Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

I have full custody and a restraining order... He is bashing me all over myspace! how sad I know... anyway, his girlfriend is 17, he says her parents signed a paper that says she can date him, is that even valid? Anyway I am tired of him and what he is saying about me. He is basically saying that I lied to him about the court dates (he was served, therefore had all the info he needed). He should have read his paperwork right? Anyway he is not allowed to be near us for a few years, he is asking people to talk about me and say horrible things about me on myspace.com. I have already saved and printed all the things he is saying about me, and all the things all of his friends are saying about me. I want to know if I have a case of statitory rape? If I call what will they tell me? does anyone have any advice?

2006-12-26 19:02:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If so, please advise me how I could pursue a career of this nature.

2006-12-26 19:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been thinking about my ex lately.We were dating on and off,and then we stopped.Then,I met my boyfriend,and I dont get to see him as much as I want to.And he didnt give me his number because we only knew each other for like a day.And,now I dont know who to choose.I like them both the same,but,my ex is my ex for a reason,and I dont know about my recent boyfriend.I need help BADLY!

2006-12-26 19:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A woman in distress,from all walks of life,with dependents on her.The man loving her isnt sure of marrying her,but has confirmed he would in coming months ,a little too late for the dramatic sequences happening in her life.He is away from her in another country.Another person comes in her life as a samaritan to save her from being wrongly defamed,and to regain her selfrespect and secure future.He confesses his love and respect for her,she is already burdened with his goodness and being a great support and cant say no to him,despite knowing he as a married man with a kid.However,she is transparent both ways to admit she is falllen for the married man to the man loving her.Her lover is cruelly hurt by her supposed disloyalty towards him,but still wants to marry her.She too doesnt want to ruin the helping mans family life,but cant openly end the ties with him.At the same time she is feeling guilty of hurting the man loving her.

2006-12-26 18:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by aquarian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just straight to the point....My friend and I discussing whether or not woman can ejaculate, squirt. I say some can, some can't. She says all can, but it is with technique. BUT doesn't know how....any info??

2006-12-26 18:59:40 · 6 answers · asked by in love, but need help 1 in Singles & Dating

These are some things he does...emails several times a day. Drives 100 miles to see me. Sleeps over and cuddles with me the entire night. Kisses me for a long time and at random times. Breaks plans with his friend to be with me instead. Hangs out with me in public, both before and after we get busy. Do people usually do all this with their FWB??? Or does it sound like there are feelings involved too?

2006-12-26 18:58:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well how to say this, nearly all my friends have a boyfriend, and i dont. im 18 and i have not had a guy for like 5 years. But the thing is that im really shy, when it comes to classes and stuff. Im the quite one in class. and none of the guys seem to talk to me. And none of the guys are going after. So idk. So wat should i do. well idk i want a guy, but in a way im also feeling left out. So please help me! Thanks

2006-12-26 18:57:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example: viewing the ocean with a sunset

2006-12-26 18:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by oasis 2 in Singles & Dating

Maybe answering this question of course, but what do you WISH you we're doing. Were im at it's almost 3am. I can't sleep and im bored. So What do YOU wish you were doing?

2006-12-26 18:55:37 · 16 answers · asked by Candy_T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been together for a little over a year.his broken up wit me before but he came back to me on his own. this time he told me he needed time to think about if he still loved me,i got really scared that eventurly he would end up dumping me again so i decided to brake it off and he agreed to the brakeup. i want him back and i want him to not say he needs time to think about it.i need him to craw back to me like he did last time.

2006-12-26 18:54:53 · 16 answers · asked by elinza 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for two years and rarely ever have cross words.
But this christmas there was a family issue, involving his X-wife
which lead to words between us.
I just told him she had no business calling here for 'any' reason as they never had children together.
The whole thing was so crazy to me, and I'm still shocked at how
he has treated me since then.
He doesn't talk to me, if he does it's very abruptly.
He hasn't held me like he usually does.
And he's been going to bed about 9:00, which is totally out of charactor and when I asked him why , he said he always went to bed early before we got married!!! 'DDUUUUUUUU!!!
where did that come from?? He's never told me that before.
Something is wrong and I feel alienated.
When someone won't talk, and even ignores you, what are they saying?? What are they thinking/feeling?

2006-12-26 18:54:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

with me again. Is there anything special I can do with him to show him I'm in his corner and love him so much. I need details and ideas on this one family!!!! thanx

2006-12-26 18:54:34 · 3 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Singles & Dating

she's a coworker (i'm only a seasonal worker for christmas and new years). she sent a text message to my phone sayin that she liked me and wanted to be more than friends. after i read it, i started to have lots of anxiety, my heart rate went up, and i was beginning to panic. I texted back that i was shy, and have never even been on a date and that this was all new to me. She will probably call in a couple minutes after work, and i'm kinda scared.

2006-12-26 18:52:26 · 18 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

after having a fight about me not giving her enuf space, a friend decided that we couldn't be friends anymore about a month ago. we haven't spoken since, other than an email she sent me saying happy b-day a week ago. i replied a day later.

i got the feeling that she wanted to make-up but she hasn't replied back after a week (but i didn't ask her any questions in my reply, i just said have a good time overseas and merry xmas and happy new year) but i'm more worried that i was too enthusiastic in my reply as well, with smilies and exclamation marks and also an email signature about friends...(i didn't mean it for her, it's just sumthing in general, but she's nvr seen it) she might freak out again =/ i'm afraid that i'm cramping her space again.

i dunno... i guess i'm just over reacting... i was just so glad that she greeted me on my b-day and i'm so hopeful for us to make-up and be friends again.

what do you guys think?

2006-12-26 18:52:06 · 4 answers · asked by jooby 1 in Friends

Is it something as small as thinking about it or do you have to go all the way?

2006-12-26 18:52:02 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

Men who work in the restaurant business in general, I've heard they cheat on their girlfriends a lot or have a lot of sexual partners if they are single.
Ever heard this?????
IF true why???

2006-12-26 18:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Ever since i entered JH my life has been ugly. Im not getting any better in school. How many friends im loosing. How i think im getting uglier and fatter. And how puberty is controlling my life. All i want to do is just find someone to talk to like a counclour. i do have one in school.. will someone give me advice.

2006-12-26 18:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Jiz La Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

able to support myself and my kids in a work-at-home situation so they wouldn't need to be with a sitter. I wouldn't mind livig in a small mobile home or large motorhome, but I have few skills and terrible credit. I read tarot cards but don't like charging people (& I'm not even a little psychic into my own situation). I am a sucky slow typist and even this message is taking forever.I am smart and likeable and get along with people almost as soon as I meet them. I just really need to take a year or two off to clear my thoughts before my kids are too old to give me the freedom. I love my husband but he is unreliable ( hence my decision to try singledom), so I don't want to be 100% reliant on child support. I am young and so are my kids I just want a fresh start. I would love a big nice rv, but since it is considered a luxuey my credit won't allow it. I am not battered or abused just ready for change.I don't want to be on welfare, so I need some intelligent answers.

2006-12-26 18:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by haniels_host 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can men ask question for their problem which deals with divorce,childcustody and harassment by law.

2006-12-26 18:50:44 · 4 answers · asked by rudy3107 2 in Marriage & Divorce

curious to know.. from the normal thing to he weird or sexy or whatever ... then ppl just vote for the one u like more...

2006-12-26 18:49:48 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

2006-12-26 18:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by ld 1 in Singles & Dating

High heels on a date with her... Would you??? and woul;d she have to pick them out for you or would you go with her to find a pair that fits... Remember, this is someone you would do anything for because you love her...

2006-12-26 18:48:11 · 18 answers · asked by shaaza 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy and he told me he liked me back and were a perfect couple but our religion is different and i dont know what to do his mom told him to never talk to me but hes willing to get in trouble for me what do i do?

2006-12-26 18:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by love g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im Bi and I think that someone that works in the same building is gay. I was on a website chatting with other men a few months ago and saw him or someone that looked like him from the pic. I think he is cute and when I see him at work I just think about him on that site. Should I make the move?

2006-12-26 18:46:43 · 8 answers · asked by Michael E 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a dream of this girl from elementary school who wanted to be with me, but i said no. I know she is gorgeous right now. Im married, should i look for her??

2006-12-26 18:46:32 · 23 answers · asked by George 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 18:46:02 · 24 answers · asked by FearDragons 3 in Marriage & Divorce

need a good life

2006-12-26 18:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by Matthew G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 18:44:08 · 17 answers · asked by bones352006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well ive known this girl for a very long time, and our families are very close, and for about a year we've been getting closer and closer. And just recently, we started hanging out and talking more often. however, theres just this thing that happened when we were kids, where i really hurt her feelings, and now I feel as if she still holds that hate inside of her. Ive been beating myself up about it for a long time now, plus she has a boyfriend. The weird thing is, almost everyone knows i like her, and yet she doesnt. All the times that we get close, I feel so happy and joyful. I mean there are times where we lay next to each other and watch scary movies, and I just feel like leaning over and kissing her. I dont know if shes a really good friend, or shes hinting me to make a move. I mean its just so confusing. Theres this burning desire in my heart to tell her the truth, and yet i dont want to lose our friendship. Some girl advice would be really helpful.

2006-12-26 18:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by stewie 2 in Friends

My now ex-boyfriend cheated on me a year ago I found out about 6 months ago and we have been together off and on for 6 months. We had planned on getting engaged and everything. He says that he has changed and I honestly believe that he has but at the same time I don't feel like I can trust him. I am always worried that he is with another girl. If you have cheated on a boyfriend or girlfriend do you stop or is it forever on going. Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater? I am not here to judge just to get an honest answer. Please....

2006-12-26 18:42:11 · 13 answers · asked by Sassy 2 in Singles & Dating