greeted me on my b-day and i'm so hopeful for us to make-up and be friends again.

what do you guys think?

2006-12-26 17:57:48 · 7 answers · asked by jooby 1 in Friends

How can i show my ex girl friend i still like here without telling her

2006-12-26 17:57:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My old boyfriend use to like to kiss me with his eyes open, what does that mean??

2006-12-26 17:56:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my in laws are angry with me for not telling them about my daily activities.i am a techer and i am quite buzy with my work.NO, i don't flirt with other guys and my husband trust me.we have a very happy marriage.it just that my in laws have this very ANOYING habbits of wanting to know every single thing that we do.that includes our 'bedroom story' and little things such as going to the clinic,buying grocerry etc.each time i complain to my husband or confront them,it ends up in huge arguments.we think we should have our own privacy with our life and marriage but this is driving me crazy.please help.

2006-12-26 17:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'd say eyes and shoulders

2006-12-26 17:53:34 · 34 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:53:08 · 1 answers · asked by kurt cobains gun 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just a yes/no question. don't worry i won't tell your husband.

and im 16 so im not your husband either.

2006-12-26 17:52:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who wins sweepstakes prizes. She alternates taking her friends, including me or my wife, with her when she can invite a guest. She won two tickets to see Bears vs Packers this Sunday in a skybox and she invited me. The game was scheduled for 12 noon, but yesterday the NFL moved the game time to a night game because it's the game of the week. Bears and Packers are huge rivals, the Packers might make the playoffs with a win and this could possibly be Brett Favre's last game.

My wife was cool with me going to the game when it was 12 noon, but she wants me to bail now that the game is at night. I live close to Soldier Field (6 miles) and I'd be home by midnight.

We did not have anything else planned that night so it's not like we would have to cancel a previous engagement. She feels that I need to be home for New Years Eve.

I don't think I'll ever get a free ticket to a bigger game than this. Plus it will be my first time in a skybox. Should I stay or go?

2006-12-26 17:52:26 · 14 answers · asked by chicagosports_guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what does a kiss mean if your apart from one another?

2006-12-26 17:52:18 · 17 answers · asked by cocie1 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got dumped by my boyfriend , he said that he heard a conversation that my best friend and I were having during lunch,
first of all I didnt even know that he was at the same mall that I work at , well I really don't understand why ,he was avoiding me
and well he misunderstood our conversation , and said that I was not worth his time anymore , well what do you think?? my opinnion
he jus wanted a way out on christmas eve , what a butthead ...

2006-12-26 17:51:49 · 13 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Singles & Dating

If you are in a relationship, do you have a lot of outside friendships that are separate from your spouse?

Do you, or would you be bothered if your spouse was jealous acting about your outside friends and acted like you did not need them because you are in a relationship with him or her?

2006-12-26 17:51:39 · 3 answers · asked by Middy S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. It has been implied (through small comments we have both made, and by comments and observations made by our families)that we will get married, however we have yet to formally talk about marriage. We just have not had that conversation, I am in my mid-20s, he in his late 20s. I recently finished up a extensive graduate program and he has been working on advancing his career, so the timing of actually getting married/engaged is a few years away. However, I want to intiate the conversation, b/c i just feel it is the right time in our relationship to at least start thinking ahead to that point in time and coming to terms with what we want for our lives. So, how do I go about bring it up? Until now I've been quiet b/c i don't want him to feel like i'm rushing the issue, b/c I definetly not ( i want to send the next year establishing my career) Any ideas?

2006-12-26 17:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

2006-12-26 17:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is in washington state can i file for divorce here in pa. and if so can i doit without a lawyer we have no joint debt or property and she called and said she would sign any papers

2006-12-26 17:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by STOP CORRUPTION NOW 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 17:48:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:47:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So im going to a new years party, there wont be any drugs or anything like that its just a celebration sorta thing. Im planning on talking to the girl who invited me and asking her on if she wants to take a walk (to get to know her better) after i gain her trust and humor in the group of people, so she is comfortable. Sounds like a plan so far right? (if not let me know) But the question is, when we are taking a walk, should it be long, short, etc, and what should i talk to her about? I mean obviously i want to get to know her, but i specifically want to know what she wants in a guy. How can i work that into a conversation without coming on too strong? Member i dont want to seem needy, i just want to be non chalant and confident (basicly what women want). So should i start with small talk, keeping the subject on her and keep her talking about herself, listen to her and ask questions about what she says, then shift it into a kind of "what kind of things do you look for in a guy?" topic?

2006-12-26 17:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by Kim P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just a bad day and misunderstanding , I said I was sorry and I feel that should be enough... what else can I do.?

2006-12-26 17:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by ebby47hayn 1 in Singles & Dating

"ah, don't listen to mother" she always said. Should I talk back to her or not? I prefer nice person but I AM TIRED of her....

2006-12-26 17:44:22 · 17 answers · asked by foxxmay2001 2 in Family

My friends are always saying "oh that lil' ***** i hate her she doesn't have any talent" but i think she has a great voice! Here are people i no who my friends talk crap about
1. Miley
2. Me ( behind my backps: i have my sources!)

Whats there probs?

2006-12-26 17:44:08 · 16 answers · asked by StevensGurl 1 in Friends

If someone you really have a crush on tells you they are not ready to date you, how soon do you lose interest and stop thinking about them after they tell you they are not interested?

2006-12-26 17:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with my husband for 8 long years. Never once have I cheated or even given it much thought. We have a good sexual relationship and we get along well, arguments from time to time, but we had a rough past where we use to fight and he cheated on me and so forth.
Lately, I haven't been able to get the thoughts of cheating off my mind. I can't even figure why I seem so obsessed with this. I haven't acted on my urges, but I have been having lots of urges.

All of my friends are males, I like guys, they are cool to hang out with. My husband and I are both best friends with this one guy and I have developed a crush on him. I have given him just about every option to say something to me because I have flirted with him and said things picking. We also have another male friend I have always had a crush on and I haven't flirted or said anything to him, but the thoughts are there too.

Is this normal and will it go away?
Advice from anyone will help.

2006-12-26 17:43:54 · 17 answers · asked by gman 1 in Singles & Dating

If you could provide for as many children as you wanted how many would you think would be the limit. How many is to much?

2006-12-26 17:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by jesusfreaklv 2 in Family

i really like him (no idea why, haha). we've been on a date every friday for the past 4 weeks and thats the only time i get to see him. we used to talk online all the time and he would tell me he liked me all the time, and it just made me sooo happy. lately though, we dont talk as much online and he doesnt tell me that anymore. i know that i havent really been saying it either but i think its one of those viscious cycles where i dont say it to him because he doesnt say it to me and he doesnt say it to me because i dont say it to him, so it just doesnt get said. the problem is im not sure if i should straight up ask him if he still likes me or not. i think im afraid that his answer might be no. and i really just cant stop thinking about him! should i ask him if he likes me or take what im getting because being with him for the little time i am and feeling the way i do when he kisses me makes me happier than ive been in a long time?

2006-12-26 17:43:29 · 1 answers · asked by harpielingo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 17:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by christian 1 in Friends