we've been together for a little over a year.his broken up wit me before but he came back to me on his own. this time he told me he needed time to think about if he still loved me,i got really scared that eventurly he would end up dumping me again so i decided to brake it off and he agreed to the brakeup. i want him back and i want him to not say he needs time to think about it.i need him to craw back to me like he did last time.
2006-12-26 18:54:53 · 16 answers · asked by elinza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he does love you, but feels smothered when he is around you. When he's not around you he deeply misses you. No begging or crying around him. Just let him know you care about him and you want to be there for him. Give him the freedom he seeks when he wants to be alone, but the companionship he craves when he wants to be with you. Give him room to breathe.
Just don't let it get to the point where he sleeps around on you or you become just a booty call.
2006-12-26 19:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? He'll only do it again. You made the right decision (a decision that you apparently gave him the ease of not voicing).
Now stick to your guns and have some self respect! Let him regret it.. and hopefully the next time he comes back you say no.
2006-12-27 02:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should say the way you feel before it's too late.Because it is worse when he is taken and you know you had the chance to do something but you didn't.You should spill you're heart out to him because if you really love him and want him then there is no one stopping you but yourself.
2006-12-27 03:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Julia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, how old are you two????? if you are young, say jr high or early sr high, there are way too many fish in the sea. there is no reason to fret over a guy, esp at your young age. get involved in activities that will allow you to meet other people / guys and just be yourself.
2006-12-27 02:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by surreal_survivor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime people dont agree on the current situation and they just follow their will. only fair thing is that you follow your heart. if he comes back a while that was the best time to reconsile if he still want to patchup again then go for it.
wish you best of luck.
2006-12-27 03:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by intrud4r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have that little game that you are whipped on him? Move along girlie! Life is to short to hook up with someone who plays games.
BTW, I would say the same to him as well (minus the "girlie" bit).
2006-12-27 02:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling, you shouldn't do it. A wise girl always gets a next BF much better than the previous;)
2006-12-27 03:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Natalya Ch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you are codependant. Go your seperate ways and stop playing games.
2006-12-27 03:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me.
and i got my ex to come crawling back.
remind him why he loved you in the frist place and have fun flirting with him like you just met.
Make sure you stay good friends with him, and if he asks you why you broke up with him tell him the truth.
good luck.
2006-12-27 03:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a box of white chocolates and go for him.... and don't say a word just stand on the door... and let him take the next step... and when he start looking emotionally... shoot him by "I Miss U"
best of luck
2006-12-27 02:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by blues_iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋