Guy Advice needed!?

Question

ok well how to say this, nearly all my friends have a boyfriend, and i dont. im 18 and i have not had a guy for like 5 years. But the thing is that im really shy, when it comes to classes and stuff. Im the quite one in class. and none of the guys seem to talk to me. And none of the guys are going after. So idk. So wat should i do. well idk i want a guy, but in a way im also feeling left out. So please help me! Thanks

Answer 1

Relax. If you are desperate to hook up, most likely it will be with the wrong person. So what if you are shy. When you find yourself attracted to the right guy, things will come naturally to you.

Answer 2

Take it from a man. We're flattered
when a woman shows us attention.
If there's a particular guy you like
and you're in his class, ask for his
help. It doesn't matter if you're the
smartest person in the class. It's all
about starting the conversation.
If not something about class, than try
talking to him about music. If you know
the sort of things he's into, ask him about
those things.
Once you two are talking, that's the hard
part, try asking him to do something with
you. Make sure it's something BOTH of
you will enjoy.
Sometimes just hinting at doing something
with a guy is enough but other times you
almost have to hit us upside the head for
us to get the idea, be patient.

All the following are just set ups,
what you do after the set up is up
to your imagination. Believe me when
I say these methods never fail.

Without actually telling him, unless
you want to, do the following and I'm
sure he'll get the idea.

Make him food. Not just cereal, I mean
a nice meal, not to complicated, unless
you can cook. Feed him, make it a game.

If it's hot where you live, tell him to cool
you off by blowing on the back of your neck.
When he does, back yourself against him
and look back without turning around.

If it's cold where you live, sit as close as
you can, tell him you're cold, you don't
have to be, if he does nothing, ask him
to warm you up by rubbing your arms or
back. If your heads get close enough and
the position isn't awkward, kiss him.

Go to the movies but don't wait for him to
make the first move. Depending on the movie
action, comedy, grab his hand at an exciting
or funny scene. Horror movie, wrap your arms
totally around him during a scary scene. Drama,
put your head on his shoulder during a touching,
sensitive scene.

You get the idea.

The two most valuable things I can tell you is this

1. Make him feel like he's the most special man alive.
2. Women always have complete control of the relationship.

Answer 3

Just open up. Put yourself out there a little. Talk a little louder when you're with your friends to get used to bringing up your voice a few notches. Get involved in activities you like (cliche but true). "Forget" to write down an assignment and ask a guy who sits near your for it (make sure you have a friend in that class who will write down the assignment in case the guy doesn't know. It's a give away when you have the assignment written down in your planner when you ask for it.). Just try and make yourself the best you can be. If all else fails, push guys off to the side of your life--when you don't show that you care, guys get impressed.

Answer 4

I know a girl that was really shy, buy she was very pretty and guys would still talk to her and ask her out. If you look good and dress nice n stuff, then I dont know what the problem is.

Answer 5

Just cruise through life and go to parties and dances.
Love will cross your path, tripping you up and giving you something soft to land on at the same time.
It seems to happen best when you are not putting pressure on it to happen. Just enjoy life with your friends and when someone asks you out or introduces you to someone, say hi and just go with the flow.
Relax and you'll meet someone.
Stress and you'll miss them.

Answer 6

Eye contact. Its hard, but if you look directly into a guys eyes while you talk to them, it causes their brain to release a chemical that they associate with atraction. It causes the Heart beating, sweaty palm feeling.don't be freaky though. staring fo to long switches to fight/flight instinct, so just look for about 5 seconds at a time, look at somethin behind him or around him, but not him, then look back

Answer 7

start talking to guys in a friendly way of course. then, if you think the guy really likes you, take it to the next level by flirting. after that, if you see that he flirts back, just look your best and he'll surely ask you out.

Answer 8

Take your time as relationships are work. you have a life time in front of you to experiance the joy and heartach of relationships. Work on being outgoing and improving yourself. The rest will come.

Answer 9

hang out with your gf's that have bf's and youll be getting noticed. get fancied up sometimes. experiment with your looks, try some new (hot) looks...see what happens. read materials about guys! learn what they like in chicks. definently learn how to feel comfy and confident when you talk with new people...things will change fast.

Answer 10

even if your shy just smile at a guy say hi at least its like giving them an invite to talk to you