My ex boyfriend called me to go do something this weekend but he always tells me he dont want to date anyone. But before we seperated he kissed me and yes i felt something but i just wondering why hes taking me out and still kissing me if he dont want to be with anyone and were not together?
2006-12-26 18:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by cocie1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he trying to tease you and then make you want him more he sound like a player well i don't know him so i wouldn't know but it does sound to me like he just teasin you and it sounds to me like he has a little bit too much pride or you can also tell him that if he doesn't want to date you you are not gonna be kissing him and if he asks why say caus ewe arent together and if he does asks why that makes it obvious that he doenst want t arealtionship he just wants to mess around if this is confusing sorry
2006-12-26 18:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went throught the same thing with my last boyfriend. we dated for a year and when we broke up we continued to hang out and date a little. the first time we hung out... it was like we were still dating but we werent. i think he needs time to get over you. i know thats strange because he broke up with you, but he had you for a while and he got used to having you around to hold and to kiss and thats something that is very difficult to just quit cold turkey. you should probably ask him why he kissed you if he's not interested. if he cant answer, you should probably stay away for a while because he's just trying to use you.
2006-12-26 18:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by harpielingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where a little common sense comes into play.
He's telling you that because that's his way of saying
"I don't want to date just one girl, or get serious with just 'one' girl,
I want to date whoever I want, whenever I want".
So basically he's letting you know 'not' to dig your claws in too deep, because he's not ready for any commitments..
And if you are both young, then he's acting 'very' naturally.
No young man wants to be tied to 'one' girl, and it's rather selfish to think that he would.
No young girls stay with 'one' young guy for long either, it's just
not normal.
Dating other people is the only way we learn about the up's and down's of relationships, and the differences in personalities.
So if you are wanting a serious realtionship with someone, I can assure you it won't be with him.
2006-12-26 18:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you're 'safe' and he doesn't have to pretend or act around you...maybe he just needs a friend and kisses you like a friend, but if you don't like it, tell him NO. Then tell him why.
He may not realize what he's doing to you or if he does, then it's torture and you need to stop it. Either way it's gonna hurt someone....
I wish you luck... [[[ ]]]
2006-12-26 18:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a snake then he must be wanting to change his skin(molting) and if he is a temperate maple tree then its winter his leaves are falling and he will come to you with new leaves. He might have been assigned a secret mission. last thing to do is spy on him and know for sure tell us all
2006-12-26 18:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shriram M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not want to be tied down, but at the same time, he might still have feelings for you but might not want to tell you and later on see if he wants to get back together with you.
2006-12-26 18:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he cant get rid of the feelings he has for u, so he's kissed you as an "impulse", even tho he dont want to date anyone
2006-12-26 18:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I He is using you and there is not much future in this relationship as things are now. Find someone else and do not waste your time with someone who is uncertain of what he wants.
2006-12-26 18:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting *** is fun or he may still have feelings for you but isn't sure a relationship is what he wants at this stage in his life.
2006-12-26 18:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just pulling you along until he finds what he thinks he wants. DOn't give in!!! If he wanted you he would be with YOU!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 18:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by Myspace/UltraFMonline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋