Ever since i entered JH my life has been ugly. Im not getting any better in school. How many friends im loosing. How i think im getting uglier and fatter. And how puberty is controlling my life. All i want to do is just find someone to talk to like a counclour. i do have one in school.. will someone give me advice.
2006-12-26 18:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Jiz La Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOW YOUR LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.............Stop for a minute, what about the good things in your life? Lets see now you have a roof over your head, food to eat, family roots, a place to sleep, clean clothes, Internet, medicine if you need it, your young & healthy.
You could be living in a cardboard box, digging through garbage for you next meal, cold, hungry, all alone with no family, sick & no one cared or an alcoholic/drug addict selling there body just for another fix!! You could have lost everything as well as loved ones, your pets or your life in a hurricane like Katrina. I mean
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I'd say your life is beautiful compared to what it could be! Years from now when you are a full adult, your not even going to look the same anyway. Everyone goes through puberty to get to adult hood, its a natural part of life. Just take what you have and tweak it a little, you'll be fine. JUST DON'T BE A SLOB!! Friends come and go, all through life don't worry about loosing them, another one will be along soon. Just be picky about who they are, you don't want to be drug down to a lower level, you only want to move up!!!!!
2006-12-26 18:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, youre not getting ugly, or fat and your only doing badly in school because youre worrying so much about it... I know becasue I was the same when I was your age and now all I want is to go back to being the person I was back then... be happy with who you are... If you still feel bad about things tell your parents or a family member who wont tell the world your problems (I know sounds like a mad thing to do, but it helps to talk) you'll feel a weight off your chest if you just talk about it?
2006-12-27 02:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by lorfie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to talk to someone you could go to the school counselor or you could look in your phone book for therapists. Everything seems like a big deal now but its not. Your view of yourself may be changing, but really you aren't. But its normal to gain weight going through puberty anyway. Dont worry be happy
2006-12-27 02:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, give it time and you'll become beautiful, just keep fit and eat healthy. I once knew a girl that i didnt like back then, about 2 years past, and now she is one of the most beautiful girls i had ever seen. Maybe your life is not so good now, but eventually it will get better. Just hang on and hold onto hope. If you feel fat work it off, i know alot of girls who call themselves fat, and they're not. But if that doesnt satisfy you, then its time to be more fit
2006-12-27 02:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by stewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a sweet girl
trust urself , try to make people loves u for ur personality for example
be nice with all people they will loves u and they will never ever look at u as the ugly girl
and second u can make diet and dont loss the hope
2006-12-27 02:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have not indicated your age nor grade level but i am assuming you are a 7th or 8th grader. remembering my jr high years, yea - it was tough ... it is a major time in one's life. you did mention that you had a counselor to speak with and i would definately support that. school, life and all that 'stuff' will get better, believe me! you are in that 'in between' stage .... you have alot going for you and alot of choices / decisions to make! make friends with your counselor and get involved in school as much as possible ... ! i did that and i had the best high school years of my life! good luck kiddo!
2006-12-27 02:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by surreal_survivor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You want to talk to a counselor, go talk to one.
It's only middle school. It doesn't matter anyway.
2006-12-27 02:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to Nates Angel
2006-12-27 03:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life aint ugly your just goung through a phase
2006-12-27 02:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by jemba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to someone you love and trust someone who knows you the happy you just stick in there
2006-12-27 02:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋