she's a coworker (i'm only a seasonal worker for christmas and new years). she sent a text message to my phone sayin that she liked me and wanted to be more than friends. after i read it, i started to have lots of anxiety, my heart rate went up, and i was beginning to panic. I texted back that i was shy, and have never even been on a date and that this was all new to me. She will probably call in a couple minutes after work, and i'm kinda scared.
2006-12-26 18:52:26 · 18 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, she has an 8 month old baby!
2006-12-26 20:11:44 · update #1
don't be scared man just be yourself ask her out ask whats going on in her life women love to tell you all that crap act like your interested in what she likes take it slow don't try to nail her get some more time in before you attempt such actions
2006-12-26 19:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be scared and shy.
Meet up with her as soon as possible.
It's important to spend time with her just doing stuff like walking on the beach or watching the sunset or gazing into her eyes until your heart melts.
Don't be afraid if you have sexual urges just control them, ignore them and find other things to think of like flowers of cars or her eyes or something.
2006-12-27 02:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool dude, let a bit of confidence exude and you'll get through it alive. Just think positive, maybe about how you'll one day be in the middle of a happy relationship with her and be thinking back to this moment.
2006-12-27 02:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Some_Jerk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, do you like this girl?
seems to me, you see this opportunity as a chance to finally have a girlfriend (not that im saying its wrong)
... but you need to make sure you're into her ...
if you are, then be casual about it ... if she calls you up, making plans to go out, then go ahead. ... no pressure really. :)
good luck and have fun! :)
2006-12-27 02:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie M. Ong 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and be yourself ... you are as good and as important as anyone else :-) I was very shy until my early 20's ... I'm now in my 40's and wish I knew then what I know now ... be confident in yourself! She see's something in you that she likes :-)
2006-12-27 02:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by denise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, she'll understand your problem if she really likes you. besides, girls like 'shy guys' , be casual and start talking to her about anything that she seems interested in, after that, say "would you like to go out to dinner with me this saturday?" if she accepts, SCORE! you just won yourself a girlfriend!
2006-12-27 03:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by LuLu<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HaHa, Your in luck my friend, she likes you, dont screw it up!!, Seriously relax, Do you like her? Well it dont matter if shes your first. Be cool, make your move when ot feels right, you will know!! Then pull her close t o you and say I love you with every cell of my body, LOL. Seriosly just be cool and let her know if you like her. If you dont llike her then just bang her and be gone.
2006-12-27 02:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be cool. she may take control, and if she does then let her. chat her up and ask her things about herself. What do you know about her? Tell her you like her to, and ask her out, see where she'd like to go, to a movie, or dinner, or over to your place?
2006-12-27 02:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up to the plate! Just try to be more outgoing! It should be fine!
2006-12-27 03:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down! haha! you are cool! just be your cool self. she already likes ya brother! so, suggest you and her go out with some freinds! people you are very comfortable with. that will help you on the first date!
2006-12-27 02:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by dragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋